Hey there, FP. I'm 15 years old, and I'm in terminale (no idea of the american equivalent, so Englishmen and saxtons, predent I'm on my last college year). I have my BAC (biggest exam ever) in a few monthes and I'm being distracted.
There's this girl that's been in my class for a year. She's the same age as me (we're both the youngest of our gender in this class, since we both skipped a grade), she's got pretty similar political opinions (though she tends to be more radical than me), she's wearing clothes similar to me, she's also kinda nerdy, which doesn't put me off the least, and she turns me on big time.
And there's one last similarity between us, we both like girls.
So for a year (soon a year and a half), I've been obsessed with her. She's ugly as fuck, not unlike me to be honest. And I've been looking at her for hours, and hours and hours. More recently, she started staring at me too, even when I was not looking her way. And we spend way too much time staring at each other.
We never spoke to each other. There is one time where she told me I was rubbing my eraser too hard against the paper and she couldn't write with the table shaking, one time where she was commenting on my friend telling her that I had drank a whole bottle of tequila in a minute, and one last time where she told me to shut up because we were watching a movie in english class and I was talking to a friend. So you see, we barely ever spoke to each other.
She has a girlfriend. And I don't even know if she's bisexual or just lesbian, so asking her on a date is completely out of question for now. But we still keep on staring at each other, and not paying attention to anything else, even in class.
I don't think I can keep not giving a damn about classes much longer because my final exams are going to be hard. It's been the center of my attention for a pretty long time and I'm not sure what to do.
Maybe you could help me. I doubt any of you has lived this particular situation before, but please: What would you do in this situation?
talk to her? make friends at least
I'll second what Typhoon suggests. At least get to know her.
[QUOTE=Scarabix;32941047][b]She's ugly as fuck[/b][/QUOTE]
V:v:V
[QUOTE=Typhoonx10;32941090]talk to her? make friends at least[/QUOTE]
I think she's a friend of my buddy Lucas. He's also in my class. Somehow I've never managed to pronounce a word aimed directly at her.
Not sure I want to "just be friends" either.
[QUOTE=Ryz0;32941117]V:v:V[/QUOTE]
I'm in love, not blind.
[QUOTE=Scarabix;32941165]
I'm in love[/QUOTE]
No offense, but no.
[QUOTE=dogmachines;32941229]No offense, but no.[/QUOTE]
Please explain. I never said I was physically attracted by her.
Just go and discuss stuff with her:politics,hobbies etc...
Invite her home saying you should study together
Become friends if nothing else
Oh and i didn't gathered whether you're male or female :v:
move on.
[QUOTE]We never spoke to each other.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE]I'm in love[/QUOTE]
lol
I know it's easier said than done, but talk to her. Try to convince her to let you guys have a 3 some.
[QUOTE=znk666;32941341]Just go and discuss stuff with her:politics,hobbies etc...
Invite her home saying you should study together
Become friends if nothing else[/QUOTE]
That would be the best thing to do, I'll keep that for whenever she breaks up with her girlfriend.
[editline]24th October 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=raviool;32941443]lol[/QUOTE]
Because she never spoke directly to me, that means I can't love her?
[QUOTE=brianosaur;32941459]I know it's easier said than done, but talk to her. Try to convince her to let you guys have a 3 some.[/QUOTE]
I'm interested into a relationship (not a strictly spiritual relationship and all that romantic bullshit, but not a threesome)
How would that even work anyway.
kill her
[QUOTE=Scarabix;32941165]I think she's a friend of my buddy Lucas. He's also in my class. Somehow I've never managed to pronounce a word aimed directly at her.
Not sure I want to "just be friends" either.[/QUOTE]
I don't see why you can't just talk.
So you're not physically attracted to her, but you've never spoken properly to her and you think you love her?
Darwin award winner 2011.
[QUOTE=Typhoonx10;32941615]I don't see why you can't just talk.[/QUOTE]
Wouldn't that be weird of me to just genuinely walk up to her for no reason and no topic to bring up after a year of staring?
[QUOTE=DaFreshLemon;32941578]kill her[/QUOTE]
Soon.
[QUOTE=Man Without Hat;32941655]So you're not physically attracted to her, but you've never spoken properly to her and you think you love her?
Darwin award winner 2011.[/QUOTE]
These are not the only two ways a human can interact. Why do you think this thread is called "awkward staring"?
When I mean staring for hours, I mean for [B]HOURS.[/B] She has such beautiful eyes, I think I could stare at her for days. And that's what I do. Also, while I never spoke to her myself, I heard her talk a lot, since we're in the same class.
That's why you have a topic to bring up. Preferably something relevant to the class. :v:
[IMG]http://i572.photobucket.com/albums/ss166/SebMcMeb123456/Creepy/Capture.png[/IMG]
stare back
[QUOTE=Scarabix;32941676]These are not the only two ways a human can interact. Why do you think this thread is called "awkward staring"?[/QUOTE]
'Love' and 'creep' aren't the same thing.
[QUOTE=Scarabix;32941676]Wouldn't that be weird of me to just genuinely walk up to her for no reason and no topic to bring up after a year of staring?[/QUOTE]
No.
[QUOTE=Man Without Hat;32941705]'Love' and 'creep' aren't the same thing.[/QUOTE]
Why would you define that as creeping when she also stares back?
[QUOTE=Typhoonx10;32941724]No.[/QUOTE]
Then I think I will try that.
[QUOTE=Gmod4ever;32941692]That's why you have a topic to bring up. Preferably something relevant to the class. :v:[/QUOTE]
Genius
You're 15. Your hormones are going crazy, this is not love. You don't even know the girl. I don't care how much you stare at each other, or how much you say you aren't physically attracted to her, this is lust, not love.
[QUOTE=dogmachines;32941730]You're 15. Your hormones are going crazy, this is not love. You don't even know the girl. I don't care how much you stare at each other, or how much you say you aren't physically attracted to her, this is lust, not love.[/QUOTE]
Are you serious? Shit man, that's awful. But what should I do then?
[QUOTE=Scarabix;32941758]Are you serious? Shit man, that's awful. But what should I do then?[/QUOTE]
I can hit you with a few sites...
Just be careful not to get addicted by this stuff.
Just talk to her, it couldn't hurt. After all that staring she has to be expecting something.
next time you catch her gaze, wink, if see winks back your in
if she does not wink back wink a few more times and rub you eye as if it was a twitch
Or you could just talk to her, find outside class and just tell her you would like to get to know her better
[QUOTE=Scarabix;32941729]Why would you define that as creeping when she also stares back?[/QUOTE]
Her friend probably said "Why's that creepy kid in the corner staring at you?" and she looked to check.
[QUOTE=dogmachines;32941781]Just talk to her, it couldn't hurt. After all that staring she has to be expecting something.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, but this could end up insanely embarassing. Oh, and did I tell her she had a girlfriend? I bet I did.
[QUOTE=Man Without Hat;32941823]Her friend probably said "Why's that creepy kid in the corner staring at you?"[/QUOTE]
I doubt she would have stared back 133 times (and counting) in this case.
[QUOTE=Scarabix;32941758]Are you serious? Shit man, that's awful. But what should I do then?[/QUOTE]
fuck her
[b]Edit:[/b] or masturbate
Ask her about what kind of music she likes or stuff like that xD
And I agree with Typhoonx10 about the At least make friends!
Don't ask her about a date when she's got a girlfriend (thump rule)
And maybe some day she will show interest in you :)
(that's kinda how I got my girlfriend xD ) And Don't get all desperate...
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