Hey Facepunch. I'm doing a assignment for school and the target audience are teens or adults with divorced parents.
I myself was from a family that was divorced and I can very well say my life is really messed up because of it. However I need to find others that are like me to fill out this survey. If you are please fill it out and help my project :$ I only need 5 people.
Thanks in advance!
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[B]Current Age[/B]
[B]Gender[/B]
[B]Current Status[/B] (single married etc)
[B]Occupation [/B](if any)
[B]When did your parents divorce and why?[/B]
[B]How did you feel when your parents divorced?[/B]
[B]How was your family and life after the divorce? [/B]
[B]With whom did you live with?[/B]
[B]
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society?
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[B]What is your opinion on divorce?[/B] (Do you agree with it, against it).
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[quote]Current Age :16
Gender: Male
Current Status (single married etc) : Single(The fuck does this have to do with anything.)
Occupation (if any) : Student
When did your parents divorce and why? : Fuck if I know.
How did you feel when your parents divorced? : Don't care.
How was your family and life after the divorce? : The same.
With whom did you live with? : We all still live together.
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society? : Don't care.
What is your opinion on divorce? (Do you agree with it, against it). : Depends.[/quote]
My parents never divorced but my dad did die when I was two. :smith:
[QUOTE=yellowoboe;19600358]I think I filled it out wrong.[/QUOTE]
+1 tool.
I'm looking for real answers please :$
Those are real answers.
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Current Age
[Withheld]
Gender
Male
Current Status (single married etc)
Single
Occupation (if any)
School
When did your parents divorce and why?
Disagreements.
How did you feel when your parents divorced?
Happy as fuck.
How was your family and life after the divorce?
Way better.
With whom did you live with?
Both, weekly transitions.
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society?
Like i'd give a shit?
What is your opinion on divorce? (Do you agree with it, against it).
Agree with it.
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:downswords:
You should have made this a poll
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[QUOTE=yellowoboe;19600588]Those are real answers.[/QUOTE]
Hes trying to do research. Let him.
Just make up results. Its not like the teacher has a way to check.
For the sake of the man's research:
Current Age: 15
Gender: Male
Current Status (single married etc): Single
Occupation (if any): Facepuncher
When did your parents divorce and why?: My mom turned gay
How did you feel when your parents divorced?: I was only 4, I did not feel
How was your family and life after the divorce?: Shitty because now every 2 weeks I have to drive 260 miles to my opposite parents house
With whom did you live with?: Mom, then Dad, then Mom, now Dad again. For now...
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society?: It's ridiculous. Too many people decide they're, "un-happy", with their current marraige. That's too fucking bad that you're un-happy. That's what marriage-counseling is for. Tell your kids that the reason your divorced is because you were, "un-happy". GTFO
What is your opinion on divorce? (Do you agree with it, against it): Plan on dealing with shitty times, or save your future family and your bank account some grief.
[QUOTE=squeaky024;19600643]Just make up results. Its not like the teacher has a way to check.[/QUOTE]
Well I want the results to be as real as possible. I myself want to see if other people felt the same way as I did when my parents were divorced.
Trust me its hard as shit growing up without a father figure in your life.
[QUOTE=CaptainSnake;19600733]Well I want the results to be as real as possible. I myself want to see if other people felt the same way as I did when my parents were divorced.
Trust me its hard as shit growing up without a father figure in your life.[/QUOTE]
You're welcome
My parents never married
[QUOTE=Dwatring;19600627][editline]08:03PM[/editline]
Hes trying to do research. Let him.[/QUOTE]
Sorry for giving him an answer then. :downs:
No.
[quote]Current Age 17
Gender Male
Current Status (single married etc) single :frown:
Occupation (if any) Student
When did your parents divorce and why? When i was little. because of my fathers small perscription drug problem and my mothers....uh how should i put this......beezy-ness? harpy-ness? banchie-ness?
How did you feel when your parents divorced? sad
How was your family and life after the divorce? pretty screwed up. But my mother tried her best.
With whom did you live with? Mother. Although I got to see my father quite alot.
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society? Its horrible. more and more messed up kids.
What is your opinion on divorce? (Do you agree with it, against it). Depends.[/quote]
My parents never married and my dad died when I was 13, if that helps.
Yes
[editline]08:36PM[/editline]
They are divorced
[quote][B]Current Age[/B] 18
[B]Gender[/B] Male
[B]
Current Status (single married etc)[/B] Single
[B]Occupation (if any)[/B] Food Service
[B]
When did your parents divorce and why?[/B] My parents divorced when I was 3, after a long bout with dad's acoholism, mom discovered dad was cheating on her.
[B]How did you feel when your parents divorced?[/B] I was too young to really understand what was going on, all I know is that I wished I never had to visit him.
[B]How was your family and life after the divorce?[/B] Basically, mother made me think that my dad was Satan himself, and I was always afraid of him for no reason. Really, I wanted to love him and grow close to him like a daddy, but I was always too scared to do it. When I was old enough, I told my dad I hated him and I never wanted to see him again. He would ask me why and I wouldn't know what to say, only that mom hates you, so I should too. Mom always wanted me to be my stepdad's son, but I knew from the beginning he wasn't my daddy. He was always a stand-offish type guy and I could never get close to him, and we never bonded. When I entered my teen years, he just became some guy that just happens to live in the same house I do, and that I'm forced to call "dad" when mom is around. I really wanted my real dad to be my daddy, but I fucked it all up. He thought I didn't want him, when really I wanted him to take control and be a real father to me.
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With whom did you live with?[/B] Mother. When ever my dad feels like picking me up for a weekend, I go over to his house. But it's really random, and some times we go 6 months without seeing each other. Which... really hurts, by the way.[B]
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society?[/B] I blame so much on divorce. Crime is the big thing, even though I never got into any trouble. As a teenager and preteen, I suffered from severe depression, insomnia, and other sleep issues caused by stress, and I'm pretty sure all of it was because of my separated parents. Divorced parents cause so much bullshit in a child's life, I've seen it time and time again. It messes with your head to see two of the people you love the most in life fight that early in life, you know?
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What is your opinion on divorce? (Do you agree with it, against it).[/B] If it has to happen, it has to happen. There is no reason for a couple who hate each other to stay together for a child. They will only bicker and fight anyway, and that's what causes the issues in the first place: the animosity. A broken household is never a good thing, and not having a stable childhood means a lot of problems for the child to face, but it isn't the end of the world.
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I need completely serious answers guys. I can't let my teacher read what you guys just posted >_<
Thanks for all the support so far though.
Thank you for making such a great post Tails! I can relate very well. I never really bonded with my step dad and he always calls me bastard child in Cantonese. But I do suggest is try meeting your dad for who he really is. Your mom is feeding you her point of view. Your dad might be a jackass but he might not be such a big jackass as you think he is. And 6 months is not alot. I've gone 2 years not seeing my real dad.
yeah np. but why cant you?
here's a real brainfucker: from time to time, it happens and sometimes... all apply to me.
sorry, but i'd have to fill in 3 forms.
Current Age
18
Gender
Male
Current Status (single married etc)
Single
Occupation (if any)
HTX
When did your parents divorce and why?
pride ruined it.
How did you feel when your parents divorced?
devastated. in my view, everything was fine, i felt safe and loved. and i was only 9.
How was your family and life after the divorce?
shit got fucked up... my dad was less in contact.
although he's a pro at fatherhood. real loving familydad
With whom did you live with?
mamma
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society?
No comment
What is your opinion on divorce? (Do you agree with it, against it).
Agree
Current Age: 21
Gender: Male
Current Status (single married etc): Single, living the bachelor life
Occupation (if any): Junior Grade Financer
When did your parents divorce and why?: 18 years ago, dad cheated with women in the office
How did you feel when your parents divorced?: Not completely sure how to answer that one, I was only 3
How was your family and life after the divorce?: Different
With whom did you live with?: My mom and then dad on the weekends
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society?: Don't see why this would be a problem as long as people are having behbehs.
What is your opinion on divorce? (Do you agree with it, against it): Agree, I can't imagine being stuck with someone who I feel is a total bitch for the rest of my life.
Great posts everyone. But can I have a little more information please? It looks better on paper!
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Also why do I have google ad's below my fast post box.
I do.
Nope.
[release]Current Age: 15
Gender: Male
Current Status: relationship
Occupation: None, summer pool boy.
When did your parents divorce and why: they didn't wtf
How did you feel when your parents divorced: nothing because they didn't
How was your family and life after the divorce: i don't know?
With whom did you live with: my mom and dad?
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society: i never knew, oh well. sucks to be that kid
What is your opinion on divorce? (Do you agree with it, against it): it's their choice and kids turn out the way they do because of their ideals. Oh well, they can be depressed or w/e[/release]
Current Age: 16
Gender: Male
Curent Status: In a Relationship
Occupation: Nothing permanent; I referee Pee-Wee soccer games for petty cash :P
When did your parents divorce? And Why?: It wasn't bitter; I was 2 and my older brother was 5, they just decided that they weren't in love anymore and that they didn't want a loveless marriage.
How did you feel after the divorce?: I wanted a cookie. I was 2, had no idea what the fuck happened.
How was your family and life like after the divorce?: Again, I was 2. My parents are still friends, which was very good when I understood what had happened. Nothing changed as far as I know.
What do you think about the growing divorce rate affecting society?: The majority of people who marry are drunk people in vegas, college students thinking they're lovers forever, and supermodels marrying rich guys. Marriage isn't real anymore, it's a document and a ceremony that lasts a few years.
With whom do you live?: Mom (D:). I see my dad every other day and weekend.
What is your opinion on divorce?: It's understandable, because, as I said above, marriage is a lie nowadays. And divorce is horrible when it's bitter; when they're battling for the kid's household, Mothers are always considered most important and loving, which is just bullshit. When my Dad remmaried, he had a daughter with his new wife. When she decided to divorce him for "not being there" when she had Brain Surgery (he stayed at the hospital fr 5 weeks when she was there. Practically lived there. No joke), she got full custody of my half-sister. Why is this bull? The woman never had a kid, is crippled from the surgery mentioned above, beats and yells at her, and teaches her how Daddy is basically Satan himself.
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