Well a couple days ago it was the first day of my senior year and I saw this girl that was amazingly attractive. (Get ready for a boering story) Well I remember seeing her in my freshman year and she wasn't this attractive. I always just thought of her as just another girl. Now she is in the spotlight of my thoughts. Me and her are almost exactlty the same. We had these introductions we had to do with partners and introduce ourselves in front of the class. Chart of what we liked:
Her:
Did over summer:Camped
Interests:Heavy Metal
Favorite color:Black
Hobbys:Going to the beach
Me:
Did over summer:Camped
Interests:Metal
Favor color:Black
Hobby:Electric guitar
I'm not emo and neither is she I'm guessing most of you would presume so. We both have blonde hair and wear a lot of different colors. I feel like a stalker...
The problem is she went first so in class when it was my turn to go I was trying to change it up so it didn't seem like I copied her to flirt. So I made up lies and said I went to florida over summer and liked the color green and my hobby was sports.
So basically today on the bus she was walking on and I was sitting down and she gave me this look. It was a kinky sort of smile look with her eyes sort of closed. I thought that was a signal telling me she liked me but I have no clue. At other times of the day she wouldn't even throw a glance at me.
She started popping her gum on the bus in the seat in front of me. So I thought maybe I should start popping mine but then I thought to myself "No dude your a fucking retard." When ever I tell my friends about girls I like they tell me to make a move and talk to them or add them on facebook or myspace. I don't even use those websites I think there stupid and pointless.
Literally whenever I am next to her in a class I want to say something but a thunder cloud rolls in over my brain and washes over my thoughts making it all studdering crap and useless shit. I really need help with my shyness with girls. I always think of the worst that could happen. Like someone overhearing me and laughing as the girl turns me a down and calls me a fucktard.
That's all I can think about when I'm about to talk to a girl I like. All other girls I don't have this problem with it's just the ones I'm attracted to. I'm not asking facepunch to be my personal social army. I'm only asking for a way to overcome this.
This has been an issue ever since 8th grade for some reason. It just started to happen when I started to care about what I looked like and all that junk. What I'm asking for is what should I say when I see her? I don't even know her and have never spoken a word to her. How would I start a conversation with her without it being awkward? Please help...
Can a moderator move this I've never even seen the love advice forum..
Actually just let this die ill repost
Strike up a conversation about heavy metal then ask her on a date seriously OP if she says no nobody's gonna die
tell her you love her and shes everything you wanted and more
You sound like your typical angsty hardcore teenager.
[QUOTE=CoolCorky;24497277]Strike up a conversation about heavy metal then ask her on a date seriously OP if she says no nobody's gonna die[/QUOTE]
This. Fucking this.
Well since this thread is getting more replys then Love advice i'll just use this one.
On topic:
CoolCorky I'm going to try this. Will post results tomorrow.
Ask her what bands she likes, and keep going from there.
yeah you can ask her right away or.. just talk to her first? Talk to her a couple of times about mutual interest, then ask her on a date.
It sounds easy but when it happens it becomes difficult.
Listen to your goddamn friends.
If it's last year of your school. I would better suggest not to pay attention on anything else than school. I have last year now and I threw away everything I really used to enjoy for a moment except PC for 2 hours every evening. It will be hard but well this will decide your future. If it's not your last year, then try to find her online start talking online etc.. beause online people are always more brave. Once you kind of know each other even if you are in same school you can start talking in real. ( That method worked for me once )
This isn't the typical girl. She is sort of stuck up and has the "I shouldn't be here" attitude. That's why I don't know what she wants to hear.
[QUOTE=White;24497034] She started popping her gum on the bus in the seat in front of me. So I thought maybe I should start popping mine but then I thought to myself "No dude your a fucking retard." [/QUOTE]
Was hilarious to me
Put your dick in her butt
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