So I just have a quick "hypothetical" situation, and not that it will affect me, but I would appreciate your guys' input and any relevant experiences,
I went to the bar tonight, and some guy started calling out my friend about being native (aboriginal, first nation's, dirty fuckin' indian whatever you wanna call it) and i stood up and said do you want to take this outside...so we did.
I'm about 5'7 160lb this guy was 5'9 300lb and we started goin, and i grappled on top of him. Now this is what the thread's all aboutl.
When i was on top of him, I had him by the throat, and I said to him i could kill you, i could smash your glasses into your eyeballs, etc, and I just held him there until he chilled out.
The reason why I ask is because I've gotten a lot of mixed reviews about my actions but I would appreciate more input, in such a sense as, do you agree/disagree with my actions? why? etc etc
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A little bit extreme but I bet he won't do it again unless he's really fucking stupid.
Seeing as he agreed to fight I see nothing wrong
He started the whole ordeal, your actions we're justified.
You were perfectly fine to do what you did. That guy sounded like a cock muncher anyways.
I don't think you were wrong at all. You didn't actually do those things, you just asserted your dominance and won the fight. I think you're getting the mixed reviews because you used the word "kill", but there's no harm done, and it's completely viable to do what you did IMO.
Well you sound like a pretty good friend. I can't say any of my friends would do shit if anyone started on me.
I think it's a good thing you did, and you know well that it's a good thing you did, but you couldn't resist sharing the story on Facepunch because you know it makes you look good.
Can't blame you, mate. :P
Should have beaten your chest while on top of him to assert proper dominance.
It sounds like you just made him back off rather than make him suffer and escalate the situation - as long as that was your intention, nothing's wrong really.
[QUOTE=J AC1D;39598242]Well you sound like a pretty good friend. I can't say any of my friends would do shit if anyone started on me.[/QUOTE]
Not to burn your buddies, but those aren't friends at all..
Why don't you be the better man and ignore him? If you fight him, you'll both look stupid.
[QUOTE=MightyLOLZOR;39599272]Why don't you be the better man and ignore him? If you fight him, you'll both look stupid.[/QUOTE]
pretty sure the dude wanted to fight
Anyways, you're one great friend. Most people wouldn't go that far to protect a friend.
[QUOTE=Eyefunk;39599313]pretty sure the dude wanted to fight
Anyways, you're one great friend. Most people wouldn't go that far to protect a friend.[/QUOTE]
if he attacks first, OP or OP's friend could press charges. that's a lot better than risking a broken nose
[QUOTE=MightyLOLZOR;39599332]if he attacks first, OP or OP's friend could press charges. that's a lot better than risking a broken nose[/QUOTE]
Very true, and taking someone outside without inspecting what they have on them can be dangerous. Still, I think sticking up for a friend is good, and very important.
[QUOTE=BnevolntElefant;39599102]Not to burn your buddies, but those aren't friends at all..[/QUOTE]
I already know I haven't got great friends, I just keep in contact because we all get along great and stuff, as long as they don't expect me to do anything for them.
After getting really frustrated that nobody would ever put themselves out for me, I made a decision to just accept the 'friends' I had for what they were, making the best of them while not setting myself up for disappointment by being a good friend and expecting them to return the favour, and possibly losing them by lashing out on them for letting me down.
[QUOTE=Cypher_09;39597869]I don't think you were wrong at all. You didn't actually do those things, you just asserted your dominance and won the fight. I think you're getting the mixed reviews because you used the word "kill", but there's no harm done, and it's completely viable to do what you did IMO.[/QUOTE]
Yea if anything, you want to degrade their morale when in a fight, you put someone in a choke hold and tell them you could kill them is going to scare the shit out of them, and as long as you don't actually go along with it and are just saying it to scare them, yea you're good.
I think you should have tried talking him down before just taking him outside, and threatening him like that seems a little bit far. That being said, you sound like a solid friend and you still handled it reasonably well by not beating the shit out of him and just making him chill out.
when I was still in school I had a similar incident. Kid kept fucking with me then started hitting on me.
I took the hits to the face just fine and grabbed him by his throat with one hand and squeezed his little fucking neck while I slammed his face.
First time I ever really got involved with fighting too. I fucking hated that kid, lol. Put that thumb on the Adam's apple and just beat the fuck out of him. He broke his own fingers on my head because he hit like a fucking idiot.
My actions were justified. And so was yours
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