• Daily Life V.5: Long live the king!
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Speaking of women... [img]http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lzf3iu0HoX1ro7afco1_500.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=Psychokitten;34705655]You don't have to be the sole contributor of a conversation. Ask the girl what she's interested in, like here hobbies and such. Who knows, it might be something you might find interesting as well. Even if you don't think so, and it gets beyond casual conversation, just try it. More importantly, don't think of women as superior beings that will melt you if they notice you. Think of them as people.[/QUOTE] Unfortunately I have to plan for any interaction with a girl I like and in planning for it take into account all the ways it can go bad and see that the amount of ways it can go bad far outnumber the ways it can go good and just say fuck it and repeat the same process several months later with a different girl. It's been this every year I've been in high school.
Have you tried it?
[QUOTE=TaiwanesePrick;34705700]Speaking of women... [img]http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lzf3iu0HoX1ro7afco1_500.jpg[/img][/QUOTE] women couldnt serve in vietnam shes not even wearing the right uniform how did she put make up on in the jungle
[QUOTE=notrabies;34705698]I can assure you it does, and then as they ask questions, the conversations shifts to you and things you know about. All of a sudden you appear knowledgeable, brave/tough, and pretty neat. [/QUOTE] I have to make sure to NEVER tell them how much the guns cost with our Canadian prices or they'll think I'm made of money or something. And I'm not made of money seeing as I don't have a job anymore.
So then give up and stop posting about it, christ. Alternatively be impulsive and stop being a coward. [I]I shoot cowards.[/I] See a psychologist if you think its really a big deal. We can't help you here.
[QUOTE=TehG3A3;34705732]Have you tried it?[/QUOTE] Never. Because I've always gone through the same planning cycle and came up with way more ways it can go bad.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705714]Unfortunately I have to plan for any interaction with a girl I like and in planning for it take into account all the ways it can go bad and see that the amount of ways it can go bad far outnumber the ways it can go good and just say fuck it and repeat the same process several months later with a different girl. It's been this every year I've been in high school.[/QUOTE] My advice, get out more. Take up a sport (like fencing, lodse girls in fencing), join a club, whatever. If you can't get girls in school, you need to look elsewhere.
There's your problem. You keep thinking about the bad and blow it out of proportion.
[QUOTE=Psychokitten;34705785]My advice, get out more. Take up a sport (like fencing, lodse girls in fencing), join a club, whatever. If you can't get girls in school, you need to look elsewhere.[/QUOTE] There's not really anywhere else here to look other than school. And I'm fucking awful at sports which is pretty much all there is here other than getting drunk and running from the cops like a fuck.
Also could not agree more with psychokitten, I met lots of girls and people by joining clubs.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705756]Never. Because I've always gone through the same planning cycle and came up with way more ways it can go bad.[/QUOTE] What's the usual worst-case scenario?
[QUOTE=TehG3A3;34705796]There's your problem. You keep thinking about the bad and blow it out of proportion.[/QUOTE] There are more bad outcomes than good outcomes though. It's hard not to think about it.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705819]There are more bad outcomes than good outcomes though. It's hard not to think about it.[/QUOTE] He who dares wins.
[QUOTE=Psychokitten;34705809]What's the usual worst-case scenario?[/QUOTE] "I have a boyfriend" "You're fucking ugly" "Fuck off you creep" "Go worship Satan or something you loser" [editline]14th February 2012[/editline] Although since this girl likes metal being called a Satan worshiper doesn't really apply because she should understand it's not about that.
bad outcome is that the girl continues to think you are a weird looser. good outcome is youve gained a female friend best outcome is a girlfriend. so if you talk to her, your status will either stay the same or improve. just fucking talk to a girl.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705832]"I have a boyfriend" "You're fucking ugly" "Fuck off you creep" "Go worship Satan or something you loser" [editline]14th February 2012[/editline] Although since this girl likes metal being called a Satan worshiper doesn't really apply because she should understand it's not about that.[/QUOTE] Is your ego really that sensitive that a girl telling you to fuck off is the end of the world?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705832]"I have a boyfriend" "You're fucking ugly" "Fuck off you creep" "Go worship Satan or something you loser"[/QUOTE] And how does this affect you? Fuck haters man, they're not important. [IMG]http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/40393_148181161863491_100000148232080_480474_4417353_n.jpg[/IMG] That's me on the right. I wore tripp pants every single day of high school(minus 3 where I had to wear a suit). Plenty of people hated and feared me for no reason, and I didn't give a shit. I made lots of friends and talked to plenty of ladies, and my school didn't have any goth girls in it either.
[QUOTE=Psychokitten;34705863]Is your ego really that sensitive that a girl telling you to fuck off is the end of the world?[/QUOTE] No, those are just all the things that I think would realistically happen. Also getting friendzoned.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705883]No, those are just all the things that I think would realistically happen. Also getting friendzoned.[/QUOTE] You won't learn if you won't try.
I think one of my major problems is that my school is one of those stereotypical rich suburban white kid schools.
[QUOTE=notrabies;34705873]And how does this affect you? Fuck haters man, they're not important. [IMG]http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/40393_148181161863491_100000148232080_480474_4417353_n.jpg[/IMG] That's me on the right. I wore tripp pants every single day of high school(minus 3 where I had to wear a suit). Plenty of people hated and feared me for no reason, and I didn't give a shit. I made lots of friends and talked to plenty of ladies, and my school didn't have any goth girls in it either.[/QUOTE] lol man those pants i dont hate you and honestly i dont care but ahahahahahhaha
I think the guy with the bloodstained shirt is creepier
fuck this girl shit lets talk about music now WHAT IS YOUR OPINION OF THIS KIND OF MUSIC [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HARfCMHfPOM[/media] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uv38m36-nsU[/media] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r4eWOZaKyGA[/media]
[QUOTE=TehG3A3;34705961]I think the guy with the bloodstained shirt is creepier[/QUOTE] It was for a convention, he had a zombie thing going on that he normally does when he's not Pyramid Head. Hunting Game makes the situation much sillier. As for Butler, we already have enough things to laugh about you for, so its cool if you think my pants are dumb.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705948]I think one of my major problems is that my school is one of those stereotypical rich suburban white kid schools.[/QUOTE] So what? People manage to find girlfriends/boyfriends in those schools all the time.
[QUOTE=Psychokitten;34705996]So what? People manage to find girlfriends/boyfriends in those schools all the time.[/QUOTE] If they're stereotypical rich suburban white kids. I could count on one hand the amount of girls in this school who don't fit this stereotype too.
my school is mainly blue collar and white trash pure michigan
There are more guys who don't fit the stereotype than girls.
BLAH BLAH BLAH MUSIC IS GR8
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