• I was sexually used by opposite sex.
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Only few people in fp are friendly and helpful.
Imagine the other way around, if she was obligated to date you because you had sex once. That's a lot more fucked up. You don't somehow deserve a relationship just because you had sex.
[QUOTE=Mort Stroodle;50641367]Imagine the other way around, if she was obligated to date you because you had sex once. That's a lot more fucked up. You don't somehow deserve a relationship just because you had sex.[/QUOTE] Read, please. I said, I dont want to fuck her. I clearly stated, to her, that I want just to be friends. Fuck you Stroodle. [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Not a question or post your / Flaming / shitposting" - Craptasket))[/highlight]
If you didn't consent it is rape. Seeing that you're from the UK, i would head to you're local police dude.
[QUOTE=Wizy;50641370]Read, please. I said, I dont want to fuck her. I clearly stated, to her, that I want just to be friends. Fuck you Stroodle.[/QUOTE] What was the chronology? It sounded like you told her you didn't want sex after you had sex.
[QUOTE=madmax678;50641378]If you didn't consent it is rape. Seeing that you're from the UK, i would head to you're local police dude.[/QUOTE] I just dont know what to do, I like her. But I know that I shouldnt be with her. I know she will hurt me (internally). And that scares me. She invited me for a fuck again, on next weekend. etc. I said no! I would like her as a mate, friend, buddy, but not like a toy. [editline]4th July 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Mort Stroodle;50641383]What was the chronology? It sounded like you told her you didn't want sex after you had sex.[/QUOTE] She is hot, she offered me some weed. We were in London in Camden, listened some music, chilled. Then went to her house. We smoked a little bit more. I was feeling tipsy and wanted to lay down. She leaded me to bedroom. There she took off my pants before I was laying. Sucked my dick. And did other stuff..
[QUOTE=Wizy;50641387]I just dont know what to do, I like her. But I know that I shouldnt be with her. I know she will hurt me (internally). And that scares me. She invited me for a fuck again, on next weekend. etc. I said no! I would like her as a mate, friend, buddy, but not like a toy. [editline]4th July 2016[/editline] She is hot, she offered me some weed. We were in London in Camden, listened some music, chilled. Then went to her house. We smoked a little bit more. I was feeling tipsy and wanted to lay down. She leaded me to bedroom. There she took off my pants before I was laying. Sucked my dick. And did other stuff..[/QUOTE] friendship is a two way street. she doesn't want to be your friend. don't take it personally. either get over it or just be her fuckbuddy
[QUOTE=NixNax123;50641411]friendship is a two way street. she doesn't want to be your friend. don't take it personally. either get over it or just be her fuckbuddy[/QUOTE] Eh.... Travelling somewhere every week just to shag? And knowing that someone else does that, makes me feel like I travel to shag a whore for free. Feelsbadman
No one cares. Get a fucking blog.
It's clear she doesn't want a full relationship, so if you feel like you were raped you should report it to the authorities. Otherwise you are probably just best forgetting about her.
You fucked each other and then decided you don't want the same things as each other. So what's the problem? Move on. And when you say things like "That blocking part and deleting from life makes me feel raped," I instantly tune out of what you're saying. You didn't get raped. You have no idea what a rape is like.
Yeah uh dude that's fucking retarded, you don't get to demand a relationship just because a girl had sex with you.
You're getting worked up over a chick that shagged you when you didn't really want or consent to it. That can be considered rape, yes. But you already said that's not why you feel abused. Maybe she's hot, so what? You want to be closer friends, but she wants a fuck buddy. That's the crossroads you stand at, dude. You have a few choices here: Be chill and accept a non-committal fuck buddy, be chill and turn down her offer then walk away, be chill and reject her offer for a fuck but try and still be toke buddies. It seems to me that because she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship with you after you that you feel raped and you legitimately hate her because she didn't want to be with you in that way. This is High-School tier drama, man.
[QUOTE=Wizy;50641419]...makes me feel like I travel to shag a whore for free. [/QUOTE] would you rather pay or something lol
[QUOTE=Jarokwa;50641513] also, you seem a bit unstable, you either need to grow up or find some help.[/QUOTE] both [editline]4th July 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Daemon White;50641526]You're getting worked up over a chick that shagged you when you didn't really want or consent to it. Maybe she's hot, so what? She still fucked you when all you wanted was to lay down. You want to be closer friends, but she wants a fuck buddy. That's the crossroads you stand at, dude. You have a few choices here: Be chill and accept a non-committal fuck buddy, be chill and turn down her offer then walk away, be chill and reject her offer for a fuck but try and still be toke buddies. It seems to me that because she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship with you after you that you feel raped and you legitimately hate her because she didn't want to be with you in that way. This is High-School tier drama, man.[/QUOTE] You are right, Im selfish. I didnt think what she thinks about relations.. sry. Delete thread, mods pls.
Look dude it's totally fine to feel bad about this, and maybe somebody will be able to give you some advice to help you move on but there isn't much to do about it. She wanted sex, you gave it to her, then you wanted more than that but she wasn't up for it sorry dude, you're making a bit of a deal out of it - people use eachother all the time, and the only thing to do is move on.
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;50641539]Look dude it's totally fine to feel bad about this, and maybe somebody will be able to give you some advice to help you move on but there isn't much to do about it. She wanted sex, you gave it to her, then you wanted more than that but she wasn't up for it sorry dude, you're making a bit of a deal out of it - people use eachother all the time, and the only thing to do is move on.[/QUOTE] Im just a little bit confused. I was 17 years old when I dated someone last time. Now im nearly 25.
[QUOTE=Wizy;50641547]Im just a little bit confused. I was 17 years old when I dated someone last time. Now im nearly 25.[/QUOTE] Don't worry about it, it is confusing, talk it out with a mate if you need some guidance - like I said it's fine to feel bad about it, but she doesn't owe you anything and you owe it to yourself to move on.
[QUOTE=Wizy;50641350] Yeah, you can laught, you can cry, you can get angry and hate. But that is my store. So my life is fucked up, long story short. Broke up, I want to forget my ex. I went out with a girl what plays league of legends. She is hot, she offered me some weed. We were in London in Camden, listened some music, chilled. Then went to her house. We smoked a little bit more. I was feeling tipsy and wanted to lay down. She leaded me to bedroom. There she took off my pants before I was laying. Sucked my dick. And did other stuff.. Is that what makes me feel raped? No, she is hot, I did like and enjoy it. First plan was just to chill, just to smoke some weed. I told her that im heartbroken, I dont want to date girls, I dont want to fuck or kiss. I clearly stated that. Just a date. But she shagged me anyway. Thats not the point. Point is - Im asking her for a date. She said, we can only be a fuck buddies. I said no! I dont want to fuck you, while someone else does that as well. we had talk for 2 days. Now im blocked. And her friends think I am a psycho, bad guy, etc etc.. [I]That blocking part and deleting from life makes me feel raped.[/I] Dont need to comment, I just would like to know (IN PM). What would you do, and how would you feel in my case? Dont say: "you had a score, you are lucky!" [B]NO, FUCKING NO[/B]. I dont want after 7 good year relationship end get my heart broken twice. I think after girls like this, I prefer man. Im not sure. [U] This is not a troll or fuckaround post. Help. [B] day before [quote=me][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/08zcNol.png[/IMG][/quote][/B] [quote=me] [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/1oXM4Rx.jpg[/IMG][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/VN0yrnG.jpg[/IMG][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/P5Lw79O.jpg[/IMG][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/YuawYWm.jpg[/IMG][[/quote] [/U] Only few people in fp are friendly and helpful.[/QUOTE] wtf
[QUOTE=Wizy;50641419]Eh.... Travelling somewhere every week just to shag? And knowing that someone else does that, makes me feel like I travel to shag a whore for free. Feelsbadman[/QUOTE] how's that a bad thing it's free sex you don't even need to masturbate anymore
Can we see the OP? I'm somewhat interested. Anyway imo you can't be Mr. Pussy in a situation like this, tell her no and you're not interested. I don't know if you want it to be but after you cross the sex boundary there is no going back to your old friendship. Either break it up or stay with her if you actually want to.
op I really think you need some therapy with someone. Try talk to any of your relatives, trust me it's better to say than keep it inside
[QUOTE=YourStalker;50641618]Can we see the OP? I'm somewhat interested. Anyway imo you can't be Mr. Pussy in a situation like this, tell her no and you're not interested. I don't know if you want it to be but after you cross the sex boundary there is no going back to your old friendship. Either break it up or stay with her if you actually want to.[/QUOTE] If you would look at craptaskets post, you will see it. But what this looks like is that you really like the girl, and you banged a few out once before. But you're 25 and you feel like your biological clock is ticking away. So you're taking this as a moment of opportunity into perhaps landing you the right one. But your woes have just began, she has rejected your advancements for a more meaningful relationship. Your biological age has reversed, you're now acting like you're 16. So you throw a giant hissy fit, and just shoot down any other chances you have with the chick. Oh she "used" you for sex. Oh poor, unfortunate you. Depraved from relationships and enticed with booty. What a cruel world you live in. So don't worry, your last time you where in a relationship was when you where 17, now you're 25. But you apparently continue to act like you're 15. So perhaps in 2 years you'll get to bag yourself another delightful lady. [editline]4th July 2016[/editline] Was that last conversation literally them setting up a 3 way with you? Well now you can make Tudor your boyfriend too, maybe this is your perfect chance of finding yourself a lasting mate.
[QUOTE]NO, FUCKING NO. I dont want after 7 good year relationship end get my heart broken twice.[/QUOTE] I hate to say this, i really do but this is pretty much the whole dating process.
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