• 3 Stolen Girlfriends and Counting: The Story of Jay
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Jay was an old acquaintance of mine. He had a history of stealing the girlfriend's of his friends. The first time I only heard about, but the second time I was a witness to. Basically, he became good friends with this guy Greg. Jay lost his job and Greg asked Jay if he wanted to move into Greg's house with his parents. Jay agreed. At the time, Greg was engaged to this girl Annie. Greg and Annie had a rocky relationship, but they were together for like 10 years. Enter Jay. Every time Greg and Annie would argue, Greg would want to be left alone. Jay would see this and try to play peacemaker by consoling Annie. This went on for a while until one day, Annie decided to break it off with Greg. Shortly thereafter, it became public that Annie was dating Jay. Greg was livid and kicked Jay out of his house. Annie and Jay decided to get married. Fast forward 6 years. Jay and Annie are having problems. Jay is staying out until all hours of the night and rumors start spreading that he's messing around. Annie confirms this and files for divorce. Jay is hurt, but he's ok because their relationship was shit for a while regardless. Enter Maddy and Russ. I've been friends with Russ for a few years. He had been dating Maddy since they were in high school, about 8 years. Russ and Jay became good friends as they both bowled in the same leagues. They started hanging out together and Russ introduced Jay to Maddy and they all start going to bars together and just hanging out a lot. When it becomes known that Russ and Jay have become good friends, Russ finds out that Jay has a history of stealing his friend's girls. Jay gets upset about this becoming public, but Russ ignores it. We start to warn Russ that he is known for this, but Russ brushes us off. Finally, Russ pops the question to Maddy and Maddy says yes. They start planning the wedding and everyone is merry. I got my invitation and RSVP'd that I would be attending. They booked the reception hall and the church and everything was good. And then a month before the wedding, Maddy mysteriously decides to break up with Russ, cancels all the invitations and loses the deposit on the reception hall. Russ was devastated. For weeks he tried to find out why Maddy broke up with him and all Maddy will tell him is, "it wasn't going to work out" or "I just stopped loving you," never offering anything more. Russ struggled mightily to get over Maddy and after a while, he decided to move to South Carolina because everything in New York reminded him of Maddy. As soon as they broke up, rumors started swirling that Jay had fucked Maddy and that's why they broke up. Jay catches wind of the rumors and decides to confront me about them (I hate Jay and from the beginning I was openly warning Russ about Jay). One night at the bowling alley, Jay and I are outside and he starts rough-housing with me. I push him off of me and he gets upset. He gets in my face and says, "I was just joking around with you and now you wanna get all serious?" I say, "maybe you can push around those other guys, but you aren't gonna push me around." We start talking and he asks me if I started the rumors. I said there weren't any rumors, everything I told Russ was the truth and I just told him to be careful because of your history. Jay looks at me square in the face and says, "Padgoi, I promise you I've never touched Maddy before and never would." I say, "Jay, you're standing there as a man giving me your word so I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt." I saw him 2 or 3 more times after that and we were civil. Fast forward to yesterday. My friend Glenn messages me out of nowhere and says, "You were right." I say, "about what?" He says, "Remember Russ?" I said, "Jay fucked Maddy, didn't he?" He says, "worse. Numerous people have spotted them around town dating and rumor has it that they are now living together." Russ's brother Travis is LIVID. Travis was very good friends with Jay and he defended Jay when we told him about Jay's history. Now that he sees for himself that the rumors were true, he wants to literally pummel the shit out of Jay. I told him, whenever you're ready, I'm there. I fucking hate Jay. He deserves to get hurt. He just needs an ass-kicking. And there's more than a handful of people who want to give him what he has coming. That's where we are now. More as it develops...
-that's a snipe-
Man it's hard enough to get a girlfriend of my own and that fuck manages to steal the ones already in a relationship. Out of all these single woman, he chooses these.
That story makes me rethink of the reason why my girlfriend broke up with me. All i got is " I was not happy and we fought alot"
In general, the reason you are given for a breakup is not the actual driving reason behind the breakup. [editline]8th October 2015[/editline] [QUOTE=cartman300;48861098]Man it's hard enough to get a girlfriend of my own and that fuck manages to steal the ones already in a relationship. Out of all these single woman, he chooses these.[/QUOTE] It's because he's an "asshole". He's manipulative, duplicitous, and has no regard for the emotions of others.
everything i just read is just awful... i feel so bad for all of the people jay wronged
sounds like after you guys are through with him, he's going to be a black and blue-jay, lmao
Man, I feel super bad for Russ. Not only did they break off A WEEK before their planned marriage, but it also caused him to have to move too? Jay sounds like a real son of a bitch. Then again, these girls didn't have too much fidelity to start to fall sway to the Jay.
I'm trying to picture Jay. At first, I saw him as a friendly chill dude that just really liked girls, taken or not. By the end he seems like a douchebag who thinks all the girls belong to him or something. Is he like a big macho dude who says "no-homo" to everything and wears letterman jackets as a grown man?
Jay sounds like my kinda man. I just accidentally said yes to this capital-L lame boyo, and I could really use a Jay to help me out right about now. Does he do contract work, or is it a full-time hiring type situation?
Jay sounds like a real turd, but really, if you can just break it off with your fiance with something as cold as "I stopped loving you" and go off with his friend and not have that affect your conscience, then your ass is probably not worth crying over anyway.
Jay is a conniving little cunt but the sounds of it.
For those interested, here's a glamour shot of Maddy. She is NOT hot, this is just one of those brushed-up photos. In person she's meh at best. Also, she's put on a shit ton of weight so now she looks like a circle. [IMG]http://oi60.tinypic.com/2u5t9ms.jpg[/IMG] And here's Russ: [IMG]http://oi60.tinypic.com/fdwnef.jpg[/IMG] And here's Jay: [IMG]http://oi57.tinypic.com/9g98gn.jpg[/IMG]
Dude looks like a major douche.
[QUOTE=Padgoi;48893292] And here's Jay: [IMG]http://oi57.tinypic.com/9g98gn.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE] That's so fucking true to the mental image I had of that fucker.. SHIT! :v:
The Jay must have some serious gas-lighting skills going for him. Repeatedly manipulating taken girls into infidelity like that is either something you'd see from someone who idolizes the Bond character to an unhealthy degree, or from someone you wouldn't be surprised turned out to be a serial killer.
Uh, I can understand posting jay online from what you've said about him, but is posting the other people involved really needed? Doubt they want to be on Facepunch.
[QUOTE=Padgoi;48893292][IMG]http://oi57.tinypic.com/9g98gn.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE] Holy shit that man is accessorized [editline]14th October 2015[/editline] Is that an earring with a stone ?
[QUOTE=matt000024;48894915]Uh, I can understand posting jay online from what you've said about him, but is posting the other people involved really needed? Doubt they want to be on Facepunch.[/QUOTE] I thought including all of the pictures added something to the story.
Well you know what they say: just because there is a goalkeeper in the way doesn't mean there isn't a way to score.
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