I am just mad and dissapointed to my mother (and her boyfriend) right now
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Ok guys, it's maybe the first time in Facepunch that I post a topic about something in my life. It's just because I wanted to talk about it, firstly to calm my anger, and secondly because I fear to say something bad tommorow because of this anger and regretting later.
Just to put things clear, my parents had been divorced since 2 years ago. It's been a difficult time of my time, and I supposed it had been the same for everyone who know this thing too.
It's all happened today, it was a nice and cool journey, school in the morning, then at midday, I went to my mother's house. Just to say precisely, I am normally to my father's house this week, but it's just because I have some driving lessons, in the first hour of the afternoon, which are close to my mother's house. We have a good meal with my mother and my sister, everything was great, I come to my driving lessons, then in a store for some books. Well, like I said, everything was great today.
In the evening, when I returned to my father's house for the dinner. In the end of the meal, my sister and father were visiting a website about dogs, in the netbook. I didn't understand quite a bit at first, because in my father's house, we have already got a young dog (and SIX cats, 5 from his girlfriend, and one's his). When I asked why did they visit this website, especially on a particular article of a dog race, my sister said it was because my mother was about to get a dog.
I was like "Okaay man..." But the worse part was my sister said she has already got the dog in the time I was talking to my sister. She never talked to me about the whole dog thing (She just joked about her boyfriend was fond on dogs since they walked with the dogs from the SPA center) and the fact my sister was the only aware about it. She did the same thing that my father did too, about his dog, months ago, when he brought a dog without warning.
My sister disagrees too with the idea of another dog to our mother's house (and even less compared to the breed of dog in question). Alonside the fact there is already a little and cute white kitten (she's so adorable that my heart is melting like chococate) in this house. I'm planning to talk to my mother tommorow, because I felt like something isn't right, or it may be just me.
It's just somewhat like a confession, Facepunch. It's not like I'm begging you to help me, but like I said, it was mostly to appease my anger about the whole thing.
tldr; My mother and her boyfriend are getting a dog (although she already have a young and cute kitten) without warned me (and my sister, and I suppose the boyfriend's daughters too) and ask our opinions. I am mad because she did the same thing that my father did about his dog too. And I am dissapointed because I never thought they would be capricious about the whole thing like my father/girlfriend did, because my mother had always telling in advance for important things. I still live in both parent's house until this summer (I have to go in another town, farther, for my art studies). I may be capricious too, though, because I never liked to have dogs. But having dogs in both houses is just a step too far for me.
tdlr (bis); I suck so hard in my english grammar (mostly because english isn't my native language), my apologies for that
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oh my god your mom didn't consult with you about buying a fucking dog.
get over it, it's insignificant.
wow thats so deep man you should see someone about these horrible problems you face in your life
good luck, stay strong
Fuck man your mom's an asshole she definitely isn't a normal adult able to make decisions for herself without having to consult you first!
you act like your mom has an obligation to consult with you when doing anything.
your mum is an adult. she can make decisions without consulting her child.
deal with it
why does your mom need to ask you if she can get a dog for her house
LOL
Kill the dog and wear its skin, take on the life of the dog.
Free treats and belly rubs forever
It's not like I wanted her to consult me for the dog thing, I may explain this thing wrong, it's just the fact having an animal like that just without warning is just.. well, It's kinda hard to explain it
Just at least, she could said to me earlier, in the midday when I met her, that they are getting a new dog. Not having to hear this from my sister (she was with me midday too) who was the only aware about that.
[QUOTE=Tacosheller;27378827]Kill the dog and wear its skin, take on the life of the dog.
Free treats and belly rubs forever[/QUOTE]
this
If my mom did that I would probably shoot up my school.
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