Basically i'm a 17 year old coming up 18 who's still in his first year of college because i fucked up the last college i went to by choosing completely the wrong subjects.
now i'm at a new college i'm doing a course i enjoy and was doing pretty well at the start of the college year (September) but i've lost all motivation to do work, i'm already on the first disciplinary stage as of last week which means i have 1 more chance before i'm gone from yet another college. all i ever want to do at home is play pc games or go out with mates, how the fuck can i get myself in the mindset of work?
really frustrating because my laziness is potentially fucking up my entire life and i'm sure i'm not the only one who is doing/done this. i took anti-depressants for a while and they helped my concentration by making me think less about random shit but then they started making me not give a fuck about anything so anything like that is out of the question. need advice asap (at home now supposed to be doing work)
Find something you enjoy in school, e.g computer design, and just concentrate on that.
stop being a lazy fuck
[QUOTE=Kalkka;27326337]stop being a lazy fuck[/QUOTE]
it's hard to just stop being lazy. that's like telling a mental person to stop being a spastic.
Just remember you only live once. Do you want to be 30 years old, single and playing PC games all day? Life is about being able to maintain a happy and healthy lifestyle with a job, somewhere to live, and people to be around. These are the things you have to work for. If you are going to sit on your fat lazy ass all day you won't achieve any of this and your life will have been worthless. Go to college with the ambitions of doing something you love. Get out of the house and start working of the one life you're going to lead.
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You should force yourself to start doing all of the schoolwork you get as good as possible because it's awesome. Isn't it amazing when you get highest grade on an essay you wrote? PC gaming isn't that much fun really, eventually you'll realise that. There is so much more to the world. What do you want to do for the rest of your life, what do you want to work with? Think of that, think of how awesome it will be and how amazing the road there will be.
[QUOTE=darcy010;27326576]Just remember you only live once.[b] Do you want to be 30 years old, single and playing PC games all day?[/b] Life is about being able to maintain a happy and healthy lifestyle with a job, somewhere to live, and people to be around. These are the things you have to work for. If you are going to sit on your fat lazy ass all day you won't achieve any of this and your life will have been worthless. Go to college with the ambitions of doing something you love. Get out of the house and start working of the one life you're going to lead.[/QUOTE]
What's the problem with that ?
:sigh:
This is your only chance in life. You want to blow it, that's your loss.
get money
earn bitches
That's your motivation.
let me know if you think of something. laziness is the bane of my existence.
To be honest. My life totally sucked, but one day, i woke up and told myself that i was a looser and that i'Ve never did something good in my life. That was my motivation. I wanted to change to prove myself i could be better.
Maybe college is not for you. Find something else to do with your life that you enjoy. Try to get a job playing/testing computer games!
I read a thread about masturbation on Facepunch some time ago. Supposedly, if you fap no more and no less than once a week, you should be much more productive, and get shit done in minutes.
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For example, I've introduced a new thing in my weekly routine called "Happy Fappy Friday" :razz::fh:
[QUOTE=matrix_1995;27327870]I read a thread about masturbation on Facepunch some time ago. Supposedly, if you fap no more and no less than once a week, you should be much more productive, and get shit done in minutes.[/QUOTE]
What is this i dont even
[QUOTE=matrix_1995;27327870]I read a thread about masturbation on Facepunch some time ago. Supposedly, if you fap no more and no less than once a week, you should be much more productive, and get shit done in minutes.[/QUOTE]
It's been said that men need a minimum of 3 ''unloading'' a week. Else, it's bad for their health.
eat healthy
get a good sleep/get up schedule + stick to it
keep a clean home/dorm
take thorough showers everyday
brush teeth throughly everyday + floss
get off of facepunch
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If you can't do that: Join the military.
It's not bad, you're not going to die, it'll completely turn your life around.
[QUOTE=PlamZ;27328117]It's been said that men need a minimum of 3 ''unloading'' a week. Else, it's bad for their health.[/QUOTE]
biggest bullshit I've ever heard
get a girlfriend
Get rid of your PC and burn it or give it to someone to lockup if your addiction is that bad. Otherwise only you your self will be able to find it. It took me nearly becoming homeless to realize just how good I had it.
Also if you really don't want to go to school or get a better education then don't waste your money and put your self in debt. Do what you want to do with your life and not what other people tell you what you should. Theres never going to be a magic "fix" that suddenly makes it all better, you have to work towards it.
[QUOTE=BrQ;27328570]biggest bullshit I've ever heard
get a girlfriend[/QUOTE]
It's not Bullshit, you read on internet dude. And i'm not speaking about Masturbation but general sex that lead to Climax.
[QUOTE=PlamZ;27328639]It's not Bullshit, you read on internet dude. And i'm not speaking about Masturbation but general sex that lead to Climax.[/QUOTE]
source please
You want motivation? Read this: [url]http://www.taoism.net/articles/seizeday.htm[/url]
Changed my attitude.
[quote]Research summarized in a 2007 article in Sexual and Relationship Therapy found that masturbation may help men by:
— Improving his immune system’s functioning.
— Building his resistance to prostate gland infection.
— Making for a healthier prostate.
Australian researchers have reported that frequent masturbation may lower a man’s risk of developing prostate cancer. A survey of men found the more frequently a man masturbates between the ages of 20 and 50, the less likely they are to get prostate cancer. [b]In fact, those who masturbated more than five times a week were one-third less likely to develop prostate cancer.[/b]
Read more: [url]http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,401722,00.html#ixzz1AeOg6EhZ[/url]
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[QUOTE=PlamZ;27328886][/QUOTE]
What part says that it's actually unhealthy when you masturbate less?
take LSD, and have an epiphany
[QUOTE=BrQ;27328970]What part says that it's actually unhealthy when you masturbate less?[/QUOTE]
Because not masturbating allows the carcinogenic fluids to build up in your prostate, increasing chances of cancer.
[QUOTE=Ihades;27328864]You want motivation? Read this: [url]http://www.taoism.net/articles/seizeday.htm[/url]
Changed my attitude.[/QUOTE]
:smith:
Smoke weed and lie in bed all day, that's how I got the motivation to become the fine, contributing member of society that I am today.
If you didnt fap for a year that would actually be quite unhealthy, for reasons stated above.
[img]http://images2.memegenerator.net/ImageMacro/4420361/Life-is-a-bitch-MAKE-IT-YOURS.jpg?imageSize=Medium&generatorName=Courage-Wolf[/img]
what more do you need?
Step 1: Buy a Trench coat
Step 2:Masterbate in everyone's face
Step 3:You are now a success in life
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