• Im scared of my girlfriend smoking weed
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She hasnt tried it before, but i tried it once and didnt have a great experience. I dont want her to take in weed as a hobby and do it all the time, i dont want her to get really high and kiss some guy or something, i dont want it to change her into a different person or anything. Im worried so much about it. We're both fairly young, and i dont feel like i wanna stop her from having fun, i just get a weird anxious sick to the stomach feeling when i think about. Some of my friends do nothing but smoke weed and they seem so lazy and boring all the time, all they want is to smoke.
Weed isn't going to make you somehow change into a different person unless you're real dumb about overusing it and getting into that stupid "weed culture"
Have you talked to her about your concerns? Because that is what you need to do
[QUOTE=Rhenae;44417103]Have you talked to her about your concerns? Because that is what you need to do[/QUOTE] Yeah she just says she wont do it now, but i dont want to stop her if she really wants to
[QUOTE=LieutenantLeo;44417122]Yeah she just says she wont do it now, but i dont want to stop her if she really wants to[/QUOTE] I'm the type that would sit around with people smoking weed and not do it myself I'm sure if you were cool about it everything would be fine, you should work with it even
[QUOTE=LieutenantLeo;44417062]She hasnt tried it before, but i tried it once and didnt have a great experience. I dont want her to take in weed as a hobby and do it all the time, i dont want her to get really high and kiss some guy or something, i dont want it to change her into a different person or anything. Im worried so much about it. We're both fairly young, and i dont feel like i wanna stop her from having fun, i just get a weird anxious sick to the stomach feeling when i think about. Some of my friends do nothing but smoke weed and they seem so lazy and boring all the time, all they want is to smoke.[/QUOTE] Rofl shes not gonna become some super mega stoner from smoking a bit of weed
She wanted to do it at school, i think thats a bad idea
[QUOTE=LieutenantLeo;44417158]She wanted to do it at school, i think thats a bad idea[/QUOTE] theres probably a bajillion students that have done it that you'd never think would have shit I bet teachers have done it
You could totally tell her how you feel, but remember that its her life, dont try to stop her just because you fear something might happen. Also, about your friends: theyre probably just boring people. If they didnt smoke weed, theyd be boring people who didnt smoke weed
doing it at school isn't a huge deal, as long as you don't get caught (I never did) and don't make a habit of going to classes while high if it negatively effects your work
[QUOTE=Faren;44417215]doing it at school isn't a huge deal, as long as you don't get caught (I never did) and don't make a habit of going to classes while high if it negatively effects your work[/QUOTE] I remember this kid that went to welding class high [I]every single day[/I] he laughed like, at everything, even things that wasn't even slightly funny :v:
[QUOTE=J!NX;44417239]I remember this kid that went to welding class high [I]every single day[/I] he laughed like, at everything, even things that wasn't even slightly funny :v:[/QUOTE] fuck that, when I used to smoke at school I didn't enjoy it because I was much to paranoid thinking about if people knew I was high or could smell the pot x_x
It's her choice really, let her at least try, there's nothing bad in that. You both need to know moderation is the key to everything. If she won't go smokeweederryday420 it will be allright, and i doubt she will if she's just curious.
[QUOTE=MrBunneh;44417252]fuck that, when I used to smoke at school I didn't enjoy it because I was much to paranoid thinking about if people knew I was high or could smell the pot x_x[/QUOTE] I had hella fun at school because I knew the teachers could smell it on me and I looked blazed out of my mind but I never took weed to school with me and would hide the roaches at the end of my driveway whilst waiting for the bus. I got searched twice through high school but eh when you have nothing to fear and you know it, that really helps. They can't convict you just because you look stoned.
[QUOTE=acer8;44418850]I had hella fun at school because I knew the teachers could smell it on me and I looked blazed out of my mind but I never took weed to school with me and would hide the roaches at the end of my driveway whilst waiting for the bus. I got searched twice through high school but eh when you have nothing to fear and you know it, that really helps. They can't convict you just because you look stoned.[/QUOTE] What about drug tests? Back when I was in school one of my mates was expelled because they suspected he was high so they made him do a test. It just sounds like a dumb idea to smoke at school; risk outweighs the benefits.
Weed can change you depending on whether or not you let it; I used to smoke it quite often and I found it gave me a new insight on life. For me, it wasn't a bad thing, I began to become more accepting of myself and others, and made some pretty good friends who are still fun to be around even without drugs. If anything, I recommend you smoke it with her and share in the moment of tranquility, giggles and eating the whole fridge. Of course, there is the potential for negative impact, but hopefully you can steer her clear of it. Provided she doesn't begin to smoke it regularly, your worries shouldn't manifest. Hell, she might not even like it :v: [editline]1st April 2014[/editline] Also, when you say you didn't enjoy it, what situation were you in when you tried it?
How old are you guys? You say you are fairly young. I've started when I was around the age of 14, and that wasn't a smart choice really. I know people who were 7 or 8 when they started. It depends on the type of person you are is what I think. She'll be fine bro, just hangout with her while she smokes, don't smoke.
[QUOTE=ljonny;44419691]How old are you guys? You say you are fairly young. I've started when I was around the age of 14, and that wasn't a smart choice really. I know people who were 7 or 8 when they started. It depends on the type of person you are is what I think. She'll be fine bro, just hangout with her while she smokes, don't smoke.[/QUOTE] We're 15, i think its a bit young cause shes insecure and gets depressed and stuff, i dont want her to get addicted because she might just always use it to be happy
I'll tell you something, I used to be a very anxious person. I used to be very insecure and occasionally depressed as well. I was not strong enough to tell anyone that I needed professional help, I just thought I could sit and figure it out on my own. I started smoking weed at night and suddenly, my life felt a lot better. I was still the same whilst sober, but when I was high, the world seemed to slow down at a pace where I could finally grasp and make sense of it. Here I am, three years later, now beginning to see a psychotherapist. I told him on the first day about my consumption and he was totally okay with it. He taught me that we experience life as we perceive it and that those perceptions can change whether I'm high or not. My main point here is let her give it a shot. There is a [B]very[/B] good reason that most countries are beginning to see it fit for medical usage, you know.
don't suppress the systems until you're 18 in my honnest opinion, first go see what other things life has to offer, depending on your state of mind
[QUOTE=bs8814;44419452]What about drug tests? Back when I was in school one of my mates was expelled because they suspected he was high so they made him do a test. It just sounds like a dumb idea to smoke at school; risk outweighs the benefits.[/QUOTE] Depends what school, my school would just put you on drug tests for a few months and you wouldnt get punished unless you tested positive while on that probation period. Hell the worst that happened to my mate who was caught with weed was that the deputy principle took the bud off him
im scared of ur gf smokin weed too
[QUOTE=scorpinat;44420263]don't suppress the systems until you're 18 in my honnest opinion, first go see what other things life has to offer, depending on your state of mind[/QUOTE] Being at age of 14 smoking weed isn't the best idea. Maybe trying it, just because you want to experience things, then yes. But a habit? Hell no.
[QUOTE=LieutenantLeo;44419746]We're 15, i think its a bit young cause shes insecure and gets depressed and stuff, i dont want her to get addicted because she might just always use it to be happy[/QUOTE] oh, in that case it's best to steer way clear of it imo 90% of the kids i know who are 14-16 and blaze are complete shitfuck dickface assholes who care more about going out and smoking weed than anything else including stuff like school, friendship and not fucking smoking it in populated public areas. While I'm not lumping you and your lady friend in with them, trust me when I say you really don't wanna associate with those kinds of people. this being said from an 18 year-old's perspective whom have been buying and smoking his own stuff for the better part of the last two years, take it as you will.
[QUOTE=WutangBeez;44420555]Depends what school, my school would just put you on drug tests for a few months and you wouldnt get punished unless you tested positive while on that probation period. Hell the worst that happened to my mate who was caught with weed was that the deputy principle took the bud off him[/QUOTE] i've never heard of a school putting kids on drug tests except maybe for athletics but even then
I don't know why you think she'd become flirty or wind up kissing other people. Does she drink, if there's a state you should be worried about it's drunkenness. Either way, she isn't going to change from smoking weed, she'll just gain an elevated mood and some giggles with the side of munchies. Chances are though, she will end up not inhaling it properly (if she's never smoked anything before); at least that's my experience with beginners (mostly the girls). It's non addictive, and the worst she'll get is a mild cough from the smoke inhalation at first. Maybe if you could see yourself there, hang out with her whilst she's trying it. Maybe join in and see if you can find some enjoyment in it as well? It's really not as serious of an issue as the media/law make it out to be. Hopefully the posts here have given some form of insight; best of luck to the both of you, and welcome to Durgs Discussion.
join her, seriously.
[QUOTE=LieutenantLeo;44419746]We're 15, i think its a bit young cause shes insecure and gets depressed and stuff, i dont want her to get addicted because she might just always use it to be happy[/QUOTE]Umm, you can't get addicted to weed. Period. If she's so depressed that she gets addicted to weed, then she's most likely to get addicted to ANY substance at this point (heck, even alcohol and cigarettes are more addictive than weed)
i seriously doubt weed will turn your girlfriend into a slut that's some reefer madness shit right there
[QUOTE=/B/rother;44432686]i seriously doubt weed will turn your girlfriend into a slut that's some reefer madness shit right there[/QUOTE] agreed, when i'm high i literally seize up when trying to speak to the opposite sex or the same, depending on how gay i'm feeling
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