• My girlfriend and I both want to be the opposite sex
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Both of us love each other more than anything in the whole world, but neither of us can stand being the way we are. My lover(an extreme tomboy at the very least) will most likely be able to get her wish with all the support she has. (everyone is neutral) However, I have a Mormon "family". Nearly every person I know right now would automatically give zero support and shun me for the rest of my life just for mentioning it.(and then proceed to hunt me down and rape me in my grave) Now what the fuck do I do with my motherfucking Mormon family? I'm way too shy to say anything about it but have all the stubbornness in the world to follow through with my decision.(I am the youngest in my family and in my late teens, I am extremely stubborn) I NEED to get away from these people and I NEED to get this sex change underway.(I don't want to just be some stupid cross-dresser) I'm being forced off my computer now because its late and my parents think they "caught" me looking at porn a few weeks ago. (they checked my history and managed to find the rule 34 thread a couple of times) Now facepunch, I must finally ask you, what do I do? toodles :smithicide: Did I mention we are both great artists?
Wait until you're out of their house, remove them from your life entirely, do what makes you happy.
This sounds like it could work out BEAUTIFULLY Were it not for the family, etc.
Did you and your girlfriend meet over this or did you two discover this about each-other over time?
How about you just live your life the way you are and learn to deal with it.
Get a life on your own feet, do what you think is right.
[QUOTE=RichardCQ;29940670]Wait until you're out of their house, remove them from your life entirely, do what makes you happy.[/QUOTE] best advice yet. honestly.
[quote]Mormon[/quote] Well, uh, I found yer problem.
This is all very confusing...
[QUOTE=Artistic;29940659] However, I have a Mormon "family". [/QUOTE] There goes about 98% of your freedom.
Hahaha, this sound like the intro story to a zany '80s odd-couple sitcom.
what did i just read :frog:
I highly suggest you don't get a sex change. Imagine being an old man with a vagina, what would the guys at the bar think of you?
Kill your parents, less to worry about for you, less mormons in the world. It's a win-win
[QUOTE=meepugh;29940940]I highly suggest you don't get a sex change. Imagine being an old man with a vagina, what would the guys at the bar think of you?[/QUOTE] Sex changes are a little more than that nowadays.
this is a good thing, you need to think about this for a while before you go getting your dick chopped off.
Just roleplay.
Ok then.
Forget your family, they, along with all other christians should be dead tomorrow. (Seeing as they believe it's the end of the world for them) [editline]3:36pm[/editline] Seriously though, just forget them. If they won't support your choice, that's their choice but if they taunt you (Lectures about going to hell for example can provoke people, it's just so fucking annoying hearing the same story) then they aren't worth knowing.
pfffhahahahaha
If you don't think you'll be able to move out for a while, go ahead and buy hormones online. Typical dosages are 4mg estradiol and 100mg spironolactone daily. After a few months you might need to start wearing something to hide your breasts.
[QUOTE=Herb;29941081]If you don't think you'll be able to move out for a while, go ahead and buy hormones online. Typical dosages are 4mg estradiol and 100mg spironolactone daily. After a few months you might need to start wearing something to hide your breasts.[/QUOTE] If he can afford hormones he can probably afford to move out. OP, what's your financial status? Are you employed, or a student? The best course of action would be to move out ASAP, seek a support group, and have a good long think over how this will affect your life, especially if you and your gf aren't 110% committed to a long relationship.
If you DO get a sex change... you still can't be the other sex completely, it just doesn't work out like that. You will never have genitalia that look exactly like they should, and you will retain tendencies from your birth sex. It's just the way it is. Your sex life will also most likely take a dive, as in most cases you will be unable to attain stimulation to the same degree as you used to be able to. Just food for thought.
let her fuck you in the butt
[QUOTE=Superwafflez;29941238]If you DO get a sex change... you still can't be the other sex completely, it just doesn't work out like that. You will never have genitalia that look exactly like they should, and you will retain tendencies from your birth sex. It's just the way it is. Your sex life will also most likely take a dive, as in most cases you will be unable to attain stimulation to the same degree as you used to be able to. Just food for thought.[/QUOTE] This is quite true. You'll also be unable to have children of your own, unless there's a breakthrough in medical science in the next decade or two.
If nobody supports you after getting SRS, move somewhere nobody knows you, it may be difficult, but it will be easier to fit in and start a new, somewhat normal life. also, if your both artistic, you should head over to the creationism corner, try get some of your art up there and geting some feedback.
According to your avatar your art skills are of a 10 year old porn addict.
You could paint a picture about it. Express your artistic and sexual frustration.
Honastly you should just wait it out untill your older and can leave your family, then swap "roles" with your girlfriend, dont get a sex change though because if you stay with that girl at least you will both be able to have sex even if you are the woman in the relationship and shes the man so to speak.
[QUOTE=Error_404;29941205]If he can afford hormones he can probably afford to move out.[/QUOTE] It's less than $100/month. :v:
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