Ive been going through a flaky relationship recently and something is really starting to piss me off. I'm not here to bitch about my problems, just something I think annoys everyone. She recently just ended it and said we should just be friends. I can't fucking stand that. Almost everybody has liked a girl and then to ask them out and for them to respond "Oh we should be friends". I think I speak for just about every man when I say this. Don't to put it too bluntly but we don't want to be your goddamn friend. We like you more than that. For example, I liked this chick a lot and I told her that I like her and all that shit, we ended up going out for a week and breaking up (same chick as above). She broke up with me because she said she that when we were friends we could talk forever and about anything. I talked to you forever because I liked you. If I have no chance, I'm not going to spend everyday dedicated to you. I know it sounds harsh and mean but, it's true and every guy knows that. Needless to say, we don't talk anymore. Bottom line, girls can never seem to understand that saying "Let's be friends" to a guy is like stabbing us in the the heart. I probably sound like a giant asshole but it's been pissing me off.
/rant
Girls don't like asses like you
So what you're saying is women are only pieces of walking ass to you and that you don't like them comically and intellectually?
you should probably just be her friend and move on
[QUOTE=Billiam;17951446]So what you're saying is women are only pieces of walking ass to you and that you don't like them comically and intellectually?[/QUOTE]
Not, it's basically about the whole friend zone bullshit.
[QUOTE=Binsky;17951448]you should probably just be her friend and move on[/QUOTE]
no thats a horrible idea
dont be such a pussy and show some balls op
Ok so you would rather have her say "I dont like you, kthnkxbye" I think that that would stab you in the heart just a bit more.
Maybe, you know, she doesn't romantically like you. OH MY GOD
[QUOTE=NuclearAnnhilation;17951466]Not, it's basically about the whole friend zone bullshit.[/QUOTE]
Ah, so you can be friends with them.
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As long as they put out.
so she doesn't like you enough to stay in a relationship with you, but still wants to be your friend, big whoop. grow a pair and don't be such a selfish whiny turd.
Guys, you can't force girls to be your girlfriend, at least in modern times. :black101:
If she just wants to be your friend, then you really only have 2 options; take up her offer, or stop associating with her as a friend.
[QUOTE=mix999;17951481]Ok so you would rather have her say "I dont like you, kthnkxbye" I think that that would stab you in the heart just a bit more.[/QUOTE]
would you rather be killed instantly or shot in the stomach left to bleed out
same thing here
[QUOTE=M_B;17951505]so she doesn't like you enough to stay in a relationship with you, but still wants to be your friend, big whoop. grow a pair and don't be such a selfish whiny turd.[/QUOTE]
QFT
Really, just man up.
[QUOTE=Grayron;17951536]would you rather be killed instantly or shot in the stomach left to bleed out
same thing here[/QUOTE]
A better analogy is would you rather be fired or just demoted
Looks like nearly everyone missed the point of the OP.
Whatever, I'm stupid apparently
Shes just trying to be nice lol, it it wasnt meant to be then so be it.
[QUOTE=NuclearAnnhilation;17951633]Whatever, I'm stupid apparently[/QUOTE]
You are,
Girls NEVER say why their leaving you,
She probably just doesn't like you.
They don't want to be in the friend zone, it's just easier to say that "Lets be friends" instead of "I wanna leave you because I think your an asshole".
They'd feel bad if they said the latter.
[QUOTE=NuclearAnnhilation;17951466]Not, it's basically about the whole friend zone bullshit.[/QUOTE]
You can break out of the friend zone. It's not hard.
[QUOTE=M_B;17951505]so she doesn't like you enough to stay in a relationship with you, but still wants to be your friend, big whoop. grow a pair and don't be such a selfish whiny turd.[/QUOTE]
shut the fuck up fool.
I have been in this situation, why don't you accept that maybe she doesn't like you. I am pretty sure half the time when a girl is saying that it is just a nice way of saying "Your nice and all but your not my type, or that i just straight up don't like you like that" Accept it and move on, anyway once you tell her that its just going to be awkward from that point on.
So basically she doesn't like you but is too polite/nice to say so, then tries to remain your friend, but you're too angry to think about that?
I have a similar problem, but I'd love to be her friend as well.
If you havin girl problems I feel bad for ya son, I got 99 problems but a bitch aint one
They want to be your friend instead because they don't want to be your girlfriend, yet still likes you to some extent. That is the best of both worlds.
ITT: diluted 13 year olds who think being tender and kind-hearted are what girls [i]really[/i] like. I agree with OP.
damn right. the same thing happen to me but we were going out for 7 months, needless to say it was a hard break up, but in the end we decided to remain friends.
well frankly like NuclearAnnhilation i dont want to remain her friend but because i still like her it seemed like the only thing that we could do to avoid the drama.
so i was her friend... FOR 30 minutes. why, because in the same night we broke up she told me that there was this other guy that had been txting her for 2 weeks and only recently had he started hitting on her.
Turns out she likes him too.
Now i can't remain friends with her but she doesn't know that, or at least i think she doesn't
Paragraphs are your friend OP.
And maybe you should try dudes if you have problems with girls.
[QUOTE=Shock;17952153]ITT: diluted 13 year olds who think being tender and kind-hearted are what girls [i]really[/i] like. I agree with OP.[/QUOTE]
I don't think anybody who's been diluted is in any condition to type.
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