• I have no friends.
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I made this post today just to let out my feelings, and make me feel better just to get it out. Well, I realized something today, and its how friends are important to every persons life. I'm 16 years old and I've only had a few friends throughout my life. I started gaining weight in the 4th grade and turned fat, making me lose all my self confidence and any desire to make friends anymore because everyone I had known then made fun of me. Even all my relatives know that I'm lonely. My litte cousin once even called me a no-friend fatass, and well that really broke my heart. Yesterday, my uncle asked me if I even have any friends, I didn't know what to say. The only person I hanged out was my cousin. Although he managed to get himself a girlfriend, and I don't see him anymore since then. All day, I just sit on the computer and waste all my time on it ever since. Today the only friend I have is, well, online. He's homeschooled and we game with eachother everyday. It's awesome. But I fear there will be a day that he'll get outside homeschool and I'll be forgotten. I don't know what it feels like to go to the mall with friends or even have a single friend over for my birthday. Welp I got that off my back now and feel a bit better If you read thanks.
i'll be your friend
Get Skinny, raise your self- esteem, try to talk to people? anyone not from your school, walk around, travel, then you will get friends [editline]04:52AM[/editline] and ill be your friend as well
Make e-friends. It's not as good as seeing and hanging out with someone in real life, but I've made some really good friendships with people online.
You made me sad :( ill be your friend not meaning to copy that other guy
stop watching anime and you will make more friends
I'll give you a hug if that helps. But really, the only thing I can tell you is that you have to be open with people in school and other places if possible. You have an almost nil chance of making friends if you keep to yourself all the time in the real world. And obviously, when you're ready, you should start loosing weight too. That could build some confidence :]
p.s. i see you like anthropomorpic animals
[QUOTE=ketchup;23699765]Make e-friends. It's not as good as seeing and hanging out with someone in real life, but I've made some really good friendships with people online.[/QUOTE]This. I have a lot of e-friends and we hang out in vent and play TF2 together. It's just as awesome. :3:
[QUOTE=ImBill;23699789]stop watching anime and you will make more friends[/QUOTE] shut up don't ding on people about what they like [editline]09:58PM[/editline] and its ok to be a furry i am one myself
Confidence is all you need in life go out and try something new just keep the mindset that you'll succeed and you will.
I do try to make e-friends, but then I realized something after my uncle asked "where are all your friends?" after he'd caught me sittin alone outside. I can't just say I have online friends.
[QUOTE=JesseR92;23699863]Confidence is all you need in life go out and try something new just keep the mindset that you'll succeed and you will.[/QUOTE] Agreed
No one's fault you have no friends, but your own.
[QUOTE=Frankiscool!;23699879]No one's fault you have no friends, but your own.[/QUOTE] Agreed but harsh he needs to find his group to hang out with people that agree with the same things as he does
[QUOTE=JesseR92;23699863]Confidence is all you need in life go out and try something new just keep the mindset that you'll succeed and you will.[/QUOTE] This. The reason some people aren't happy with their social lives is because they have a preconceived notion that they won't be accepted or whatever. Fuck that. Have some confidence, get out there. You'll do fine.
Wait till College/University. You'll be paired with people of your likeness and eventually you'll find people just like you <3
I sure hope this isn't a troll
Alright so here's the deal, make a facebook, and try to make friends through there and hang out with them. Easy
[QUOTE=Tetracycline;23699953]Alright so here's the deal, make a facebook, and try to make friends through there and hang out with them. Easy[/QUOTE] i have like 150 facebook friends i know in Real Life but they arn't my friends really [editline]10:05PM[/editline] [QUOTE=PrusseLusken;23699973]I know what it feels like. :smith: Want to be my friend?[/QUOTE] I'll be yours ;D
Why do you need friends?
Wow your cousin is cruel.
[QUOTE=Hullu V3;23699991]Why do you need friends?[/QUOTE] obvious troll
You don't even need a lot of friends in real life. One good friend will suffice. I really only have one really good friend that I would trust with anything, and I'm pretty happy with that. Remember quality over quantity.
If it matters that much to you, get in shape to boost your self-esteem. After that it should fall into place. Otherwise, be happy with your e-friends.
[QUOTE=7DeadlySyns;23700002]Wow your cousin is cruel.[/QUOTE] yes but he might not know him well
If you're miserable you should try and do something about it. Some people can be overweight and still be confident, but this obviously isn't the case with you. Start exercising. If you have a recreational center in your town, they most likely have an exercise room. Head there and use the treadmill. Try to get on a diet. Anything that can help you restore confidence in yourself is a plus. Don't be afraid to leave your comfort zone and try something different from the norm. The only way you're going to help yourself is if you get up and decide to change.
[QUOTE=swordoftheme;23699710]I made this post today just to let out my feelings, and make me feel better just to get it out. Well, I realized something today, and its how friends are important to every persons life. I'm 16 years old and I've only had a few friends throughout my life. I started gaining weight in the 4th grade and turned fat, making me lose all my self confidence and any desire to make friends anymore because everyone I had known then made fun of me. Even all my relatives know that I'm lonely. My litte cousin once even called me a no-friend fatass, and well that really broke my heart. Yesterday, my uncle asked me if I even have any friends, I didn't know what to say. The only person I hanged out was my cousin. Although he managed to get himself a girlfriend, and I don't see him anymore since then. All day, I just sit on the computer and waste all my time on it ever since. Today the only friend I have is, well, online. He's homeschooled and we game with eachother everyday. It's awesome. But I fear there will be a day that he'll get outside homeschool and I'll be forgotten. I don't know what it feels like to go to the mall with friends or even have a single friend over for my birthday. Welp I got that off my back now and feel a bit better If you read thanks.[/QUOTE] Thats sucks but this isn't a blog. I'm sure you'll find some people that appreciate you for who you are and have some of the same interests as you.
I will stay on this post until the op responds to this will you be my friend?
step 1: stop watching hentai step 2: meet other people that don't watch hentai step 3: have friends
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