In my opinion it's an excuse that socially inept people use to make themselves feel better.
That is true, actually, in some way.
Friendzone is when a person loves other person, but other person just sees him as friend. It can happen if person screws up. So it's 50/50 .
Exists, the other loves this other one and the other does not, he/she may say like "I think it's better if we're friends." Just not to hurt the other one or just really wanna be friends
Can we agree on an exact definition for "friend zone" first? When people bring this up it always sounds like bullshit to me.
The friend zone is when a person is in love the other but the other just feels like they should just be friends and nothing more.
It exists. I dwell there quite often :v:
The attitude I always get from people when they talk about the "friend zone" is really sort of accusatory.
Does anybody NOT believe that often people just aren't attracted to each other and NOT believe that it isn't based entirely on your actions?
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Yeah, there's more to this. It's also this idea that if a girl sees you as a friend first you're stuck that way, which is bullshit. If someone just sees you as a friend it's because they don't LIKE you. It doesn't mean that can't change, but if a girl doesn't want to date you, you don't immediately assume that you fucked up or that she's being bitchy. If you do, you're going to start blaming yourself or her, and that's a guaranteed way to really fuck everything up.
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