• How Do I Become An Interesting Person?
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I never have anything to say in social situations and I think I'm coming across as boring and mundane. What makes an interesting person and how do I become one and make people like me more so I get invited to parties and make more friends?
Just disagree with everyone on everything and back it up with made up stories and facts. People will think you're edgy and cool and they'll want to hear your opinion on everything.
Have hobbies. Get good at little things that don't even matter. Remember an interesting story. Sometimes I just hang around one of the bars on my university campus and beat random people at table football while drunk. Being interesting doesn't matter as much as having fun. :v: You're probably not as boring as you think.
[QUOTE=MintyMginty;32945319]I never have anything to say in social situations and I think I'm coming across as boring and mundane. What makes an interesting person and how do I become one and make people like me more so I get invited to parties and make more friends?[/QUOTE] Get a hobby or something, it's a great way to kick off a conversation.
Be nice, talk to people, do nice things. Easy.
Find out what other people are interested in, like hobbies or sports, then try and take an interest in it yourself. If you don't have much to say, ask questions about it and get them talking.
Well I'm a guitarist, but I got to a music school that's like 60% guitarists so it's kind of redundant. I mean, I get rated a lot of funnies here (that shit matters.) But I can't be witty in real life. Dry humour is kind of lost on the 16 - 18 crowd and honestly it takes me ages to decide what I'm typing so I'm not nearly quick enough for an actual conversation.
Become wealthy and pay others to be interesting for you.
[QUOTE=MintyMginty;32945482]Well I'm a guitarist, but I got to a music school that's like 60% guitarists so it's kind of redundant.[/QUOTE] It feels like everyone plays guitar these days play something awesome and handheld like the harmonica
I was the same, I just kicked myself in the ass and got myself into conversations. I'm finally being accepted as a funny-person in the family, and I'm already a big part in my circle-o-mates.
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ONNaVbNve4w[/media] check it out, if you can ever do this you will be better than jesus [editline]24th October 2011[/editline] obviously you will never be as good as this guy, but you can at least try [editline]24th October 2011[/editline] maybe the start of this song would be a good target [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gMMgIqW9vso[/media]
Be Yourself.
[QUOTE=Heatvision...;32945630]Be Yourself.[/QUOTE] I do, it's not working out.
[QUOTE=MintyMginty;32945644]I do, it's not working out.[/QUOTE] That's why you gotta be "yourself".
[QUOTE=pie_is_good;32945654]That's why you gotta be "yourself".[/QUOTE] No, this is Patrick.
[QUOTE=MintyMginty;32945319]I never have anything to say in social situations and I think I'm coming across as boring and mundane. What makes an interesting person and how do I become one and make people like me more so I get invited to parties and make more friends?[/QUOTE] To obtain coolness you have to not want it....It will come to you when it's ready
Become a good listener instead. People love good listeners. Be good with follow ups, and be interested.
[QUOTE=mac338;32945684]Become a good listener instead. People love good listeners. Be good with follow ups, and be interested.[/QUOTE] I am a good listener, but I don't know. People never seem to care... It's annoying because I like being in groups of people, but I think I'm difficult to be around because I just stand there kind of out of place.
[url]http://dosequis.com/academy/[/url] [B]Take Lessons[/B]
you become interesting by acting like a douche. listen to some LMFAO, buy a skateboard, get a haircut ever other week and you'll seem like your interesting. At least that's how the interesting people act here.
[QUOTE=MintyMginty;32945319]I never have anything to say in social situations and I think I'm coming across as boring and mundane. What makes an interesting person and how do I become one and make people like me more so I get invited to parties and make more friends?[/QUOTE] Well, first of all, interesting in your definition pretty much is mundane. Take a look around you, most people are pretty similar, look at how every school class are great friends. Friendships are much more influenced by time spent together than actual personality.
[QUOTE='[sluggo];32945745'][url]http://dosequis.com/academy/users/verifyAge?/academy/[/url] [B]Take Lessons[/B][/QUOTE] I don't always lie about my age, but when I do it's normally for RedTube. [editline]24th October 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Bytecry;32945752]you become interesting by acting like a douche. listen to some LMFAO, buy a skateboard, get a haircut ever other week and you'll seem like your interesting. At least that's how the interesting people act here.[/QUOTE] LMFAO have some quality songs but I prefer Led Zeppelin.
you need swaag
[QUOTE=MintyMginty;32945725]I am a good listener, but I don't know. People never seem to care... It's annoying because I like being in groups of people, but I think I'm difficult to be around because I just stand there kind of out of place.[/QUOTE] Ask about girl/interest/relevant topic Laugh and joke, listen and talk about topic. Works for me. Also people do that with me and that also works for me. People don't like others who derail every question with 'oh I did this' and 'oh me that'. [editline]24th October 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=TheFilmSlacker;32945946]You already ARE interesting.[/QUOTE] This is correct, a misconception by too many - especially them computer gaming folks - is that you aren't. You don't need to be a rock climbing jet skiing fight-master to be fun to talk to and an interesting person.
[QUOTE=mac338;32945949]Ask about girl/interest/relevant topic Laugh and joke, listen and talk about topic. Works for me. Also people do that with me and that also works for me. People don't like others who derail every question with 'oh I did this' and 'oh me that'. [editline]24th October 2011[/editline] This is correct, a misconception by too many - especially them computer gaming folks - is that you aren't. You don't need to be a rock climbing jet skiing fight-master to be fun to talk to and an interesting person.[/QUOTE] You're telling me it's that easy? Fuck. No one told me. Thanks. I'll post results tomorrow.
I was just like you one day, but I got over it. all you need to do is chat more, doesn't matter any topic, just do.
[QUOTE=MintyMginty;32945997]You're telling me it's that easy? Fuck. No one told me. Thanks. I'll post results tomorrow.[/QUOTE] Well, I do it naturally so I don't know if it works if you force it. Sorry I can't be more helpful.
[QUOTE=mac338;32946141]Well, I do it naturally so I don't know if it works if you force it. Sorry I can't be more helpful.[/QUOTE] It just worked over Facebook so cool.
Okay, live a good life is all I have to say then. :v:
Fap hard. Even better with public
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