• Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. There is an unicorn under my dress.
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[QUOTE=Jrock455;36749466]The fuck is wrong with you? Shouldnt you know how it feels to be called a guy when youre a fucking transgirl? You're a fucking idiot. And if you're transgender, being called a guy wouldn't be an insult to you? And regardless of what you think about Zia, especially if its so mean [B]keep it to yourself [/B] Zia, when you come back online, please understand its only one person and don't let this get to you, youre transitioning greatly, the thread loves you deeply <3[/QUOTE] Can't help but feel that this is an over reaction.
Idk I think that was pretty over the line with Cotroxy. Maybe she (cotroxy not zeldy) wasn't aware of the situation or something, but still, I might not be transgendered but if I worked for something for almost a year and was told there'd been no change then I would be pretty rightfully offended ofc there has been change, I've seen previous pictures, I think it's just a terrible pic that's the culprit, because there's way more change in the ones she posted before
You guys really don't know the whole story just by seeing what happened here, so please don't pass your judgment on how we're "over reacting".
[QUOTE=Neat!;36749332]NEAT&#9788;&#9810;&#9788;&#9810;&#9788;&#9810;~(&#12484;~) sending my vibes &#9775;&#9775;&#9775; [img]http://sphotos.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/s720x720/484385_10150942319485513_1241887552_n.jpg[/img] guess which one is me[/QUOTE] didnt you do this exact thing not too long ago
[QUOTE=Neat!;36749332]NEAT&#9788;&#9810;&#9788;&#9810;&#9788;&#9810;~(&#12484;~) sending my vibes &#9775;&#9775;&#9775; [img]http://sphotos.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/s720x720/484385_10150942319485513_1241887552_n.jpg[/img] guess which one is me[/QUOTE] Woah, Dejavu
[QUOTE=QueenSasha24;36747319]In order to change your gender in Sweden you have to be sterilized currently.[/QUOTE] Yeah but what exactly does that mean/what has to be done etc
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36750797']Yeah but what exactly does that mean?[/QUOTE] You lose the ability to make a woman pregnant, you can still ejaculate but not make her pregnant
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36748974] you still look like a guy to me with just really long hair. i think it might be the way you dress though[/QUOTE] Saying things like this in the trans thread: NOPE NOPE NOPE I do think that photo may not be the best though Zeldy, I'm not saying the HRT isn't paying off, you look fine BUT when I saw you on tinychat that time (probably like a month+ ago now, lol) you looked way more feminine imo
do they sell epilator hair removal things at walmart?
[QUOTE=Super_Nova;36751376]do they sell epilator hair removal things at walmart?[/QUOTE] I'm pretty sure they do. [editline]13th July 2012[/editline] Also, I have hugely been inspired by Korean Street Fashion. [img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080326_st_13.jpg[/img][img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080319_st_12.jpg[/img] [img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080319_st_05.jpg[/img][img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080319_st_04.jpg[/img] [img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080220_st_03.jpg[/img][img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/7896_1.jpg[/img] sexy guy award [img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080202120195458310106700.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=Inufin;36751469]I'm pretty sure they do. [editline]13th July 2012[/editline] Also, I have hugely been inspired by Korean Street Fashion. [img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080326_st_13.jpg[/img][img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080319_st_12.jpg[/img] [img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080319_st_05.jpg[/img][img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080319_st_04.jpg[/img] [img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080220_st_03.jpg[/img][img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/7896_1.jpg[/img] sexy guy award [img]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f4/raiseplus/20080202120195458310106700.jpg[/img][/QUOTE] [h2]AVANT GARDE[/h2]
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];36750827']Saying things like this in the trans thread: NOPE NOPE NOPE I do think that photo may not be the best though Zeldy, I'm not saying the HRT isn't paying off, you look fine BUT when I saw you on tinychat that time (probably like a month+ ago now, lol) you looked way more feminine imo[/QUOTE] i think the clothing heavily influenced my decision because it looks very loose-fitting and male-like and people would have to learn that you should be honest. i'm not going to lie through my teeth just to make you feel better because you need to know the truth about something or i want to speak my mind. i understand that you'd feel offended and stuff, but really that wasn't a very good picture. you wore very loose clothing which didn't show off anything that changed aside from what looked like hair, and maybe face a bit. i couldn't see [b]anything[/b] else because of the clothes. then i come into the thread to see a bunch of stupid drama. it's getting ridiculous, you all get pissed off over the slightest thing. i even said that it might just be the clothes, but did that stop any of you? no, you all still jumped on my throat like a pack of wolves. i don't really know why because i haven't seen any of the older pics, only this one. i have no idea why some of you can't ever take criticism. it's like everyone's expected to praise you for every single thing or something and that anyone who doesn't is rude and over the line. i think that you're all ridiculously sensitive and prone to drama, you guys might want to fix that, because i don't like lying to people and if this is the way things are going to happen because i said my mind on that picture, it seems i'd have to lie. i don't know if i'm doing the right thing by pressing post, but oh well. [editline]13th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=redback3;36752367][h2]AVANT GARDE[/h2][/QUOTE] lol [editline]13th July 2012[/editline] wait a moment i just read all the posts from when i posted an opinion on what was a bad picture this is ridiculous. [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/ar8Vq.jpg[/IMG] [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/H7BxG.jpg[/IMG] the entire thing shows that you're all overreacting... even zeldy is by having a 'breakdown'. then this just goes to show that i can't have an honest opinion on it [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/kcb4b.jpg[/IMG] reassurance, like it or not you're going to face criticism. the world isn't a giant vat of sunshine, happiness and rainbows. people are going to find something wrong about you and they're going to say their mind. at least it isn't that ba- [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/45Ex1.jpg[/IMG] its not mean you overreacting twat. i was being honest because thats the only picture i saw, not mean. you only interpret it as being mean because it hurt your feelings. i don't know how it feels to be called a guy while being a tgirl because i'm not one, but i do know how it feels to be called a guy when you're a girl. i try to improve myself whenever people find something wrong with me, but this is just dumb. you're basically telling me that until i experience the same thing, if i'm not allowed to say anything/i'm a fucking idiot if i do. throwing insults around isn't the best way to do things [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/LvLWB.jpg[/IMG] you [b]ARE[/b] overreacting. don't you see all of this? because of one line of words based on one picture? if you don't like what somebody said, improve yourself or [b]take a better picture[/b] and maybe take criticism fairly. [img]http://i.imgur.com/1Xgij.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36752523]i think the clothing heavily influenced my decision because it looks very loose-fitting and male-like and people would have to learn that you should be honest. i'm not going to lie through my teeth just to make you feel better because you need to know the truth about something or i want to speak my mind. i understand that you'd feel offended and stuff, but really that wasn't a very good picture. you wore very loose clothing which didn't show off anything that changed aside from what looked like hair, and maybe face a bit. i couldn't see [b]anything[/b] else because of the clothes. then i come into the thread to see a bunch of stupid drama. it's getting ridiculous, you all get pissed off over the slightest thing. i even said that it might just be the clothes, but did that stop any of you? no, you all still jumped on my throat like a pack of wolves. i don't really know why because i haven't seen any of the older pics, only this one. i have no idea why some of you can't ever take criticism. it's like everyone's expected to praise you for every single thing or something and that anyone who doesn't is rude and over the line. i think that you're all ridiculously sensitive and prone to drama, you guys might want to fix that, because i don't like lying to people and if this is the way things are going to happen because i said my mind on that picture, it seems i'd have to lie. i don't know if i'm doing the right thing by pressing post, but oh well. [editline]13th July 2012[/editline] lol[/QUOTE] I totally agree with you, I really hate how bad people take criticism these days. It's just ridiculous how much other people praise you for the smallest of achievements. I absolutely love (The rare times when it actually happens) to get criticized because then I actually know that I have something to improve. But that doesn't mean that you can say anything and think that people will accept it as criticism; a lot of the people in this thread are very sensitive about how they appear to other people and you need to be careful about what you say so that you don't upset them. So instead of saying "You look like a man" you could've said "Those clothes makes you look a bit masculine, but you look pretty good in other ways", while you might not agree to the last part of that example it's still very important that you also bring up something positive when criticizing someone so that you don't appear to just be bashing them.
Being honest doesn't equal being a dick. And the reasoning behind my message was because you honestly seem to act like a dick - even before just seeming disagreeing with everything. And the way you took all our comments, even though you might feel that you did nothing wrong show a little respect towards us. We are worrying about our friend who you made by just those wrongly selected worlds to cause a breakdown. [editline]13th July 2012[/editline] Also what are you trying to prove by [B]taking screenshots[/B] of our posts?
I do think people should be honest, lying isn't the answer here. But I do agree with :C in saying that you could have put it in a nicer way, and if you really can't think of a nicer way to say something that isn't going to hurt their feelings... then don't say anything at all. Constructive criticism is good, but if you don't know where the line is between crit and offensive, then be ready to apologise to them or ask them if they think what you are saying is constructive or just depressing [QUOTE=Cotroxy;36752523]i don't know how it feels to be called a guy while being a tgirl because i'm not one, but i do know how it feels to be called a guy when you're a girl.[/QUOTE] I guess it's hard for cis people to relate to things like this, as you have probably never questioned your gender (correct me if i'm wrong). I guess it's kinda like this: I read somewhere that you didn't like to go out without makeup... so... it's kinda like someone telling you that you look ugly without makeup on, when they know full well that you are conscience about it. It might seem rude to most people, but if you are particularly conscience about wearing make up and how you look without it, then it might seem doubly rude? I might not be making my point very well, but I guess what i'm saying is if someone told you that you looked like a man, it might not mean the same to you as it would to someone transgender, because they are more conscience of how they present their gender? idk.. i'm rabbling now xD
its really hard to find something good when the only thing that stood out in the picture was the hair. just take a better picture next time i guess
[QUOTE=Luafox;36750450]didnt you do this exact thing not too long ago[/QUOTE] the subject of my face came up again also it was a while ago
[QUOTE=Neat!;36752982]the subject of my face came up again also it was a while ago[/QUOTE] do you still want your title changed?
I haven't posted here in a while but, hello people. I guess I'll chuck a few words in. To the people who throw out negative comments, just be more helpful. Not every body is perfect and its good to overcome at the obstacles. The mean people don't have to always agree with people sense of fashion and what not but they can be nicer about it and give constructive criticism on it. As for the people on the receiving end, don't get riled up about stuff. If the other isn't trying to help you they're obviously not worth your time. Just keep with the people that will offer you good advice and everything will be good. But on an added note, it's best to have to take stuff in here rather than out in the real world where things make a much more irreversible impact. People here that laugh at you are only temporary.
[QUOTE=Zeldy;36746834]Newest timeline pic. [img]http://i.imgur.com/DxHZh.jpg[/img][/QUOTE] Looks like a bloke who took his sisters phone and lipstick [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Trolling" - verynicelady))[/highlight]
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36748974]i only wear normal socks :c [editline]13th July 2012[/editline] you still look like a guy to me with just really long hair. i think it might be the way you dress though[/QUOTE] I know I'm 9 hours late but. You. Fucking. BITCH. I can not believe you said this. Are you legally retarded or something? [editline]saldfk[/editline] [QUOTE=Cotroxy;36752523]<long retarded post>[/QUOTE] You can't admit your mistake so you rate everyone dumb and nitpick us. Mature. :rolleyes:
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36753126]I know I'm 9 hours late but. You. Fucking. BITCH. I can not believe you said this. Are you legally retarded or something?[/QUOTE] You like drama a lot, don't you? Lets just stop bitching about this bullshit. It's not entertaining to read and everyone makes an ass out of themselves.
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36752993]do you still want your title changed?[/QUOTE] nope
[QUOTE=:C;36753157]You like drama a lot, don't you? Lets just stop bitching about this bullshit. It's not entertaining to read and everyone makes an ass out of themselves.[/QUOTE] No, I don't enjoy drama. Not sure why I'm being picked on for if everyone is getting upset about it. Besides, I don't like seeing a friend getting hurt and having an emotional break down because someone says she looks like a man. It's already bad enough she feels like she'll never pass and is having difficulties with personal things I shouldn't mention. She didn't need this, and it's even more disrespectful Cotroxy can't be mature and admit she made a mistake an apologize. There's no need to justify, no need to nitpick all of us getting upset about it, etc. Just apologize and take responsibility. Putting justification on shit like this just angers more people even more. And it's even worse she's rating people dumb for defending our friend.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36753126]I know I'm 9 hours late but. You. Fucking. BITCH. I can not believe you said this. Are you legally retarded or something? [editline]saldfk[/editline] You can't admit your mistake so you rate everyone dumb and nitpick us. Mature. :rolleyes:[/QUOTE] you're implying that i'm mentally retarded, a bitch and you're calling me immature? i think you might need to look in the mirror hun. you can't believe i said it because nobody in this thread can take ANYTHING. the slightest thing pisses you off, and you just need to learn to grow up. especially you sonar, you seem to overreact to EVERYTHING. remember last time?
[QUOTE=Appox;36753115]Looks like a bloke who took his sisters phone and lipstick[/QUOTE] Wow really?
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36753226]you're implying that i'm mentally retarded, a bitch and you're calling me immature? i think you might need to look in the mirror hun. you can't believe i said it because nobody in this thread can take ANYTHING. the slightest thing pisses you off, and you just need to learn to grow up. especially you sonar, you seem to overreact to EVERYTHING. remember last time?[/QUOTE] Who said I was implying? I was asking.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36753224]No, I don't enjoy drama. Not sure why I'm being picked on for if everyone is getting upset about it. Besides, I don't like seeing a friend getting hurt and having an emotional break down because someone says she looks like a man. It's already bad enough she feels like she'll never pass and is having difficulties with personal things I shouldn't mention. She didn't need this, and it's even more disrespectful Cotroxy can't be mature and admit she made a mistake an apologize. There's no need to justify, no need to nitpick all of us getting upset about it, etc. Just apologize and take responsibility. Putting justification on shit like this just angers more people even more.[/QUOTE] lol this is fucking ridiculous. i didn't make a mistake. i said something based on what i saw, and it apparently was enough to put like 5 people into a bloodrage, make someone break down and derail a thread. all over a few fucking virtual words and a badly taken picture [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/1Xgij.jpg[/IMG] [editline]13th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36753239]Who said I was implying? I was asking.[/QUOTE] "Mature :rolleyes:"
[QUOTE=Cotroxy;36753245]lol this is fucking ridiculous. [b]i didn't make a mistake.[/b] i said something based on what i saw, and it apparently was enough to put like 5 people into a bloodrage, make someone break down and derail a thread. all over a few fucking virtual words and a badly taken picture[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Cotroxy;36753226]you're implying that i'm mentally retarded, a bitch and you're calling me immature? i think you might need to look in the mirror hun. you can't believe i said it because nobody in this thread can take ANYTHING. the slightest thing pisses you off, [b]and you just need to learn to grow up. especially you sonar,[/b] you seem to overreact to EVERYTHING. remember last time?[/QUOTE] Yeah, I'm done. No point in arguing with the pot calling the kettle black. :v: As a side note: Posting what redback says doesn't help reinforce your point. He's not exactly the sharpest tool in the shed when it comes to playing it safe around transgirls. He's proven this in the chat.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;36753270]Yeah, I'm done. No point in arguing with the pot calling the kettle black. :v:[/QUOTE] i'm done too because i hate having to wake up and deal with bullshit.
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