• Getting into the 'popular' cliche - Meeting new people
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So last night I had bit of a dilemma and am still a little off from it. It started off with me texting this girl I kind of like and I was saying how I was going to go to the beach and smoke, I guess her parents weren't home and she lives on the beach so she invited me over. So, I go over and it's her and her friend, we smoke for a little and i'm making them laugh and we are talking and I feel really comfortable. Now, these girls are pretty popular I guess and after sitting and talking for like an hour these two kids walk in, one of which I kinda knew and another which I didn't and they were kind of alright. A girl came in and soon more kids started coming in and they started drinking and shit. There were a lot of moments where i'm just sitting there baked trying to figure out what I should do, I wanted to dip but I had to take the girls friend to her boyfriends who actually came and then offered me to smoke weed laced with codeine. I was like "Nah, I gotta drive" but then I was stuck there even longer cause he was using my bowl. Now, the biggest question I have with this is... You're sitting in a room full of popular kids from school that have never even talked to you and they are all doing their own thing, WHAT DO YOU DO!? I mean, I wish I was a little more popular and knew the kids but I just felt out of place as hell and wasn't sure where to sit or whether to say anything or not. They went to a party and I just drove home and just had a long thinking session. I guess this is my first step into getting into their social circle, but i'm not sure what their opinion was. I guess it was stupid that I didn't leave but i'm just wondering what you would do in the situation. tl;dr: Comfortable around 2 girls, but then random people started showing up and awkwardness ensues
Pull your penis out.
Talk to them...? Get to know them? Just a few pointers.
Smoking causes cancer.
smoking will kill you youre gonna get cancer [editline]03:18PM[/editline] hey shut up magepro99
[QUOTE=professional;20349340]Pull your penis out.[/QUOTE] This.
[QUOTE=archangel125;20349364]This.[/QUOTE] This.
Wait until they say something you're interested in. Otherwise, I wouldn't want to know them. Also, embarassing yourself in front of 20 people is the same as 2 people if those 2 are girls.
[QUOTE=professional;20349340]Pull your penis out.[/QUOTE] This man is professional listen to him.
Be chill. Keep joking. have a good time. Peple will want to hang around you more.
So you tried to think of [I]everything [/I]except talk to the kids.
[QUOTE=Hellduck;20349377]This.[/QUOTE] This.
You're so cool now man
wait it out, see what they do and how you can hook in. Eventually, if you're not a douche, they'll accept you, you'll feel better and you'll be popular.
Fuck popularity. You can have much more fun and make much cooler friends if you're not worried about what people think about you.
Just hang out, act relaxed and make conversation. You can't blame anyone but yourself if a situation gets awkward, if you keep a relaxed attitude they'll probably warm to you and think you're a cool guy. Don't try too hard though.
just get stoned and start rambling if they think you're annoying and not funny or amusing, the people you are around are either smarter or dumber than you, so try going up or down a level
When i'm stoned i'm more aware of what people are thinking. I did not know kids were coming over though and being stoned makes me usually less social. If I drink, then yes i'll be more social but I did not want to steal drinks from the other kids and just decided to play it cool and chill. I put my two cents in whenever a topic came up that I could talk about but most of the time it was about other kids at school and I don't even know who they are talking about so I was kind of lost.
---SERIOUS POST--- i had the same problem. totally AVOID talking too much, but do not stand there quietly. get as close friend as possible with the two girls you first met. It will start curiosity in the other people, for sure. like "who's that new guy?" "it's a cool boy i know, i can make you two meet" they will make you know the others in the upcoming days, et voilà, you are the no-more-unknown friend of the popular ones. i did like this and now -i'm friend / i know / i met more than once- all the scene guys and chicks in my city, i have a partner, i sing in a band, and i'm invited to private alternative partyes. All in 2 months.
who cares who they are you should either make new good friends or hang out with those that you already have
[QUOTE=archangel125;20349561]Fuck popularity. You can have much more fun and make much cooler friends if you're not worried about what people think about you.[/QUOTE] we have a winner!
Just chill with them, dont keep to quiet, yet dont talk too much.
dont be such a nerd
You're cool because you smoke.
smoking is cool man, do it with no regard for your health, it makes you super duper cool, honest
[QUOTE=magepro99;20349350]Smoking causes cancer.[/QUOTE] Just about everything causes cancer even some food causes cancer. In the end everyone is going to die at some point or another.
[QUOTE=KevinRudd;20350252]smoking is cool man, do it with no regard for your health, it makes you super duper cool, honest[/QUOTE] You're so mature and wise can I have a picture of you to show all my friends. I can tell them you're the best example there is!
[QUOTE=archangel125;20349364]This.[/QUOTE] I must agree.
The trick to 'cool kids' knowing you is not to be a total shut-in.
it's 'clique' not cliche
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