Help, my brother thinks he's a woman and has dressed like one secretly before
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Just recently my suspicions were confirmed, my brother thinks that he is a girl. His name on here is VIOLATION_SNG. A while ago he changed his steam name to "Cassy" and he told me it was an inside joke, but apparently that's the name he's given himself. I've only ever lurked around here and never even had an account, this is actually his account for who knows what. A few days ago I caught him looking at the one megathread for trannys but he said he was just looking around fp until recently I actually went into the thread and saw that he made it and he posts in it and has even dressed up in girls clothes before. I'm really creeped out and I think I'm either going to say something to him today or tell our parents. I always knew he was different but this has to be completely wrong.
I need advice on what to do and why he is like this because I cant believe he might actually be a tranny or something. Is something wrong with him? I figured someone might be able to explain this and tell me what to do because I don't get it and it seems almost disgusting. I don't even know where he got all those clothes or if anyone else knows or if he is going to get a sex change or anything. Its all really freaking me out so I'm calling out for anyone to help or who has an opinion.
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"Tranny" is an extremely offensive word.
As far as I can tell, VIOLATION_SNG is indeed trans. You should talk to her about it because you seem to have a lot of misconceptions about trans people.
HAHAHAAHAHAH OH SNAP
familyissuespunch
your brother is a transsexual
he thinks that he is a girl for some odd reason
i have no further advice than tell him to get off asap
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off this site not get off
well you can do that if thats what you are into
You're an asshole, mind your own business and stop acting like an insecure 13 year old. That's my advice.
OP, you're a fucking bigot and can take your fucking retarded, closeminded views and shove them up your ass. What your sister does (it's not really a choice, you are born it) is no business of yours, it's entirely up to her.
[QUOTE=Turing;38411668]HAHAHAAHAHAH OH SNAP
familyissuespunch
your brother is a transsexual
he thinks that he is a girl for some odd reason
i have no further advice than tell him to get off asap
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Same goes to you.
[QUOTE=AxelTheReal;38411650]Just recently my suspicions were confirmed, my brother thinks that he is a girl. His name on here is VIOLATION_SNG. A while ago he changed his steam name to "Cassy" and he told me it was an inside joke, but apparently that's the name he's given himself. I've only ever lurked around here and never even had an account, this is actually his account for who knows what. A few days ago I caught him looking at the one megathread for trannys but he said he was just looking around fp until recently I actually went into the thread and saw that he made it and he posts in it and has even dressed up in girls clothes before. I'm really creeped out and I think I'm either going to say something to him today or tell our parents. I always knew he was different but this has to be completely wrong.
I need advice on what to do and why he is like this because I cant believe he might actually be a tranny or something. Is something wrong with him? I figured someone might be able to explain this and tell me what to do because I don't get it and it seems almost disgusting. I don't even know where he got all those clothes or if anyone else knows or if he is going to get a sex change or anything. Its all really freaking me out so I'm calling out for anyone to help or who has an opinion.[/QUOTE]
Hang on a moment, you are Violation's alt.
You're attention whoring.
Don't be a dick about it.
[b]This thread is doomed for drama, the best choice is to accept [i][u]her[/i][/u] and use female pronouns, address as sister to make her more comfortable, as difficult as it may seem, its the right thing, she can't do anything about her own mentality and it isn't her fault for wanting to be a girl, really.[/b]
He's a nice person in the mapping section, I'm sure he's nice in other areas
There's not much you can change about her, so deal with her decisions or else your relationship will stay permanent in this current situation
You're acting as if your sister had some kind of mental disease, and judging from what you said, you are planning on outing her to your family. I hope you realize she'll probably be devastated if that happens.
Good job, bigot.
[QUOTE=VistaPOWA;38411846]You're acting as if your sister had some kind of mental disease, and judging from what you said, you are planning on outing her to your family. I hope you realize she'll probably be devastated if that happens.
Good job, bigot.[/QUOTE]
lol how you edited all the 'hims' in your post
She cannot do anything about it and was born this way, yet you call her current state "disgusting" and "completely wrong".
You are a [I]very very supportive[/I] little brother, you know.
You should support him, if he has such issues then he really needs your support, not you thinking he's a freak.
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I'm confused. Surely by then Violation would have signed out of the account and there'd be no way her brother could find it? Supposedly Violation posted them herself. How did "her brother" find this account? Something's telling me this is an attempt for attention.
Guys, I'm sure it's not helping referring to his brother as she.
If it is his brother...
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;38411872]lol how you edited all the 'hims' in your post[/QUOTE]
Hungarian does not have gender-specific pronouns and I sometimes mix them up. Sorry.
i'd be a little weirded out too if i learned my brother wants to be a girl and has been doing so in secret
give the kid a break, hes just freaked out
[editline]11th November 2012[/editline]
if this is true
[QUOTE=Sr.;38411904]Guys, I'm sure it's not helping referring to his brother as she.[/QUOTE]
Its out of respect.
What are you thinking about telling him/your parents? They'll probably flip their shit if they find out.
[QUOTE=0FucksGiven;38411903][url]http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1161909&p=37019689&highlight=#post37019689[/url]
I'm confused. Surely by then Violation would have signed out of the account and there'd be no way her brother could find it? Supposedly Violation posted them herself. How did "her brother" find this account? Something's telling me this is an attempt for attention.[/QUOTE]
might just have been a weak password or something
[QUOTE=Sr.;38411904]Guys, I'm sure it's not helping referring to his brother as she.
If it is his brother...[/QUOTE]
Don't think you quite understand the difference between gender and sex.
She identifies as a girl, so we use female pronouns. Sure the biological sex might be male, but gender is what matters, and that's female in this case.
holy shit stop jumping on him and bashing him for his incorrect usage of word or some shit
holy fuck
he isn't a transsexual he obviously doesn't know shit about them just educate him instead calling him a bigot and a dick and an asshole
fcuk
ye i'm not prejudice at all but i'd still be freaked out if i knew my brother was like 5m away in the next room trying on dresses and posing for a forum of hundreds of thousands of nerds
not like "this is disgusting" freaked out but "wow i thought i knew my own brother" freaked out
[QUOTE=NuclearAnnhilation;38411911]i'd be a little weirded out too if i learned my brother wants to be a girl and has been doing so in secret
give the kid a break, hes just freaked out
[editline]11th November 2012[/editline]
if this is true[/QUOTE]
Why would you give anyone a break for thinking their sibling is a freak and that there is something wrong with him/her for a life choice?
Should we have given him a break if he said the same things because it turned out his brother was gay? Not at fucking all.
[QUOTE=Turing;38411963]holy shit stop jumping on him and bashing him for his incorrect usage of word or some shit
holy fuck
he isn't a transsexual he obviously doesn't know shit about them just educate him instead calling him a bigot and a dick and an asshole
fcuk[/QUOTE]
We're trying.
By the way
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[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;38411970]Not like "this is disgusting" freaked out but "wow i thought i knew my own brother" freaked out[/QUOTE]
Absolutely, but that's not the reaction he's having here.
[QUOTE=dgg;38411971]Why would you give anyone a break for thinking their sibling is a freak and that there is something wrong with him/her for a life choice?
Should we have given him a break if he said the same things because it turned out his brother was gay? Not at fucking all.[/QUOTE]
maybe because its a completely alien concept to him?
I don't know why you're all getting so mad at him, he's just found out that the person he's seen as his brother his whole life is actually a girl, and has been leading a life as a girl online for ages whilst hiding it from him and his family. It's bound to be a bit of a shock, and people act irrational in situations like that. I wouldn't say he's a horrible person, he just sounds pretty ignorant of this whole trans business like everyone has been at some point.
At least he's not disowning her or anything.
Just like OP, you guys should get a grip.
[QUOTE=dgg;38411971]Why would you give anyone a break for thinking their sibling is a freak and that there is something wrong with him/her for a life choice?
Should we have given him a break if he said the same things because it turned out his brother was gay? Not at fucking all.[/QUOTE]
hey hey hey
look
so one day you find out your brother in the room next to you has been posting pictures of his dick online and people were commenting on it
it doesn't matter if it was a persecution complex facepuncher or not
it's still kinda "I thought I knew you"
I don't know of trans people so that's why I'm asking what to do. And yeah its freaking me out because I never thought he had girls clothes and tried them on and wears them. It makes no sense to me at all how he could be like that