Do people that smoke weed regularly criticize people that don't?
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So I'm wondering, I've already posted in Love Advice if anybody gives two shits to go read it (kind of long post), will someone who does drugs regularly consider somebody who doesn't do them as less of a person?
Here's a brief breakdown of what I mean. I like this girl, she likes me back, we have many mutual friends, they all do drugs- me and a select few that are in that 'clique' (if you will) don't participate in drugs (mainly Weed). I know my parents would flip shit if I partied / drank / smoked and such, at least while I'm living under their roof. Anyways, my concern is that if me and this girl ever start dating, she might think of me as 'the doucher boyfriend who doesn't smoke' or something.
I have nothing against weed or anything, I just don't participate in it and probably won't for a while. She also likes to go out and get wasted sometimes and I also don't do that. Maybe I could be considered a lame ass, but with my senior year of school, a new job and college coming up I don't have time for that kind of stuff. She seems really cool about me choosing not to participate in it, but I don't know what to do. I think it'd be awkward at times knowing she's at a party or something while I'm doing something totally different.
I'm not asking in terms of if I should like this girl or not, I'm just asking: In general, would she look at me differently since I don't participate in any of that? Should I be concerned about it? I don't mean to sound like I'm overreacting, I just don't know since I don't do it.
i dont. those who dont smoke weed in my group are still chill.
If you don't have anything against it you might as well try it at least once? You don't have to go overboard with it and you might find it to be something you really enjoy occasionally. If you don't like it then I don't think anyone will really care much and if they do then they're not really anyone you should associate with anyways.
I'll nag a little at people who are friends that won't try it, I won't hate them or look down on them though. It's not a big deal. If she seems fine with it she'll more than likely continue being fine with it.
Real stoners won't give a fuck. The douchebags who are just doing drugs to be cool will give you shit.
[QUOTE=Robot Jesus;24627527]Real stoners won't give a fuck. The douchebags who are just doing drugs to be cool will give you shit.[/QUOTE]
Exactly
If you come in throwing shit out of your mouth and showing off [b]THEN[/b] real weed smokers will criticize you.
Not at all, I'll generally ask them why, and correct their facts if they're wrong, but if they have their reasons not to smoke then they have their reasons not to smoke. It's their life and I don't try to butt in. Even if their reason is that they just don't want to that's good enough for me, if and when they're ready to try it, they will.
I honestly don't care, but I do find it really annoying when they criticize [I]me[/I] for smoking it, and going all "Herp derp IT'S BAAAD FOR YOU!"
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Smoke weed 'erry day
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when I have it
Yeah, I don't care if YOU don't do it, but if you're gonna criticize ME for it then we'll have a problem.
[QUOTE=CjienX;24630129]Yeah, I don't care if YOU don't do it, but if you're gonna criticize ME for it then we'll have a problem.[/QUOTE]
Exactly, if they are people who smoke and are chill, you should be fine. People who do it just because it " Makes me look cool" are retarded.
I usually respect my friends choices for not smoking it, whether they are driving that night or play sports, etc. If they don't smoke it for the wrong reason [misinformed] then I try to get them to change their mind with the right information and get them to smoke.
Most people are chill. Expect to get an offer but feel free to decline and whoever is offering won't care. The way you're going to get a bad rap is if you try to make yourself look superior for not doing drugs or criticize people for using drugs.
Good chance someone will think you're being ignorant and that you need to try it before you have any opinion on it, so an easy way out of this is to have a good and respectable reason as to why you don't want to do drugs. Be honest, and if these people are really your friends they'll understand.
I don't. You should try to smoke with her sometimes though.
[QUOTE=Distant;24631735]I don't. You should try to smoke with her sometimes though.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I've always wanted to try it, and they want my first time to be with them. Right now I'm gonna pass on it, but whenever the opportunity arises that I feel like I could get away with it and not be found out by my parents then I'll do it.
Also, I'm trying to make it clear that I personally don't give a fuck if she smokes weed and shit. I don't think I'm better than her for not smoking or anything, I sat in her room and hung out with all of them while her and 3 of our other friends pulled GB's for like half an hour.
I do hate the elitist straight edge people who think they are so much better than everyone else because they don't drink or smoke or have fun whatsoever.
As everyone said, you're only in the wrong if you go around talking about how much better you are than them because you're straight edge or if you're misinformed. If you don't want to do it for whatever reason, don't think that you have to. If you're truly meant to be with this girl for any duration of time, she'll accept you for who you are.
[QUOTE=Robot Jesus;24627527]Real stoners won't give a fuck. The douchebags who are just doing drugs to be cool will give you shit.[/QUOTE]
i am not friends with people like the latter, and i haven't met anybody who smokes and gives other people shit for not doing drugs. I've only seen it the other way around.
I've had this girl tell me that she doesn't do "bad things" (as in smoke weed). it really offended me because i'm a really good person, but i happen to smoke pot. i think of it as a medicine, and it really helped me through the rough times in my life.
[QUOTE=brianosaur;24639384]i am not friends with people like the latter, and i haven't met anybody who smokes and gives other people shit for not doing drugs. I've only seen it the other way around.
[B]I've had this girl tell me that she doesn't do "bad things" (as in smoke weed). it really offended me because i'm a really good person, but i happen to smoke pot. i think of it as a medicine, and it really helped me through the rough times in my life.[/B][/QUOTE]
^this.
If people think its cool to go about hatin' on people just because they don't smoke a plant then they are retarded scenesters.
I don't give a shit really, like everyone here does.
the principle drawback of using drugs? having to endure all manner of cunts telling you that 'no way would i poison my body with that shite like, know?'
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a big e-hug for reference spotters.
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'wit, all them chemicals? naw man fuck that'
Not my business basically.
PEOPLE WHO SMOKE WEED ARE ALRIGHT ALSO APPLIES WITH PEOPLE WHO DON'T SMOKE
but i fucking hate people who say bullshit and talk big about "smoking" even though they themselves don't smoke
what a bunch of kooks
Not that I know of.
In my book, you're not my bud unless u smoke weed and snort coke.
Also, just saying, if you're in a circle with people, or if the pipe/joint is just going in your general direction, feel free to say no, but make sure you pass it because nobodys gonna want to move around you to pass
I'm often too blazed to bother criticizing people.
[QUOTE=CjienX;24651617]Also, just saying, if you're in a circle with people, or if the pipe/joint is just going in your general direction, feel free to say no, but make sure you pass it because nobodys gonna want to move around you to pass[/QUOTE]
This. I hate having to walk a mile to pass it.
[QUOTE=its shortie;24631163]I usually respect my friends choices for not smoking it, whether they are driving that night or play sports, etc. If they don't smoke it for the wrong reason [misinformed] then I try to get them to change their mind with the right information and get them to smoke.[/QUOTE]
This, I can't stand being around people who are like "weed will kill u" I don't care if people don't do the same drugs I do, just don't get all preachy.
Ala stoners who say "I only do natural stuff mannn, everything else is bad for you"
No-one will give you shit if they aren't the coolkids..
I remember at a party awhile ago at some random doucebags house I skinned up and we were all smoking, when it got to him he took a toke and said "To be honest I only really smoke to look cool I don't enjoy it"...
Was I wrong to snatch the J out of his hand and call him a bitch?
He wasn't even taking back :|
[QUOTE=Broni;24663340]No-one will give you shit if they aren't the coolkids..
I remember at a party awhile ago at some random doucebags house I skinned up and we were all smoking, when it got to him he took a toke and said "To be honest I only really smoke to look cool I don't enjoy it"...
Was I wrong to snatch the J out of his hand and call him a bitch?
He wasn't even taking back :|[/QUOTE]
Shoulda taught him how to inhale if he was doing it wrong
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