• If you have a girlfriend, and fap to porn, is that bad?
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It was a question on my mind today.
no.. why? .. watch it with your girlfriend
Not really. But it might mean that you don't screw her enough.
There will be different opinions on this topic but personally i think that it is ok.
No. I think it's safe to say that as long as there's no touching, it doesn't count as betrayal.
Why would it be bad? It's a good substitution when she's not around. Beats doing it with other women.
It's not bad, it's just that you might lose sexual interest in her.
Nope.
No nothing's wrong in it. But if she is giving you head, hand or having sex with her, I'd recommend you to only fap if you're absolutely in need. The orgasm is much better the longer you wait (of couse there's a limit), and then having it with her. Some girls would love if you can hold it for them, just to have an even better and longer orgasm with them. I usually do it if there's a long time till I'm seeing my girlfriend again. This'll require you to be able to hold your load too when she's giving or you're having sex. I think most guys get off easier if they wait long between it, but I'm not sure.
Even married people view porn.
I think it's okay. Just some people end up wanting to try what they see with their partner. That might not go to well with your partner, depending on how they feel about it.
[QUOTE=Blackwater;25702796]No nothing's wrong in it. But if she is giving you head, hand or having sex with her, I'd recommend you to only fap if you're absolutely in need. The orgasm is much better the longer you wait (of couse there's a limit), and then having it with her. Some girls would love if you can hold it for them, just to have an even better and longer orgasm with them. I usually do it if there's a long time till I'm seeing my girlfriend again. This'll require you to be able to hold your load too when she's giving or you're having sex. I think most guys get off easier if they wait long between it, but I'm not sure.[/QUOTE] Ok it may be a month or so before I see her, so I may need to fap at least once.
do it often, if you orgasm less than 3 times in a month or more than five times in a week, youre at a higher risk of prostate cancer
I don't like it when my guy watches porn, but I understand why he would. I think it's okay.
[QUOTE=professor cool.;25705362]do it often, if you orgasm less than 3 times in a month or more than five times in a week, youre at a higher risk of prostate cancer[/QUOTE] Seriously? More than five times a week? I fap like 2-3 times a day...
[QUOTE=-ZeeBo-;25705462]Seriously? More than five times a week? I fap like 2-3 times a day...[/QUOTE] thats probably no good i dunno, thats just what i heard today
[QUOTE=-ZeeBo-;25705462]Seriously? More than five times a week? I fap like 2-3 times a day...[/QUOTE] The last part was bullshit. But the first part stands. Also how old are you, 10? Fuckin-A. 3 times a day. Pahaha.
[QUOTE=RayDark;25705610]The last part was bullshit. But the first part stands. Also how old are you, 10? Fuckin-A. 3 times a day. Pahaha.[/QUOTE] I can't begin to explain how that makes no sense.
[QUOTE=Mobon1;25705775]I can't begin to explain how that makes no sense.[/QUOTE] Read the post he quoted, you silly.
[QUOTE=RayDark;25705835]Read the post he quoted, you silly.[/QUOTE] i think he means that when youre 10 youre not gonna be jerking off at all, what with the whole not-having-hit-puberty-yet.
Oh... You all are so gullible.
No it's not. You don't know it, but she's masturbating behind your back too, because girls want to have orgasms too every now and then. If you think it's wrong fap only when she's having her periods.
Nah, not really.
As long as your relationship is still healthy, then no
[QUOTE=EvilMelon;25705318]Ok it may be a month or so before I see her, so I may need to fap at least once.[/QUOTE] The least amount of time between every time I meet my GF is a week, and I fap at least every day when she's not around (when we meet we sleep over at her or my place for 1-2 days).
Why would you rather watch porn and beat off by yourself rather than screw your girlfriend? Next time you're horny, fuck her, not your hand. And yeah, porn is a big problem in relationships. Marriages, anyways. [editline]28th October 2010[/editline] To make it clear: porn is bad for relationships. masturbation isn't.
I don't think it's a problem. I'd rather someone get off to porn instead of cheat. Aslong as your faithful to your girlfriend, go ahead.
[QUOTE=Medley;25712873]I don't think it's a problem. I'd rather someone get off to porn instead of cheat. Aslong as your faithful to your girlfriend, go ahead.[/QUOTE] It's basically the same thing as cheating if you think about it. Most women don't like the idea of their BF/husband looking at other women. Mostly because it makes the woman feel like their too inadequate because their man is jacking off to other women, thinking about sex with that woman.
If she's not giving you sex, then it's ok.
[QUOTE=BURG;25713551]It's basically the same thing as cheating if you think about it. Most women don't like the idea of their BF/husband looking at other women. Mostly because it makes the woman feel like their too inadequate because their man is jacking off to other women, thinking about sex with that woman.[/QUOTE] Yeah, I can understand that. But personally, if I'm not around to please my boyfriend I would prefer he did that instead of sleep with another person. It really depends on how open the relationship is. I know at the end of the day my boyfriend loves me. Also, I don't consider that cheating persay. It's a picture or a video. The girl in that image isn't touching him. She's not coeing his name out. She's doing a personal act yes but it's very impersonal if it's being sold and distributed. It's not directed just at him it's directed to a mass.
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