• I need some help
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My girlfriend has just informed me she cuts herself. I'm extremely concerned, but she tells me she doesn't want me to help her. She's extremely adamant that she can deal with it her self. My girlfriend has a sort of masculine and independent personality. I don't know if her wanting to deal with it herself is her independency speaking, or her being ashamed of it and not wanting anyone to interfere. She also says she has trouble displaying emotions properly. I'll tell her she looks beautiful, compliment, her et cetera, and she doesn't really say anything back. It's usually just "thanks" or something. I don't know if this is just her, or her inability to properly display emotion. I can't even discuss her problem with her, because she just says she can handle it herself, and asks me not to bring it up again. Also, I know, asking anyone on the internet for help is just asking for trouble, but I've turned to everyone I possibly can. If I ask any adults, she'll just feel ashamed and potentially worse, and she told me she couldn't handle a therapist. None of my friends can offer any more help than "just be there for her." [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Undescriptive thread title" - Craptasket))[/highlight]
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