• My problem with my gender; aka how I hate being a guy
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lol [editline]04:40AM[/editline] well that definitely sucks
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[QUOTE=Completely.Anon;23887714]I'll start by saying that I've made a new account to post this, using a fake email address and a proxy. I am a well-known member here but I wish to remain completely anonymous. For a few years now, I have absolutely hated the fact that I am a guy. It's felt completely wrong to me. [b]I seem to have more in common with my female friends than my male friends, in fact I do not have a single male friend.[/b][/QUOTE] What.
[QUOTE=Azalar;23887749]Wat.[/QUOTE] Eh slipped up a bit there, I've fixed the OP.
I'd love to be a chick for a little while, with my mind though. You know what I'd get up to, yeeeeeah.
sucks man
[QUOTE=GodKing;23887766]I'd love to be a chick for a little while, with my mind though. You know what I'd get up to, yeeeeeah.[/QUOTE] If I could be a girl for five minutes I would clone my female self, then have sex with it after the five minutes were up and I became a male again.
you're a guy. Deal with it.
And I wish I was a Terminator, but you don't see me considering corrective surgery. You've got a classic case of gender role confusion, get help.
dudes 4 lyfe
Oh good night.
Deal with it? Not everyone in the world gets what they want, just learn to cope with it. Your a guy, deal with it, thats all you can really do without like, fucking taking your soul out and putting it inside a female, even with full body placement, you still be a guy. your soul would. Or lifeform if you rather call it that
first of all, sucicide is not the answer. if you're considering it, you need to get help. also, as uncomfortable as it is, you need to tell your parents how you feel. please dont kill yourself. this is your ONE chance at life. at least do this, if you start feeling depressed, you need to think positive. think of when you were younger or something. something thats a happy thought. to quote happy gilmore, "go to your happy place." best of luck
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[QUOTE=mrbojangles951;23887851]first of all, sucicide is not the answer. if you're considering it, you need to get help. also, as uncomfortable as it is, you need to tell your parents how you feel. please dont kill yourself. this is your ONE chance at life. at least do this, if you start feeling depressed, you need to think positive. think of when you were younger or something. something thats a happy thought. to quote happy gilmore, "go to your happy place." best of luck[/QUOTE]
I'd like to start by saying suicide is probably the most selfish thing you could do. I think you should be talking to someone who can help you about everything going on in your head.
Had the same thought when I was 8-12. I got over it.
Whenever I watch a lesbo porn I wish that I was a girl just so I could be a lesbian.
While I recognize that you'd probably want comfort and help from people your age, Facepunch isn't exactly the ideal place to post something like this and you know it. That being said, you should just try to be as comfortable with who you are/who you want to be as you can. Gender roles are bullshit, but don't hate your body or who you are. You sound like you have some self-esteem issues too, but that can be boosted if you stop being so jealous of your friends and be who you want to be. Hell, maybe they'd even be supportive of you if they're actually your friends. Anyone who doesn't want you to be comfortable with yourself (so long as your actions aren't hurting anyone) is a real prick, and I think it's sad that this thread is going to get a lot of posts but very few constructive ones. And depression can be fixed by FORCING YOURSELF to have a more positive view on life. Remember, pessimists statistically live shorter lives than the rest of us! I signed in and posted for the first time in a while to say this. Best of luck, I hope you feel better
If you kill yourself you'll never get to be a girl. Redundancy kills, man.
[QUOTE=Completely.Anon;23887714] I am a well-known member here but I wish to remain completely anonymous.[/QUOTE] yeah sure
lol fag [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Why reply?" - Rusty100))[/highlight]
Was it Wallas or Wallid?
I'm like this but not to your extent, I'd rather be a guy any day of the week though, women have periods and all the stuff that comes with that (Cramps, mood swings, etc). It's more a case of I'm just generally unhappy no matter what- if I had curly hair I'd want straight hair, vice versa...
Go kill yourself and hope for reincarnation gay boy. [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Flaming" - Rusty100))[/highlight]
Best thing to do would be to see a therapist. Not much else you can do.
Have you tried therapy?
This is a uh, very interesting dillemma you have... [editline]01:00AM[/editline] But seriously, get help.
Wow, you guys are dicks. So much homophobia, and why did mods stop banning for homophobia? Also OP, don't commit suicide, do whatever makes you happy. Be like D2K and dress feminine, whatever makes you comfortable in your skin.
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