• I need to make my cousin stop smoking
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Today i went to his house to play xbox with him. Afterwards we went outside and he told me that he is smoking. I was 0_o and his friends were smoking too. And he is only 14! I didnt say anything i just smiled with "Sure". I am not going to tell it to my mom or his mom. I dont want to do it because he is probably not going to talk with me again. I asked him that "Why are you smoking?" "My old friend forced me to do it" We both are going to start High school this year but i dont want him to smoke. He is fucking young for it. I told him that smoking is not going to make you cool, make you look tough, make you look old. He just wont listen to me. Can anyone give me some advice to make him stop smoking? I dont want to ruin his life.
It's too late. A smoker never quits.
Thats true.
It's just whether or not you like it. I tried cigarettes and i didn't like them. It was annoying, expensive, and unhealthy. I have absolutely no problem with other people smoking. I really don't give a shit about second hand smoke either.
[QUOTE=Cheezy;17049183]It's too late. A smoker never quits.[/QUOTE] But he is too young and he told me that he started 1 week ago. :/
But it does make you look older, cooler and tougher.
Kill him. Only choice left. :frown:
Show him pictures of a smoker's lungs List all the things that are bad about smoking, along with a list of good things I think he'll realise there are more cons than pros.
[QUOTE=sonerin;17049158]Today i went to his house to play xbox with him. Afterwards we went outside and he told me that he is smoking. I was 0_o and his friends were smoking too. And he is only 14! I didnt say anything i just smiled with "Sure". I am not going to tell it to my mom or his mom. I dont want to do it because he is probably not going to talk with me again. I asked him that "Why are you smoking?" "My old friend forced me to do it" We both are going to start High school this year but i dont want him to smoke. He is fucking young for it. I told him that smoking is not going to make you cool, make you look tough, make you look old. He just wont listen to me. Can anyone give me some advice to make him stop smoking? I dont want to ruin his life.[/QUOTE] So you're 12? i began with snuff / snus when i were 13. Stopped with it though.
It's hard and stressful to stop smoking. You can't force people to do it. When he gets older he'll either decide it's stupid and try to quit himself, or he won't. That's his choice to make when he's prepared to. [QUOTE=sonerin;17049216]But he is too young and he told me that he started 1 week ago. :/[/QUOTE] Oh, then tell his parents. A week is nothing.
Why don't you fuck off and let him live his own life?
Stop being a 12 year old and let your brother do his thing.
[QUOTE=Catdaemon;17049244]It's hard and stressful to stop smoking. You can't force people to do it. When he gets older he'll either decide it's stupid and try to quit himself, or he won't. That's his choice to make when he's prepared to. Oh, then tell his parents. A week is nothing.[/QUOTE] Tell his parents. And you're an asshole. Honestly.
[QUOTE=Red Heavy;17049247]Why don't you fuck off and let him live his own life?[/QUOTE] Also QFT
[QUOTE=Monkey pie;17049238]So you're 12? i began with snuff / snus when i were 13. Stopped with it though.[/QUOTE] No im not 12 im 14 too. Same as him. I just want to help him to save his own life. I know that he is going to die in 60-70
[QUOTE=Red Heavy;17049247]Why don't you fuck off and let him live his own life?[/QUOTE] Why don't you get prescribed ritalin. [editline]10:01PM[/editline] [QUOTE=sonerin;17049275]No im not 12 im 14 too. Same as him. I just want to help him to save his own life. I know that he is going to die in 60-70[/QUOTE] 60 - 70 is the average age to die.
I doubt he can even inhale it properly, if he gets a shock or his parents finds out that'll probably put him off it.
[QUOTE=Scope0;17049258]Stop being a 12 year old and let your brother do his thing.[/QUOTE] Good job reading the title Edit: My god 6 people posted at the same time
[QUOTE=Red Heavy;17049247]Why don't you fuck off and let him live his own life?[/QUOTE] because nobody wants their family to die from lung cancer
[QUOTE=Monkey pie;17049279]60 - 70 is the average age to die.[/QUOTE] No. 80-90 is. If you smoke you die 10-20 years earlier.
kill him
He's surely one of those kids that do it to look cool. Don't even bother and see as he gets fucked up.
[QUOTE=mikeyt493;17049233]Show him pictures of a smoker's lungs List all the things that are bad about smoking, along with a list of good things I think he'll realise there are more cons than pros.[/QUOTE] No he won't. All of those cons are a long way off. The pros are immediate and constant.
Tell his parents. NOW.
Tell his mom.
[QUOTE=sonerin;17049315]No. 80-90 is. If you smoke you die 10-20 years earlier.[/QUOTE] Depends where. In the United States average age of death is like, 74. It also depends how often you smoke. If you smoke a pack every two weeks I doubt you'll have must more than 1 year off your life. If you smoke 3 packs a day, you're probably going to die at 40.
[QUOTE=ASmellyOgre;17049339]Tell his parents. NOW.[/QUOTE] But i know that he will never trust me about sharing his secrets and stuff. I cant do it.
[QUOTE=sonerin;17049275]No im not 12 im 14 too. Same as him. I just want to help him to save his own life. I know that he is going to die in 60-70[/QUOTE] Ok the thing is, 12 year old, most everyone will be sitting home retired and old at 60-70 years of age. Also bored and lonely/depressed. I would rather live my life as a kid for the cost of those 5 years anyday. Stop being a prick and mind your own buisness.
I got no problem at dying at 60-70. I can't imagine what more can I do at such age.
[QUOTE=Cheezy;17049183]It's too late. A smoker never quits.[/QUOTE] My dad and grandad both quit :smug:
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