13 year old Dutch girl kills herself over "Banga list" - Polidicks

[quote]"In Pijnacker last night a 13-year-old girl committed suicide possibly because of a so called banga list. On the Internet and social media rumors are going around that the girl has deprived herself of life because her name would appear on a "banga" list. Police in the southern Dutch village has confirmed the suicide, but would not comment."[/quote] [url=http://www.mediaenkranten.nl/?p=704]Dutch Source[/url] [quote]The media reports this is not the first suicide because of these lists. Though it is silly, her tweets show things like; "I can't handle this shit" "Please, I want to hold on'' And her last tweet: "I tried, but I can't hold on. Bye xx"[/quote] Apparently a banga list is a top 10 list boys make listing which girls are the "easiest", aka, which are sluts. That's just sad, but still, also a bit of an overreaction...

People can't take a fucking punch anymore, what happened to not giving a fuck.

Suicide was pretty unnecessary, but so was having a bunch of sex at 13.

[QUOTE=FalconKrunch;35341549]People can't take a fucking punch anymore, what happened to not giving a fuck.[/QUOTE]People are human beings with emotions and such?

[QUOTE=SeanL;35341553]Suicide was pretty unnecessary, but so was having a bunch of sex at 13.[/QUOTE] They weren't having sex, it's just a list of a bunch of idiots that have nothing better to do.

[QUOTE=SeanL;35341553]Suicide was pretty unnecessary, but so was having a bunch of sex at 13.[/QUOTE] For al we know, it was just kids being assholes, putting her name on that list just for shits and giggles.

What made her think she could fix this herself instead of seeking professional help?

[QUOTE=Doctor Zedacon;35341557]People are human beings with emotions and such?[/QUOTE] Yes cause we've survived 100 000 years and 2 world wars cause we care about peoples emotions.

[QUOTE=Sir Whoopsalot;35341575]What made her think she could fix this herself instead of seeking professional help?[/QUOTE]Fear, confusion, anxiety, simply being uninformed. A lot of people simply never seek help, it happens far too often. That is why there has been such a big push in the last couple of years trying to get victims of bullying to speak up and get help. [editline]29th March 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Re-y-tard;35341584]Yes cause we've survived 100 000 years and 2 world wars cause we care about peoples emotions.[/QUOTE]Hardcore badass motha-fucka here guys.

[QUOTE=Doctor Zedacon;35341587] [editline]29th March 2012[/editline] Hardcore badass motha-fucka here guys.[/QUOTE] Not even. I have my own demons. But I'm getting tired of people killing themselves over stupid shit. Where the fuck were her parents? Why didn't she ask for help? It's not fucking hard but people are afraid to do easy shit like that.

[QUOTE=Doctor Zedacon;35341557]People are human beings with emotions and such?[/QUOTE] So? That doesn't mean you kill yourself, I was bullied in high school for 3 years straight. I can tell you that does more to you then being put on a stupid list.

[QUOTE=Doctor Zedacon;35341557]People are human beings with emotions and such?[/QUOTE] Killing yourself over being called a slut? Little extreme don't you think?

[QUOTE=Re-y-tard;35341598]Not even. I have my own demons. But I'm getting tired of people killing themselves over stupid shit. Where the fuck were her parents? Why didn't she ask for help? It's not fucking hard but people are afraid to do easy shit like that.[/QUOTE]I already said why, and you come in acting like everyone should act like some tough-as-nails rock and pretend that emotions have absolutely zero impact in real life. But this is not the place to get in to it, so take it somewhere else.

so what the fuck is a banga list?

[QUOTE=FalconKrunch;35341604]So? That doesn't mean you kill yourself, I was bullied in high school for 3 years straight. I can tell you that does more to you then being put on a stupid list.[/QUOTE]Not everyone is you.

hmm hey guys you know what i just discovered? i discovered that 99% of suicides are caused by mental disorders, diagnosed or otherwise. wait, thisispanini, does this mean that the dutch girl was unstable and therefor a good example of why mental disorder needs to lose its stigma in modern society? yes it does, very observant.

[QUOTE=Desuh;35341614]so what the fuck is a banga list?[/QUOTE] a list 12 year olds make of who the biggest sluts are...

Why the fuck these boys did it? It reminds me of the middle school, where girls would do list of the hottest actor/singer/whatever This is really dumb

[QUOTE=overpain;35341632]Why the fuck these boys did it? It reminds me of the middle school, where girls would do list of the hottest actor/singer/whatever This is really dumb[/QUOTE] Boredom mostly.

[QUOTE=Sithramir;35341630]a list 12 year olds make of who the biggest sluts are...[/QUOTE] 12 year old sluts? What has this world come to?

Aww man. C'mon, seriously? I know puberty's hard with all those emotions, but let's summarize it: Girl who shouldn't have sex at her age had probably sex or was put on a list of possible sluts and therefore kills herself over it. The fuck?

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[QUOTE=KILLTHIS;35341669]Aww man. C'mon, seriously? I know puberty's hard with all those emotions, but let's summarize it: Girl who shouldn't have sex at her age had probably sex or was put on a list of possible sluts and therefore kills herself over it. The fuck?[/QUOTE] Internet badass over here

So a 13-year old girl, quite possibly suffering from some sort of mental disorder(not even gonna get into what an emotional clusterfuck puberty is), kills herself over a quite possibly fabricated(even if it wasn't fabricated that wouldn't change a thing) "slut-shaming" list written by a bunch of spiteful, mean teenage shitheads, and instead of even attempting to come of as sensible, informed or reasonable, you morons immediately go "haha what an overreacting pussy slut first world problems" in order to come off as edgy and cynical. You embarassing, clueless bunch of fuckwits.

change quite possibly to quite definitely.

[QUOTE=KILLTHIS;35341669]Aww man. C'mon, seriously? I know puberty's hard with all those emotions, but let's summarize it: Girl who shouldn't have sex at her age had probably sex or was put on a list of possible sluts and therefore kills herself over it. The fuck?[/QUOTE] Why shouldnt you have sex at that age if you want to? As long as its with people around the same age I dont really see too much wrong with it.

[QUOTE=FalconKrunch;35341549]People can't take a fucking punch anymore, what happened to not giving a fuck.[/QUOTE] I'm fairly certain both giving too much of a fuck and not giving a single fuck are mental disorders go figure

There are two sides to every story, one being this a really sad story. Number 2 One less idiot on the planet Seriously, overreaction much I've never even heard of a Banga list before and why the hell do you commit suicide over 13 year olds making a dumb joke.

[QUOTE=Nemisis116;35341876]There are two sides to every story, one being this a really sad story. Number 2 One less idiot on the planet Seriously, overreaction much I've never even heard of a Banga list before and why the hell do you commit suicide over 13 year olds making a dumb joke.[/QUOTE] because she had a mental disorder. that doesn't mean she was an idiot.

[QUOTE=Nemisis116;35341876]why the hell do you commit suicide over 13 year olds making a dumb joke.[/QUOTE] being somewhat mentally unstable would probably egg you on a bit