[b] Warning! Get ready for alot of depressing, girly, bullshit [/b]
So, Ive come to the conclusion that (In my opinion) friends are just full of bullshit and suck.
It's kinda depressing to see all these people with best friends since they were like 5 years old, when I can only keep a best friend for 2 - 3 years.
It began on my first day of college in 2008 when I came across a girl called Amy. We already kinda knew each other, due to her being the ex of my current boyfriend. So we got on straight away (When you start college you cling to the person you know the most, well I do.) So after many monthes of seeing each other, in college and out, we began to get really close, so close it was like we were the same person.
Now let me clarify, this girl had problems.. and I mean problems.. She got raped, twice, and once beaten up by some guy that tried to make her have sex with him. So yeah, some pretty serious issues in there.
I was hoping in some way, I'd act like her anti-depresant. I cheered her up when she was down (By making crued jokes, even jokes to do with rape.. Cause thats our humour) And tried to be there when she needed me, unlike her old best friends that all fucked her over. The first one got her raped by leaving her in the middle of Manchester alone, the second one left her with some perverted guy, alone... and the third one stayed close friends with the guy that brutally beat her up. So yeah, fucking idiots.
Now, everything was great until she started acting wierd at one point... She stopped contacting me and stopped seeing me, I was getting kinda worried and really pissed off. I eventually managed to get hold of her (Considering her phone was constantly off) and after a big, I suppose you could say, 'fallout' between us, we got across our feelings and she let me know what was going on. You see every year, around the time she got raped for the first time, she gets extremely depressed and locks herself away in her room and doesnt talk to anyone. I was like "Fair enough, but I want to help you! Dont lock yourself away when im here for you to talk too.." That obviously didnt get through because after that, as everything began to get better again.. She lost contact once again, and it remained this way for a while... She'd only pop up when she needed a shoulder to cry on or some help here and there.
I felt kinda used, I didnt want to be a part-time best friend.
We talked all this shit over again and things began to look up, she became the best friend I needed. Me and my boyfriend were going through rough patches and I'd head over to hers alot, she began telling me that he was 'mentally abusing me' and that, when he rang her up one time (When they were going out a few years back) He said nasty things to her on the phone. I left it and didnt bother telling my boyfriend about this shit. After a few monthes me and my boyfriend went away to Florida for 9 days and she came to look after the cat, because I trusted her of course... Now, things didnt go so well... There were a few issues that my boyfriend wasnt happy about whilst she was looking after the place (Nothing serious, just boring shit) and a few days later, me and my boyfriend got into a massive argument and I confronted him about the 'mental abusing' crap.
He went beserk and hated Amy for it.
He invited her over a couple of days later to discuss this shit, it didnt go so well, she began getting upset and I was just stuck in the middle of it all, she had to leave due to her going out somewhere and her brother was waiting in the car for her... Couple of minutes passed and there was a knock at the door... I fucking knew it... It was her big brother, being the chav he is used this line "You hurt my sister and ill fucking kill you, you cunt.. You understand?" Dickhead. I ran downstairs like "WTF!!1" As he left to get back in his car, and at this point, my boyfriend was upstairs calling the police about it. So anyway... Nothing serious happened, the police just made the twat sign a form saying he wasnt allowed anywhere near our house.
A couple hours later I called up Amy and asked to sort this whole shitty mess out.. And we did, she came round and we talked about it, it all seemed good.. But something didnt settle right with me.
As for my other 'so called friends' they're just those fucking boring 'dry hump my boyfriends face' types that never do anything else and dont really feel like 'friends' but more 'associates'
So after this huuuuge essay of my bullshit, she distanced herself once again, started seeing her old bestfriends (Yes the ones that fucked her over) and hasnt contacted me in any way, for weeks.
I dont know what the fuck to do, do I just fuck her off (Thats what I want to do) or what?!
Facepunch... I need some answers! I cant stop thinking about this shit... And this is really fucking depressing me, this girl ment alot to me.
Sorry for the rant.. But I needed to get this crap off my chest somewhere :/
[b]Update[/b]
So thanks to everyone who actually gave me advice, it helped alot
Also went to a Halloween Party last night and got talking to some friends about all this shit.. Seems they do care which im glad about, also a close friend of mine was feeling exactly how I was.
Seems like everythings going to be ok :)
Oh, and thanks for the boxes, I'll be building shortly.
[QUOTE=Porn0graphix;25733226][b] Warning! Get ready for alot of depressing, girly, bullshit [/b]
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Thanks for saving me the time.
Shit sucks. Deal with it is all I can say. Don't associate yourself with people like that.
[QUOTE=Porn0graphix;25733226][b] Warning! Get ready for alot of depressing, girly, bullshit [/b][/QUOTE]
Not the best way to start a thread
But I feel for you, and I hope your shit gets sorted out. Friends can be total fucks.
holy shit whats with all of these shit threads in the past week
oify is truley the only safe place
You needed to get crap off your chest?
Ewwww.
[QUOTE=BigHeaded B;25733295]holy shit whats with all of these shit threads in the past week
oify is truley the only safe place[/QUOTE]
no oify is even worse
all they talk about is how shitty other forums are
[QUOTE=Drasnus;25733305]You needed to get crap off your chest?
Ewwww.[/QUOTE]
I actually expected this to be the first comment. Well done, sir.
I thought this was a thread about the shitty TV show
[img]http://annelielisabet.blogg.se/images/2007/friends_1197466161_4664333.jpg[/img]
It's not that bad :frown:
best blog I've seen today
Holy shit, an actual girl posting a "girl" problem on facepunch?
Well done.
[QUOTE=Porn0graphix;25733226][b] Warning! Get ready for alot of depressing, girly, bullshit [/b]
So, Ive come to the conclusion that (In my opinion) friends are just full of bullshit and suck.
It's kinda depressing to see all these people with best friends since they were like 5 years old, when I can only keep a best friend for 2 - 3 years.[/QUOTE]
i read this far, then came to the conclusion that since most people are able to hold onto friends for a considerable amount of time, [B]you must be the problem.[/B]
and why are you posting this anyway?
[QUOTE=>VLN<;25733574]Holy shit, an actual girl posting a "girl" problem on facepunch?
Well done.[/QUOTE]
Try talking to an actual girl about your problems.. They fucking annoy me.
Get better friends.
[QUOTE=Porn0graphix;25733226]As for my other 'so called friends' they're just those fucking boring 'dry hump my boyfriends face' types that never do anything else and dont really feel like 'friends' but more 'associates'[/QUOTE]
i don't know anybody that does that. you must know some weird people
[editline]30th October 2010[/editline]
[QUOTE=The golden;25733703]Either she's the problem, or she's attempted to make friends with an asshole.[/QUOTE]
in this case yes, it would appear so. but starting out with saying that you can't keep hold of a friend for more than 2 - 3 years isn't that normal.
[QUOTE=Autumn;25733667]i read this far, then came to the conclusion that since most people are able to hold onto friends for a considerable amount of time, [B]you must be the problem.[/B]
and why are you posting this anyway?[/QUOTE]
I shouldnt have really said that, what I ment to say was.. Whatever best friends I had.. Either made their own family and moved on.. Or moved to a diffrent country. My bad.
At least you have some :smith:
not all friends suck, just yours
Sorry sis, my friends are great.
[QUOTE=Haxxer;25734051]Sorry sis, my friends are great.[/QUOTE]
Gimme D:
[QUOTE=Porn0graphix;25733690]Try talking to an actual girl about your problems.. They fucking annoy me.[/QUOTE]
Males just don't listen, they stare at your breasts. (Or lack of if you're flat chested)
[QUOTE=Rosek;25734324]Males just don't listen, they stare at your breasts. (Or lack of if you're flat chested)[/QUOTE]
So what better way then to talk to Facepunch about it, where they cant see my breasts.
My friend threw a plant pot at me once :(
Facepunch is not your blog.
Some friends do [b]Suck[/b] :pervert:
[QUOTE=wingless;25734451]Some friends do [b]Suck[/b] :pervert:[/QUOTE]
:laugh:
[QUOTE=wingless;25734451]Some friends do [b]Suck[/b] :pervert:[/QUOTE]
And how would you know this?
[QUOTE=SomeRandomGuy18;25733337]no oify is even worse
all they talk about is how shitty other forums are[/QUOTE]
cant w8 till u get garbage dayed m8
[QUOTE=Vizip;25734439]Facepunch is not your blog.[/QUOTE]
I'd beg to differ
[url]http://www.facepunch.com/blog.php[/url]
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