Help with homosexuality / awkward situation I'm in. - General

Alright, here goes. Anyone against homosexuality or self-expressionism then please, be nice. My name is Ricky, I am 21 years old and I'm a Robotics student of Computer Science in a location I won't specify for obvious reasons. At first glance I'm a pretty average guy I suppose, I blend in with the crowd, I generally follow common trends which is a trait I'm not proud of but I'm not the most confident of people so it's hard for me to come out of my shell to expose myself to criticism or perhaps nasty comments, I'm digressing. Anyways, I am in fact gay, I've known this since I was the age of about 13 I suppose when I had my first crush on a boy -- which is a story in itself. Anyhow, I've not come out as gay to anyone because I'm too afraid but I have been openly gay online. It isn't fulfilling enough and recently, about two weeks ago I drove alone to a neighboring city where I was sure I knew no one. I booked a hotel room and went to a gay bar during the night. I got really drunk and remember taking a man back to my hotel room. We had sex. This is were my life slowly turns to utter shit. My antics would've been all fine and dandy if I firstly didn't have a girlfriend (which I do, and I feel bad but it's the only way I can fit in) and secondly if two of my girlfriends gay best friends weren't at the gay bar. They saw me, they saw me kissing the man, they saw me leaving with him. They told her everything. I had no idea they knew and no idea my soon to be ex-girlfriend knew either. When I woke up the man was leaving, I'll be honest I didn't remember his name and I pretended to be asleep until he went to avoid it being awkward. I had 23 missed calls from my girlfriend and a few from my friends and a few texts as well. I opened my phone and went to my messages, crapping myself, thinking I had been rumbled (which I had.) I opened the most recent one from my friend Stephen "Mate get online, is it true? man look at your facebook. wtf is going on??" - confused, and afraid I turned on my 3g, ignoring the other texts from the others, and went onto facebook. More notifications than I've ever had of people who I thought were my friends being openly discriminatory against me, people I barely even knew slurring me and leaving hateful comments on my page. There were about 3 pictures I had been tagged in by one of my girlfriends gay friends, of course, it was me kissing the man in the bar, with his hand down my pants. My girlfriend told me "it's over" by text. I have lost most if not all of my friends and here I am on hallows-eve crying like a bitch and feeling down as hell. How the fuck do I solve this? It's clearly me in the photos.. Please help. Thanks [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Get a blog" - Craptasket))[/highlight]

Why did you even cheat on your girlfriend in the first place, should've broken up with her.

you are gay in a non gay accepting country i suggest you leave

Yeah sorry, but there's not really gonna be an easy way out of this.