• Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. There is an unicorn under my dress.
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[QUOTE=Rammlied;35763906]I don't find it derogatory or offensive at all, honestly. I also think it's silly to want to puns someone because of a word. A word only has value for what it means, and I don't think in said context it's supposed to mean anything offensive.[/QUOTE] I find it rather offensive. It's a term coined by the porn industry, and it's used to objectify and belittle trans people as objects or things. Words can be very offensive based on how they came about. Many Indigenous Americans find the term "Native American" to be offensive, because it was only used by colonists as a way to combine all of the indigenous tribes and nations into a single collective.
Like, if someone called me a shemale I would just say like "I wish you wouldn't call me that" instead of making a huge scene about it. It's dumb to be offended by words when people don't know any better.
[QUOTE=Riodoku;35762241]Honestly, long hair that's been grown on testosterone just looks terrible. It's always frizzy, and it never, ever stays straightened. You're better off with a short, choppy style until you get hormones.[/QUOTE] I'm not sure how accurate this is. Mine was totally awful like you described but having the giant outwards wavy dog-ear bits at the bottom cut off and also conditioner and it's reaching the same length as it was without reforming into frizzy bullshit deposits. You've also reminded me that my GP is taking her jolly time getting back to me about psychiatrists and such. It's nearly been a month.
I'm agreeing with both Riodoku and FPKawaii, I think the word is offensive and mean, but I'm not about to make a big scene about it. I just politely ask them to stop using it. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Tomo Takino;35763762]Someone else bought it, Milkandcooki didnt have a say in it. Unless they asked for it, but I dont know that. Just going by the event log. Sure they could change it whenever they like though.[/QUOTE] Well alright then, I'm not about to get pissed at Milkandcooki just because someone changed their title. (Though I'm not exactly happy at the person who chose the title) I guess I just don't like the word since I've been called it once in the past in a hateful manner and it's not very fun. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] *sighs* I swear not a day goes by without shit like this happening. [b]“Brandi, a transwoman, was murdered last night, shot at 12th and Franklin in Downtown Oakland after an altercation with a man who became enraged and shot her when he realized she was trans. An amazing #oo comrade tried to keep her alive with training learned from the People’s Community Medics, but the cops walked away and the ambulance came too late”[/b] TLDR: A trans-woman was shot and killed last night by a bigoted fuck and the Oakland PD walked away while she died. (Only [url=http://oaklandoccupypatriarchy.wordpress.com/2012/04/30/tonight-emergency-demo-for-murdered-trans-woman/]source[/url] so far, newly breaking story.)
[QUOTE=QueenSasha24;35765035] (Only [url=http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Foaklandoccupypatriarchy.wordpress.com%2F2012%2F04%2F30%2Ftonight-emergency-demo-for-murdered-trans-woman%2F&h=0AQFciHssAQEsd-lcDvoAYf1aeNXDyW2MNtEfCan5-5De8g]source[/url] so far, newly breaking story.)[/QUOTE] May want to [url=http://oaklandoccupypatriarchy.wordpress.com/2012/04/30/tonight-emergency-demo-for-murdered-trans-woman/]fix your link[/url], especially to not use facebook's bullshit. Also, you from Cali, or just follow something that linked you to the story? :o
[QUOTE=biodude94566;35765232]May want to [url=http://oaklandoccupypatriarchy.wordpress.com/2012/04/30/tonight-emergency-demo-for-murdered-trans-woman/]fix your link[/url], especially to not use facebook's bullshit. Also, you from Cali, or just follow something that linked you to the story? :o[/QUOTE] Sorry about the link, was in a hurry to get the story out. And, A friend linked me to the story.
I mostly wear woman's clothing Jeans, shirts jackets and all that, I just prefer the look and shape of them plus I'm quite short, skinny and fairly feminine so they tend to fit and look decent\better on me then most male clothing which just looks baggy and ugly, I just hate most male orientated clothing. I've been doing this since I was 14, I am currently 19 and still wear said clothing, i don't go over the top like tops designed for breasts or woman's 'undergarments' I really don't see the problem with it but some people sure do, does this make me some form of 'trap'?
Note: I'm drunk (again). Shameless Q&A session go. (or add me on steam and come talk, I'm super vocal right now)
I fucking hate Oakland. I've been to 19 countries, 39 US states, and countless towns and cities within these places, and Oakland is the only place I have utterly despised.
[QUOTE=Zeldy;35765363]Note: I'm drunk (again). Shameless Q&A session go. (or add me on steam and come talk, I'm super vocal right now)[/QUOTE] Do you get tips for your tits?
[QUOTE=Rammlied;35766322]Do you get tips for your tits?[/QUOTE] I once got a free item in Vindictus for showing off my (growing) breasts, yes.
So, asked dad if he ever could let me borrow my money and he said "Yeah" in a sarcastic tone and said he doesn't even know who she is and if she is even a real girl. I say "Yeah, shes trans" and he responds with "So, she's a guy." and after this, he just went to bed and I started crying, seems like my only way to get to see my girlfriend was just tore away from me, but Candy has been making me feel better and helping me find other ways to see her.
[QUOTE=Jrock455;35766746]So, asked dad if he ever could let me borrow my money and he said "Yeah" in a sarcastic tone and said he doesn't even know who she is and if she is even a real girl. I say "Yeah, shes trans" and he responds with "So, she's a guy." and after this, he just went to bed and I started crying, seems like my only way to get to see my girlfriend was just tore away from me, but Candy has been making me feel better and helping me find other ways to see her.[/QUOTE] <3
[QUOTE=Zeldy;35765363]Note: I'm drunk (again). Shameless Q&A session go. (or add me on steam and come talk, I'm super vocal right now)[/QUOTE] I really gotta stop this shit, my fucking god.
[QUOTE=Inufin;35760614]Reaction image I made. [img]http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m39d9dIAvx1qa76vro1_500.gif[/img][/QUOTE] Do you still have the St33m mask one?
So there was another photo shoot at school today. I said I didn't want to. I really didn't wanna, but I had no choice. I was told by one of my teachers "But you will have no memories!" (I also told him I was trans before) Fuck off, that's exactly what I want - no memories. I don't have a single happy memory from school. I have no friends, I was backstabbed or forgotten by every 'friend' I had, and most of all, school is a place where I could never be myself without being laughed at. Godfuckingdamnit. /rant
[QUOTE=J. Jett;35767614]So there was another photo shoot at school today. I said I didn't want to. I really didn't wanna, but I had no choice. I was told by one of my teachers "But you will have no memories!" (I also told him I was trans before) Fuck off, that's exactly what I want - no memories. I don't have a single happy memory from school. I have no friends, I was backstabbed or forgotten by every 'friend' I had, and most of all, school is a place where I could never be myself without being laughed at. Godfuckingdamnit. /rant[/QUOTE] one of these days it will be physically possible to hug someone through the internet
[QUOTE=l l;35767726]one of these days it will be physically possible to hug someone through the internet[/QUOTE] I eagerly await this day.
[QUOTE=J. Jett;35767614]So there was another photo shoot at school today. I said I didn't want to. I really didn't wanna, but I had no choice. I was told by one of my teachers "But you will have no memories!" (I also told him I was trans before) Fuck off, that's exactly what I want - no memories. I don't have a single happy memory from school. I have no friends, I was backstabbed or forgotten by every 'friend' I had, and most of all, school is a place where I could never be myself without being laughed at. Godfuckingdamnit. /rant[/QUOTE] You should get the picture taken "while dressed-up", I think it'll help your self-esteem, and then you've got memories to look at on!
[QUOTE=Tomo Takino;35767758]I eagerly await this day.[/QUOTE] Click a sketchy link on accident and get sexually harassed? No thanks! [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=J. Jett;35767614]So there was another photo shoot at school today. I said I didn't want to. I really didn't wanna, but I had no choice. I was told by one of my teachers "But you will have no memories!" (I also told him I was trans before) Fuck off, that's exactly what I want - no memories. I don't have a single happy memory from school. I have no friends, I was backstabbed or forgotten by every 'friend' I had, and most of all, school is a place where I could never be myself without being laughed at. Godfuckingdamnit. /rant[/QUOTE] I don't want to rate you a heart because it feels like a dick move to me, considering how much I (think I) understand where you're coming from and yet have nothing of any sort of value to tell you.
Speaking of self-esteem, I accidently opened my neighbour's post (it was in my damn mailbox :@) and it's literally filled to the brim with pick-'n-mix condomes. [img]http://img4.imageshack.us/img4/7991/imag0008nn.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=Zeldy;35748433]I have 234, second to HorizoN who has 527. What. D:[/QUOTE] I thought you posted more than me? [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Viidya;35748819]Most of HorizoN's are -snip-[/QUOTE] That's not true! Look through some of my older ones, I haven't sniped those and I don't plan on starting. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=littlefoot;35756438]D'aw, you're like a baby Horizon. [editline]23423[/editline] This could actually be misconstrued as me thinking Horizon isn't pretty, hmp.[/QUOTE] No they're still missing some things, close though! [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=DiscoInferno;35758018]I have no vocal range, only my normal voice and my smeagol/gollum impression.[/QUOTE] I'm veeeeeeery good at doing a deep voice. Upside? I could be a voice actor, downside? No high voice. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=DiscoInferno;35758248]I might just end up pretending to be mute.[/QUOTE] I tried this once.... It didn't work and I HAD to speak eventually. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=milkandcooki;35763656]How do you guys like my title? fuck.[/QUOTE] Your title's horrible and I think the word is too. If I get money I'll change it to something nondescript. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Rammlied;35763906]I don't find it derogatory or offensive at all, honestly. I also think it's silly to want to puns someone because of a word. A word only has value for what it means, and I don't think in said context it's supposed to mean anything offensive.[/QUOTE] I've been called that word a few times and it's seriously anger-inducing. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Lulzy;35765340]I mostly wear woman's clothing Jeans, shirts jackets and all that, I just prefer the look and shape of them plus I'm quite short, skinny and fairly feminine so they tend to fit and look decent\better on me then most male clothing which just looks baggy and ugly, I just hate most male orientated clothing. I've been doing this since I was 14, I am currently 19 and still wear said clothing, i don't go over the top like tops designed for breasts or woman's 'undergarments' I really don't see the problem with it but some people sure do, does this make me some form of 'trap'?[/QUOTE] Women's clothing is all-around WAY more comfortable than men's clothing. That being said unless you look literally like a woman I wouldn't consider you a "trap" [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] There. I think I'm all caught up now.
Welcome back c:
[QUOTE=littlefoot;35768187]Welcome back c:[/QUOTE] Hello <3 Whenever I'm banned I get all positive and shit and do something productive. Like I went and did some stuff and all that and bought some more clothes and crap.
[QUOTE=HorizoN;35768108]I thought you posted more than me? [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] That's not true! Look through some of my older ones, I haven't sniped those and I don't plan on starting. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] No they're still missing some things, close though! [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] I'm veeeeeeery good at doing a deep voice. Upside? I could be a voice actor, downside? No high voice. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] I tried this once.... It didn't work and I HAD to speak eventually. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] Your title's horrible and I think the word is too. If I get money I'll change it to something nondescript. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] I've been called that word a few times and it's seriously anger-inducing. [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] Women's clothing is all-around WAY more comfortable than men's clothing. That being said unless you look literally like a woman I wouldn't consider you a "trap" [editline]30th April 2012[/editline] There. I think I'm all caught up now.[/QUOTE] [del]Quoth YOUR RC thread. "Not being an idiot is easy enough. Although generally staying out of threads where I'm not welcome is the best course of action." You're not welcome.[/del] Ignore this, I think I'm overreacting and basing my assumptions on facts that may have changed.
[QUOTE=wingless;35768194]Quoth YOUR RC thread. "Not being an idiot is easy enough. Although generally staying out of threads where I'm not welcome is the best course of action." You're not welcome.[/QUOTE] You know I'm trying not to be negative here. Besides didn't you post a script that deletes ignored user's posts? Why don't you use that if I bother you so much? I mean, I still don't understand why people have a need to go and persistently get annoyed by me when the forum has a built-in system for dealing with that.
[QUOTE=wingless;35768194] You're not welcome.[/QUOTE] Don't speak for the whole thread thanks.
[QUOTE=Chickens!;35768203]Don't speak for the whole thread thanks.[/QUOTE] To be fair I saw the posts after my [admittedly] stupid posts. I think she speaks for [B]most[/B] of the thread judging by responses. I never got the chance to say this but I'm extremely jealous of you Riodoku. Like literally everything is so perfect. How do you get your hair like that?
[QUOTE=Chickens!;35768203]Don't speak for the whole thread thanks.[/QUOTE] I'll speak for the majority then, you can go back through the thread and see for yourself.
[QUOTE=wingless;35768218]I'll speak for the majority then, you can go back through the thread and see for yourself.[/QUOTE] Yes, but see my post above. You posted a script that hides my posts completely. I'm wondering why you don't use it if I bother you that much. I don't want to make any more hostilities but I'm just asking a question.
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