• Getting Back In Touch With An Ex
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You know I'm desperate because I'm asking a forum full of 14 year olds for relationship advice... A year and a half ago my girlfriend of three years broke up with me. I took it really hard and acted kind of psycho and ended up [i]really[/i] hurting her feelings. In fact she basically cut me out of her life completely and we've only talked once or twice since then - almost every time ending in a heated argument. But since then I've also been through a lot of tough experiences (a rocky six-month relationship for one...) and am now in a stable relationship with someone I'm really happy with for the first time in years. I feel like I've grown so much as a person in the past year and a half that I'm not the same guy anymore. I'm completely over our relationship, but the way I treated her after our breakup is an emotional burden that I'm having a hard time forgetting. Basically, I feel horrible for the way I acted and I want to try to repair the friendship I destroyed. The problem is that my past actions have made her so apprehensive towards me that it's hard to make any contact with her that won't be misinterpreted. How can I do this? I want to make some sort of gesture that is completely, unambiguously friendly and apologetic and not obsessive or creepy. Right now we're both visiting our families for Christmas who live relatively close to each other, so if I want to see her in person this is pretty much my only chance. Help me figure this out!
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I broke up with a girl my senior year, and I only talked to her once and that was when she came to where I worked with her usual posse of idiots. Don't worry about it, nor bother.
Bros before hoes son
iif you dont want to be in a relation ship then youre not asking for relationship advice are you
Just talk to her. You won't know how anything will turn out unless you just simply talk to her And a year and a half is a long time. She might've changed too. She may have forgiven you for all that you've done to her
I sent you a PM. I hope it helps. :P
Go tap that ass son.
Meet. Talk. Apologize.
[QUOTE=Agoat;19093142]I sent you a PM. I hope it helps. :P[/QUOTE] Yeah, I've tried the straightforward approach. Granted it was a while ago and not the best circumstances but considering how catastrophically bad it went I'm hesitant to give that one another shot. Usually I try to just be open and honest about my feelings but in this case I think I have to tread more softly.
Plan. It's a good strategy that has been proven time and time again. Figure a way to meet back up with her again. I feel the same way about certain things in my life. Sometime I think I was a total nerdy douchebag, and I wish I could try again.
[QUOTE=Tippmann357;19093015]Bros before hoes son[/QUOTE] That rule can kiss my ass. My bestfriend since I knew when I was 4, cheated with his girlfriend with mine. What a shithead.
[QUOTE=ubertaco;19093658]That rule can kiss my ass. My bestfriend since I knew when I was 4, cheated with his girlfriend with mine. What a shithead.[/QUOTE] Wow, what a dick.
[QUOTE=ubertaco;19093658]That rule can kiss my ass. My bestfriend since I knew when I was 4, cheated with his girlfriend with mine. What a shithead.[/QUOTE] Hook up with his girlfriend as revenge and totally ruin your friendship more. That'll show that shithead.
[QUOTE=ubertaco;19093658]That rule can kiss my ass. My bestfriend since I knew when I was 4, cheated with his girlfriend with mine. What a shithead.[/QUOTE] Hook up with him in front of your girlfriend and his, totally ruining all of your relationships, leaving you with nothing.
[QUOTE=ubertaco;19093658]That rule can kiss my ass. My bestfriend since I knew when I was 4, cheated with his girlfriend with mine. What a shithead.[/QUOTE] Literally hook him up on a meat hook.
I don't talk to that fucking cunt anymore. Though my ex talks to me occasionally. [editline]10:39AM[/editline] Oh and they are over btw.
It will only end in tears.
Write her a goddamn letter apologizing for everything and telling your feelings about what happened then. I'm not talking about an email, but a good old fashioned letter with stamps and your horrible handwriting. Seriously, do that. It may end in tears, but you will not be able to see it atleast. This way you know she has received your apologize, if she won't accept it, not your problem. But, there is a big chance contact will begin again, albeit a bit slowly at first.
Go to her house use chloroform then bring her to alley and slap her with your cock till she wakes up. Then it's fun time. Or if your felling exploitative have a hobo join you!
Pee in her butt.
Dude, this might be your only chance, i've been through the same difficult shit situation. don't make the same mistake i did, visit her
This is literally a worse idea than posting about it on the internet
Ask to see her over coffee. Then apologize.
poop back and forth. Poop into her but, then she poops it back into your butt. You keep that cycle going with the same poop, forever.
[QUOTE=faolco1;19117365]poop back and forth. Poop into her but, then she poops it back into your butt. You keep that cycle going with the same poop, forever.[/QUOTE] Haha, I remember seeing that video, what's it from?
[QUOTE=faolco1;19117365]poop back and forth. Poop into her but, then she poops it back into your butt. You keep that cycle going with the same poop, forever.[/QUOTE] The fuck...?
[QUOTE=Tippmann357;19093015]Bros before hoes son[/QUOTE] Chicks before dicks father
Demand an apology, beat her if she doesn't give you one. Or yes, pee in her butt.
I've pretty much learned that no matter what you do...her and her friends will always interpret any kind of contact from you as obsessive. It's quite sad, really.
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