• I have no friends.
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[QUOTE=:smug:;23705008]Be friendly to people, and you will soon become 'That fat kid no one hates'. There's always one.[/QUOTE] Thats exactly who I am at my school
[QUOTE=:smug:;23705008]Be friendly to people, and you will soon become 'That fat kid no one hates'. There's always one.[/QUOTE] But usually the fat black kids are cool.
[QUOTE=LunchboxOfDoom;23700177]And if that doesn't work, kill yourself.[/QUOTE] Don't give him ideas, from his current condition he probably will. All it takes is a recommendation like that and bam, another suicide to put on the list of dead teens. P.S. If your having trouble making friends at school, wait for college. My cousing used to be socially akward at her old school and didn't have many friends. But she has hundreds at college now, no shit. Another Edit: And for public schooling, go to large public schools. Larger ones are better because it's more likely that there are more people like you there. I have the misfortune of being at a small country school, where there's nobody like me and the retard rednecks try to start a fight if I so much as walk by them. I litterally have met 1 person with my same intrest at school. Thank jesus he's popular, or I'd get no respect.
Meet your classmates. You'd be surprised by the people you might find there.
[QUOTE=bobste;23700043]step 1: stop watching hentai step 2: meet other people that don't watch hentai step 3: have friends[/QUOTE] oh, and lose weight. gain self esteem. and read those inspirational books. it'll actually do you something in life than anime.
I remember sort of being in a situation like that. (Not short and wide though, more like tall and average.) I was always the withdrawn, 'quiet' person who would hardly talk to anyone. A few years back though, I started talking to people more often, and joining in. I wouldn't say I'm popular, but I'm happy enough with my friends. I have E-friends too, but its not the same as having friends you know in the flesh. Theres nothing actually wrong with being fat. Theres two or three fat people at my school, and they are probably the most popular people in my year. :) There will always be people who don't like you. A lot of people in the lower years have actually told other people that I carry a gun and one day I'll make a 'hit list' of people I didn't like at school over the years and will murder. But I don't. I ignore it. :P (Even though there [i]is[/i] a gun shop right round the corner from where I live.) Just start opening yourself to people a bit more, and get off that computer for a bit.
I used to be like this, and then I got an idea that worked wonders: cheer the fuck up!
Go get a job if you're old enough. You'll meet plenty of people
That's ok! I only have about 3 very close friends, and that's all I need. Why would I need more? I don't have the urge to hang out every single day.
I have no friends either. Doesn't bother me.
lol
[QUOTE=technologic;23714077]I can see that you are socially retarded/stunted. All you need to do is be more outgoing. Start small at first by talking to people more and slowly build up a friendship with them by talking about common ground and joking around with them.[/QUOTE] I tried that once and soon found out that the more I talk, the more people I piss off and/or get to harass me. :smith: Not saying that the OP can't do better than me of course.
[QUOTE=simzboy;23699824]This. I have a lot of e-friends and we hang out in vent and play TF2 together. It's just as awesome. :3:[/QUOTE] [IMG]http://thenastyboys.files.wordpress.com/2007/09/nerd46422fm3.jpg[/IMG] [editline]09:47AM[/editline] [QUOTE=killz2much;23746984]OP you need to find people who share your liking. Is there something like an anime club in your school? You could probably make friends there easily. Unlike asshole "cool kids" in school, they won't automatically cast you at because to everyone else they are the outcasts.[/QUOTE] You have a biased opinion. First off, you are obviously in a club yourself, judging by your avatar. Let me tell you OP, when I went into Anime one day with my friend, just to see what it was like, I saw every stereo type that is associated with anime nerds come true in that room. About four people had gameboys and nintendo ds's out playing Pokemon, and trading. A girl with long shaggy hair covering her face was sitting in a corner, a social outcast obviously. One girl had a naruto head band thing on her, and the 2 leaders of the club had cat ears and one had a tail as well on them. They were all loud, unorganized, and just weird. I have nothing against anime, I like a couple shows, and if you obsess over it that's okay too man. But I wouldn't listen to the poster I quoted, don't go into that club, because it's the easy way out of your social problem, and while you will be cool with a minority of the school, all the other kids in your classes will still see you as the same kid. Going into anime club will be your comfort zone, and you should step out of it. Get into another club that is more generic, like Key Club, or something that many types of people join, so you can meet a variety of different people. Hope you take my advice man.
Oh man, two "I have no friends" threads on the front page at the same time. :frown:
You should go to the gym or workout at home. Just don't lose the faith in yourself at the beginning because people may laugh at your failing attempts. Don't pay attention to them and stick to the program.
stop being fat stop being a furry stop being an weeaboo stop being an social outcast and you will success in life plus i had a good friend and it was only one good friend that i could trust and shit he was my best friend,sadly i had to move in to some new fucking country like that guy typed in quality over quantity
You should just end your life. If you have no friends there is no point in living.
Well if you don't like the way things are going then you have to change things. You can't just say, "I can't and I won't". If gaining weight has made you lose your confidence and has made you unhappy, why don't you just start eating healthier and working out? That's always a healthy change and confidence booster. People are often the foes that defeat themselves.
[QUOTE=swordoftheme;23699710]I made this post today just to let out my feelings, and make me feel better just to get it out. Well, I realized something today, and its how friends are important to every persons life. I'm 16 years old and I've only had a few friends throughout my life. I started gaining weight in the 4th grade and turned fat, making me lose all my self confidence and any desire to make friends anymore because everyone I had known then made fun of me. Even all my relatives know that I'm lonely. My litte cousin once even called me a no-friend fatass, and well that really broke my heart. Yesterday, my uncle asked me if I even have any friends, I didn't know what to say. The only person I hanged out was my cousin. Although he managed to get himself a girlfriend, and I don't see him anymore since then. All day, I just sit on the computer and waste all my time on it ever since. Today the only friend I have is, well, online. He's homeschooled and we game with eachother everyday. It's awesome. But I fear there will be a day that he'll get outside homeschool and I'll be forgotten. I don't know what it feels like to go to the mall with friends or even have a single friend over for my birthday. Welp I got that off my back now and feel a bit better If you read thanks.[/QUOTE] Don't worry if you want I'll be your friend.
[QUOTE=-Matt-94;23759960]You have a biased opinion. First off, you are obviously in a club yourself, judging by your avatar. Let me tell you OP, when I went into Anime one day with my friend, just to see what it was like, I saw every stereo type that is associated with anime nerds come true in that room. About four people had gameboys and nintendo ds's out playing Pokemon, and trading. A girl with long shaggy hair covering her face was sitting in a corner, a social outcast obviously. One girl had a naruto head band thing on her, and the 2 leaders of the club had cat ears and one had a tail as well on them. They were all loud, unorganized, and just weird. I have nothing against anime, I like a couple shows, and if you obsess over it that's okay too man. But I wouldn't listen to the poster I quoted, don't go into that club, because it's the easy way out of your social problem, and while you will be cool with a minority of the school, all the other kids in your classes will still see you as the same kid. Going into anime club will be your comfort zone, and you should step out of it. Get into another club that is more generic, like Key Club, or something that many types of people join, so you can meet a variety of different people. Hope you take my advice man.[/QUOTE] I used to be but it was after I met them. I became friends with one guy and a few of his friends. They told me how they had this whole anime club thing going and I decided why not. Really the variants you speak of were all the middle schoolers in the club. They all carried gameboys and DSs. None of them wore anything like a tail or ears. All we pretty much did was hang around the room, talked about stuff (mainly unrelated to anime surprisingly), and watched some anime movies or other films. I think it all depends on the type of people in your school. Honestly though, as long as the OP makes friends he likes to hang around with it shouldn't matter if they trade pokemon cards, wear ears/tail, etc. Only thing the OP should avoid is getting taken advantage of by the wrong people or hanging around with dipshit thugs and low life scum.
All everyone do is feed into what see in the stereotypes. It should matter if he's into anime or not. Even if makes friends who are into anime, at least he has friends. Eventually he'll grow put it. Anime is just a fad after. I'm starting to get bored with it myself.
I have a few friends IRL, however they all live 50 metrical miles away from me, except this girl that goes at my school whom I am a friend with. Keyword: [I]friend[/I]. :smithicide:
[QUOTE=Sodisna;23766024]All everyone do is feed into what see in the stereotypes. It should matter if he's into anime or not. Even if makes friends who are into anime, at least he has friends. Eventually he'll grow put it. Anime is just a fad after. I'm starting to get bored with it myself.[/QUOTE] I hear ya. I myself got out of it really a while ago. I just use the character as an avatar because I like the character.
[QUOTE=MrHeadHopper;23760790]stop being a furry stop being an weeaboo[/QUOTE] These two are nothing you're supposed to have tatooed to your forehead - but rather keep it to yourself.
[QUOTE=Inacio;23766221]I have level 1 autism. I feel you, OP.[/QUOTE] Blaming it on your autism? Pathetic. I have autism, and it doesn't stop me from trying to hang out with people.
Being overweight isn't your biggest issue, it's most likely more of your social problems. Try taking an elective in school that you're interested in, that way you'll most likely meet people with the same interests. From there it can be pretty easy to make friends if you just talk to them.
Instead of having your mind off of the issue, put your mind on to fixing the issue, addressing why people don't like you and changing if need be. Lose weight, become less awkward (if applicable), ect. It's really all about a mindset that will determine whether you will have friends or not.
i know its harsh but get a life....
I sort of have that problem, though it's due more to crippling paranoia than any lack of self esteem.
I have only 2 friends that i would consider family. The rest range from acquaintances to just friends. OP, just gain a few really close friends, that's all you need.
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