I feel like I'm the only one not going to parties, hanging out with friends, or just plain having fun. I feel like I have no social life, I've never really had one but I didn't care until now for some reason. I don't know what to do. I'm tired of playing games all day, they all just don't interest me anymore. This is the first time I ever felt like this, other summers I didn't mind playing games all day. I have friends, but we're slowly drifting apart ever since summer started.
Most days I just go outside and sit on my porch, staring at cars passing by. I hate this feeling of being left out, I have this feeling everyday. I can't stand another day of summer. First thing I think of when I wake up is "I can't wait till today ends".
The worst part is I have mood swings, one minute I'm like "fuck yeah who cares if I just play games all day", then the next second I'm like "god dammit, I feel like a loser". I'm not saying I'm not a loser, but I've never really cared before if I was or not, now I do.
Perhaps its just reading all those facebook status' of my friends and what they are doing, while I'm just here. I just wish I didn't care, or atleast hung out with my old friends, or maybe even make new ones.
you seriously think facepunch is the place to go for social advice?
Interesting, please tell me more.
Call some people and ask if you can hang out with them.
Don't be afraid of being rejected.
Crash a funeral. I make all my good friends that way.
What is this "social life" you speak of? it sounds interesting.
Lets come to the internet when we don't have friends. Because everyone on the internet has friends, and we are all friends. One big fucking happy world wide web.
[QUOTE=triFeral;22807989]Call some people and ask if you can hang out with them.
Don't be afraid of being rejected.[/QUOTE]
This. If you've already given people the image that you're introverted, they probably won't invite you anywhere. Just call up some of your friends and ask them if they wanna hang.
Same for me about the first part
Holy fucking shit OP that's exactly how I feel this summer. I read my facebook and all my friends are hanging out at the beach together having fun while I'm just sitting here on the computer surfing the internet and playing Arma II. It feels horrible.
OP is me.
If you want fun, play games instead of posting your misery.
I feel the same way as the OP but I just ignore it and do nothing all day anyway. :(
Just go to a party, trust me I used to be like you guys. I started going to parties and my friends on facebook went from like 200 to 300 and pretty much every day people want to know if i will hang with them. Even if you go to a party you don't need to drink or smoke, go sober, its still cool
[QUOTE=The Mighty Boatman;22807982]you seriously think facepunch is the place to go for social advice?[/QUOTE]
Yes
Many people here feel the same, some may have gotten out of it and can share their experience
Have sometimes the same problems. Solution: Man the fuck up and just ask people out for parties.
Find some one with a laptop to play games with you?
[QUOTE=rosthouse;22808250]Have sometimes the same problems. Solution: Man the fuck up and just ask people out for parties.[/QUOTE]
what if you don't like to be at parties?
kill yourself
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its the only way
If you live close to a big-ish forest;
1. Get a paintball gun / soft air gun
2. Make a Ghillie suit
3. Get some friends to get paintball / soft air guns
4. Play
It's fun to be a stealthy asshole and sneak behind them and shoot them in their backs :ninja:
Same as me, but I don't play games, I spend time earning money.
People have told me to just go to parties, but when I go I get really bored. I try to socialise but I really don't see anything fun about parties whatsoever.
Get a pet cat. Become its friend. Have it organise parties.
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Get out of my head OP.
Holy shit me too. I feel the exact same way.
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1. Text friend
2. Ask to hang out
3. ????
4. PROFIT!!!!
Seriously, though just ask some friends over and find a party. You niggas will have some fun by the end of the night.
It feels bad when a girl you have a crush on is more social and outgoing than you are.
:frown:
[QUOTE=hl2poo;22808512]It feels bad when a girl you have a crush on is more social and outgoing than you are.
:frown:[/QUOTE]
I'm starting to think you guys are inside my head.
[QUOTE=Callitenvy;22807954]I feel like I'm the only one not going to parties, hanging out with friends, or just plain having fun. I feel like I have no social life, I've never really had one but I didn't care until now for some reason. I don't know what to do. I'm tired of playing games all day, they all just don't interest me anymore. This is the first time I ever felt like this, other summers I didn't mind playing games all day. I have friends, but we're slowly drifting apart ever since summer started.
Most days I just go outside and sit on my porch, staring at cars passing by. I hate this feeling of being left out, I have this feeling everyday. I can't stand another day of summer. First thing I think of when I wake up is "I can't wait till today ends".
The worst part is I have mood swings, one minute I'm like "fuck yeah who cares if I just play games all day", then the next second I'm like "god dammit, I feel like a loser". I'm not saying I'm not a loser, but I've never really cared before if I was or not, now I do.
Perhaps its just reading all those facebook status' of my friends and what they are doing, while I'm just here. I just wish I didn't care, or atleast hung out with my old friends, or maybe even make new ones.[/QUOTE]
The only way you're going to meet people is to be out there where the other people are.
Start with a sport, start with some sort of outdoor activity, because you can't meet people if they can't meet you.
Advice: You have friends, socialize with them.
Jeez.
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