How to get family to shut the fuck up about my hair?
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So basically in December I decided to finally let my hair grow out and stop spiking it up (like the mexicans around my area). For the first few months my mom's complaining was understandable, but now it's just ridiculous.
Let me start off with the back info. My mom thinks she knows everything and has the temper of a worker bee. My sister looks ok, but she's never really done anything with hr hair, plus she has glasses and and entire plateful of acne, plus acne scars that marked where her breakouts were, but I digress.
Now it's March and my hair's alot longer than before, and it's starting to finally take shape. Right now it's short compared to the actual hair I want, but still, I can comb it just fine.
Let me give you some examples of the bullshit my family spews (not my dad, he doesn't care.)
"It looks like your eyebrows are growing with it" (What the fuck? I've yet to find this feature)
"You should just comb it straight back" (Oh my fucking jesus no. I hate it. it's so out of place)
"(numerous times about combing it UP again)" (NO. No, fucking NO.)
"Watch when girls start to say things" (Keep in mind just today I've had a friend who was a girl who wanted to hang out with me)
"I bet your friends don't like it" (THEY DON'T FUCKING GIVE TWO SHITS BY THE WAY)
They are the ONLY people who have said ANYTHING bad about it. One of my best friends told me how much they said it FITS ME, and they liked it.
No girls have sad ANYTHING, except my second cousin who said she ACTUALLY LIKED IT (according to my mom she was just being nice).
In fact, according to them:
- Everyone hates it
- Everyone who says they like it is just being nice
- I'm a fucking idiot for changing it at all. I've has the spiked hair since 5th grade by the way, until December 2009.
- I don't comb my hair (even though I do it every morning)
You can't even begin to imagine how [b]irritatingly, and ungodly annoying[/b] this fucking shit is. My sister won't shut her FUCKING MOUTH and won't stop making god-awfully unfunny jokes about my hair.
What do I do to shut them up? I really need help. I've had several occasions where I wanted to DECK my sister and my mom in their mouth.
FUCK i am going to break my keyboard. Just remembering all the insults those two have thrown at me makes me want to punch...SOMETHING. ANYTHING.
How long is it exactly?
I have long hair too.
If you can't handle simple snide comments you should probably just cut it.
Tell them to shut the fuck up?
Is this too hard?
Over the summer break I did the same thing and my parents wouldn't shut up either.
Shave your head bald
We'll need pictures so we can judge on what you should say or do. But from what I read you should just laugh at her when she starts to windge at you.
My whole family is like this.
"You look like an emo." - What because it CAN cover my eyes?
"It looks dirty" - Ughh thats cos half the time its wet because I go surfing :downs:
Long hair is fucking awesome. Just ignore her.
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I have the same problem as the OP
An option is to strangle them with your hair. It would be ironic.
Post a picture of yourself.
Tell them that you are not their fucking baby anymore, its your life.
I got long hair too. My Mom makes jokes too, but she's not THAT annoying.
I dunno what she's talking about, though. 'Girls hate it', if anything, the first thing most girls say to me is 'I love your hair!'
I have long hair and everyone takes the piss. Doesn't bother me though, they would make fun of me even if I had short hair. :v:
cut your hair
This was taken just around 3 or 4 weeks ago. It's now a bit longer and it goes down to my eyebrow, but the comments haven't changed so far.
inb4 camgirl-esque photo
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ITT: Teenage angst. Atleast they're not forcing you to cut it you whiny cunt.
make jokes about her hair
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And this is the part where I make fun of you for having an iPhone.
I'm growing my hair out myself, I get the odd bit of stick at school from the asians, but that's mainly because I'm white, and they use the hair as something to go from. Most people like it and I've been told not to get it cut by friends. :)
[QUOTE=Alex_DeLarge;20840312]ITT: Teenage angst. Atleast they're not forcing you to cut it you whiny cunt.[/QUOTE]
you're a whiny cunt :saddowns:
Cut your hair.
your hair isn't long
[QUOTE=KingKombat;20840310]This was taken just around 3 or 4 weeks ago. It's now a bit longer and it goes down to my eyebrow, but the comments haven't changed so far.
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Nice hair. I want long hair now. like that.
[QUOTE=KingKombat;20840341]you're a whiny cunt :saddowns:[/QUOTE]
Haha, with my parents I had to cut my hair slightly below my eyes. Sucked ass man, you're lucky.
Right now it's of course not long, but I want it to get long, eventually covering half my face (yeah yeah emo hurrr)
Haha. That's fucking short.
I would tell my parents to deal with it, and if they continue to give you shit. Tell them when they get old your gonna put em in a shitty nursing home unless they fuck off.
[QUOTE=KingKombat;20840310]This was taken just around 3 or 4 weeks ago. It's now a bit longer and it goes down to my eyebrow, but the comments haven't changed so far.
inb4 camgirl-esque photo
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Hair is not long until it passes your shoulders.
[quote=Activeellis]Nice hair. I want long hair now. like that. [/quote]
This actually made me feel better. My low self-esteem is at an all-time high.
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