• My girlfriend of three years just confessed to me that she used to be a man
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I have been with my current girlfriend for three years and she told me earlier today that she used to be a man. I don't know how I should be feeling, if I am gay or what. It was impossible for me to tell, apparently her parents spent €200.000 on her sex change operations. What should I do?
If she sees herself as a woman, then that's how you should treat her. Mental projection of your [del]digital[/del] self and all that.
Most people here will say continue dating but i would think something like that would be really jarring. It just depends on how you feel about it i guess.
give her the descartes e: just tell her it's a trip down memory lane
[QUOTE=BloodFox1222;37675165]Most people here will say continue dating but i would think something like that would be really jarring. It just depends on how you feel about it i guess.[/QUOTE] If he loves them then by all means keep dating. It seems more likely he is thinking "ew its a man, now everyones going to say Im gay" though.
Well I could never be gay simply because my sex drive makes me attracted to women physically. But I think inside a person is a person regardless of their sex and if you happen to love that person and your attracted to them it shouldn't change anything.
So you guys do it in the pooper or what
OP had you talked with friends about this?
Transwomen are not men and being with one does not make you gay.
does she still have a penis???
Doesn't that mean she would be more understanding of heaps of stuff you do and might like playing video games etc?
post pics
That is love.
Tell her that you used to be a girl
Bang her. Did it feel good, then no worries. Otherwise it's up to the magic 8-ball.
i find it difficult to believe that you never noticed that she wasn't quite the same as other women... unless she was your first girlfriend and only person you've had sex with
I think that's something they should have mentioned from the start. Kinda fucked up to not mention it to you, especially after 3 years Then again I dont believe this for a minute so yeah
[QUOTE=shian;37675221]OP had you talked with friends about this?[/QUOTE] No, if she only told me after three years then she obviously doesn't want people to know. [QUOTE=Riodoku;37675224]Transwomen are not men and being with one does not make you gay.[/QUOTE] She used to be a man though. [QUOTE=nnoah95;37675227]does she still have a penis???[/QUOTE] no [QUOTE=Stormcharger;37675232]Doesn't that mean she would be more understanding of heaps of stuff you do and might like playing video games etc?[/QUOTE] Yes, she enjoys playing age of empires. [QUOTE=Autumn;37675397]i find it difficult to believe that you never noticed that she wasn't quite the same as other women... unless she was your first girlfriend and only person you've had sex with[/QUOTE] It felt exactly the same as my previous two girlfriends, although slightly tighter.
[QUOTE=andrey191919;37675420]She used to be a man though.[/QUOTE] And?
Does she have a massive clit?
Surely she must look different though... I imagine surgically created vaginas can't quite be anatomically correct.
Actually her vagina looks like what you would see in porn. It's perfect.
If you have sex with someone who used to be a child, it doesn't make you a pedophile.
[QUOTE=Scotchair;37675471]Surely she must look different though... I imagine surgically created vaginas can't quite be anatomically correct.[/QUOTE] Actually doesn't look that bad: NSFW: [url]http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qWjs5A6qfNY/TdN8_dci5PI/AAAAAAAAAvI/hXOjf2mmD44/s1600/sex+change+surgery+before+and+after+2.jpg[/url]
[QUOTE=matt.ant;37675504]Actually doesn't look that bad: NSFW: [url]http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qWjs5A6qfNY/TdN8_dci5PI/AAAAAAAAAvI/hXOjf2mmD44/s1600/sex+change+surgery+before+and+after+2.jpg[/url][/QUOTE] It looks nothing like that. if her vagina looked like that I would probably know something was wrong
[QUOTE=andrey191919;37675489]Actually her vagina looks like what you would see in porn. It's perfect.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=TCB;37675242]post pics[/QUOTE]
If it were me I would honestly stop dating her/him but I don't know if that is the best option or not. This is a​ hard one. You will also never be able to have kids. [b]Edit:[/b] I don't know why this is so dumb? I just gave my opinion.
[QUOTE=andrey191919;37675510]It looks nothing like that. if her vagina looked like that I would probably know something was wrong[/QUOTE] I think he's more showing that post-op looks very similar to the real thing
[QUOTE=Scotchair;37675471]Surely she must look different though... I imagine surgically created vaginas can't quite be anatomically correct.[/QUOTE] The surgery is astoundingly effective. Read up on it. It doesn't matter what she used to be, the person you've known for the past three years is who she is - she's not any different than before she told you.
Is there any possibility she's just messing with you?
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