• I'm making lonely people happy
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So I was thinking about my life one day and actually realized, what kind of a person I really am. It's a long read, but very interesting. And no, this is no homo or rape thread, like most of you think. So, few years ago, I was living in a small town with 2 friends. I also had school mates and such, but we were more hanging out in school that outside of school. But I had 2 friends, that were always by my side and we were doing every possible thing for like 10 years or so. I never even tried to met new people, since I didn't actually need them. They were the best. Then there was a time, when we went apart because of a small mistake that I made, but that's not the point right now. So after that, I was playing basketball by myself one day and I see a school mate coming towards me. His name was Jack. Of course we played together and talked and he laughed at my jokes a lot and really hard. We were playing basketball almost everyday and had lots of fun. Then admitted that he never had such a great friend in his life and he was all alone almost 5 years now. We did lots of interesting and funny things and I really made this guy happy. Then one day on a basketball playground, he saw another person that he knew from the past and he introduced me. His name was Erik. Well, Erik had a problem with his parents and was also a lonely person. He never really had friends, only school mates(which were bullying him for some reason). So we all played basketball together. We were great friends and did a lot of stuff together. After few years, I moved away from that small town and Erik rented and apartment in my new city, because he has school here. Now I don't see Jack a lot, but I see him from time to time and we sometimes call each other to see, what's happening. He has quite and interesting life: His school mates are his best friends right now, they are partying hard, meeting women and getting laid. Now I'm here in my city with Erik. Erik also has some new friends and he's partying with them too and doing crazy stuff. Remember, these two were both lonely with no friends, now they are in big groups and partying hard. I can't say I showed them how to live their life, but I certainly made them happy, while they were lonely. I also helped a girl: I'm in a school full of men. Every class is filled with just men and no women. (It's computer school, what do you expect) So one year, there was 1 girl that joined our school and she looked rather terrified. My class mates were joking about her, other people were surprised when they saw her and she was quite nervous, I believe. One day I had a chance to meet her and I made my move. She was nervous at the beginning, but when she saw, that I smile a lot and make lots of jokes, she started to smile back and she also made jokes. She was very talkative, I must tell ya. (Probably because she didn't have anyone to talk to in our school.) And now, after 2 years, she's talking to other school mates, she has a boyfriend, and we also say hi and talk about anything, when we see each other in the hallway. I guess I also helped her get more social in our school. It's quite hard for girls to get talkative, it's there's no other girl beside her, I believe. :D But what about me? I'm all alone here, working out, doing stuff for school and trying to find new people, that are lonely and need help to move on. I guess I somehow feel, when people need help and friends. But other people, that already have friends, I'm just really nervous to meet them and kinda feel that I don't belong being their friends, since they have their own. Maybe I'm crazy, maybe I'm not, but I believe, I ain't doing anything wrong. So yeah, this is me. Making lonely people happy.
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Leave me alone.
I guess we are in a similar boat. I tend to do the same, I have a few close friends and I tend to help others more than my self but in the end, I am usually the one looking in sadly. At least there is karma (I believe) and what comes around goes around so someday things will change for me :). Good to hear that there are others like me props to you
Most people are alone for a reason. They usually have really weird hobbies, habits, or social disorders
[QUOTE=E104 Epsilon;22376197]Most people are alone for a reason. They usually have really weird hobbies, habits, or social disorders[/QUOTE] but furries are never alone. they're always yiffing and yaffing
[QUOTE=E104 Epsilon;22376197]Most people are alone for a reason. They usually have really weird hobbies, habits, or social disorders[/QUOTE] "Don't befriend lonely people, they're lonely for a reason." No.
Awww :3:
That's awfully nice of you. You're a wonderful person, OP.
[QUOTE=E104 Epsilon;22376197]Most people are alone for a reason. They usually have really weird hobbies, habits, or social disorders[/QUOTE] Or they care too much for others that they don't stop to think of themselves. . . .
Hm, I have the same [I]problem[/I] there is a boy at school who comes from the Philipines and is [I]very[/I] annoying at times, but I quite like him, but I am almost forced not to by other people, just because they don't like him, but it feels good to know you're there for someone :3:
[quote]And no, this is no homo or rape thread, like most of you think. [/quote] :frown:
[QUOTE=E104 Epsilon;22376197]Most people are alone for a reason. They usually have really weird hobbies, habits, or social disorders[/QUOTE] Woah you sound like a total douche. Being lonely is rarely anyones choice, but then there are people like you who encourage people to stay even further away from them because you are actually afraid of them, because they don't fit in your small mind.
That was actually quite a nice story. Good on you for letting those two know that they weren't entirely alone. I would rate heart multiple times if I could, just to commend that deed.
Have a heart, OP.
[QUOTE=E104 Epsilon;22376197]Most people are alone for a reason. They usually have really weird hobbies, habits, or social disorders[/QUOTE] Well no shit, if you force a guy to be on his own for a few years of course he's going to go fucking nuts
You're a good man son.
Here's another story I forgot to tell: I'm in a school full of men. Every class is filled with just men and no women. (It's computer school, what do you expect) So one year, there was 1 girl that joined our school and she looked rather terrified. My class mates were joking about her, other people were surprised when they saw her and she was quite nervous, I believe. One day I had a chance to meet her and I made my move. She was nervous at the beginning, but when she saw, that I smile a lot and make lots of jokes, she started to smile back and she also made jokes. She was very talkative, I must tell ya. (Probably because she didn't have anyone to talk to in our school.) And now, after 2 years, she's talking to other school mates, she has a boyfriend, and we also say hi and talk about anything, when we see each other in the hallway. I guess I also helped her get more social in our school. It's quite hard for girls to get talkative, it's there's no other girl beside her, I believe. :D
As for the OP, good work, people who help others are the best of humanity, the ones who've evolves out of the typical animalistic way of thinking that people seem to have these days, well done.
the moral of the story is, the bad guys always win..... always...
You're a very good person, but at the part with the Basketball I was CERTAIN it was gonna be a Bel-Air
I don't know why but I feel compelled to tell my story here, so I guess here it is: When I was in kindergarten, I met this kid in my class, he was very shy and hardly talked to anyone except me. We quickly became friends. fast forward a few years, me and him are hanging out after school now and playing basket ball and such, I used to not even know how to dribble a ball, but he showed me how to play, and I was one of the best in Gym at school. Me and him were best friends and he made a couple more that we could play basket ball with. Than one day he was complaining of a pain in his side, we thought nothing of it, but by the end of the day it became unbearable and I went home. The next day his side had stopped hurting and we were playing basketball again, but about an hour later it started hurting again and we went inside. he started throwing up into the toilet. I went home to save him some dignity. The next day he wasn't at school, when I got home I called to see if he was alright, his mom answered and said he was in the hospital with appendicitis, I don't really remember what I did for the next few days, I was sort of dazed. he had surgery done to get his appendix removed and stayed in the hospital for the next week. I visited him once, that was enough I hate hospitals and I hated seeing him lying there, all weak. when he went home he wasn't too strong either.and than we slowly grew apart to the point that I never hung out with him after school anymore. fast forward a few years I'm in Middle school, we were playing football and my friend tackled me and said "Wanna see my scar!" than we were friends again. Sounds cheesy but that's what happened. I don't know why I posted this here, guess the mention of basketball.
[QUOTE=Greendead;22376044] It's a long read, but very interesting. And no, this is no homo or rape thread, like most of you think. [/QUOTE] You just committed thread suicide there
I could never do this because I was too afraid of getting bullied by my classmates. They just hated that guy for no reason.
[QUOTE=E104 Epsilon;22376197]Most people are alone for a reason. They usually have really weird hobbies, habits, or social disorders[/QUOTE] Really weird hobbies and social disorders are interesting. I must say i sorta helped myself. Just after getting into high-school i started hanging around with certain people in class. I don't think any of us was what people consider normal. But it was (and is) great to know different people and respect them for it. I do appreciate being alone though. Just not always.
[QUOTE=E104 Epsilon;22376197]Most people are alone for a reason. They usually have really weird hobbies, habits, or social disorders[/QUOTE] I like to lets small insects crawl all over my body but I have many friends
Rated heart to both OP's and VollyBombs
Stop calling me, I know people.
I have always been popular, when I see like a lonely person in school, train, bus, outside etc. I'll talk to them and have a laugh with them. And since I'm popular the other people start to do what I do. By the way I am not trying to be big headed by saying that I'm amazing and popular and stuff. I am just saying that people aren't all that bad, they just want to fit in and follow the crowd.
Rated [IMG]http://www.facepunch.com/fp/rating/heart.png[/IMG] Since I graduated from high school last year, I haven't any friends other than a handful of internet friends. So I'm getting kind of lonely. But it's not so bad. I've always had trouble meeting new people. I prefer having other people make the initial contact. I just don't know how to walk up to someone and say hello and start any sort of conversation.
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