• Love Advice Chat - v. Garry deleted the subforum
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Get speaking in here, you all need shelter now you have a lack of subforum.
Atleast I have Gaypunch. But then again, I miss Love Advice too :(
There's a megathread in GD, you know? Though, I'm guessing this is more for idle chat
[QUOTE=Scoooby;28242502]Atleast I have Gaypunch.[/QUOTE] Not for long!
Agree with this post if you think the deletion of L.A. is bullshit.
Dang garry, that was harsh man. I used to get tons of wisdom from L.A..... not to mention hours of entertainment
Need a better love chat thread than this.
MaverickIB should have made this thread, he is the king of LA.
[QUOTE=B-hazard;28253336]MaverickIB should have made this thread, he is the king of LA.[/QUOTE] He just went offline, guess we'll have to wait. Although I think its stupid to wait until he gets online, if a mod gives me the A-OK I will make a new thread with a better OP and title and such.
But where else will I put my "a girl brushed my arm in the hall does she like me???" threads?
God damnit I'm pathetic i should move on
Where is the love (The love) Where is the love (The love) Where is the love The love, the love :(
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So, since this is a love advice thread: Theres a girl I like. She would normally be way out of my league, apart from one thing. She actually seems to like me. She texts me sometimes and I occasionally have a quick chat at college. Thing is, I can't tell if she's just flirting (as girls do) or if she actually likes me. Advice? Should I just ask her out? Should I ask her if she likes me? I need a tutorial like for everything computer related :saddowns:
God no don't ask if she likes you. You're in college. Just ask her out.
Whats the best way then? "Will you go out with me?" Seems a bit childish. "Would you like to see a film?" seems more fitting but doesn't really convey what I actually mean :saddowns:
"Hey, wanna go out with me to[location or event] at [time]?" The point is getting to know her in a non "friends" context. Go out literally should mean go out with, not necessarily be in a relationship. After a few dates it's between you two if you want it to become an official relationship. Don't feel pressured or rushed to do so either; really get to know her in the dating period; that's the goal.
Darn. My daily dose of LA's constant drama will be harder to find now. Where will I get my blunt Maverick and my emotional Convoluted?
Who knows. I'm just pissed because of my damn post count. First off, not all of my posts were in LA, and second off, it won't increase. Also there's apparently 2 groups for love advice and several threads. What do we do?
I asked a friend out when I was pissed out of my ass and I also managed to insult her by basically saying she'll die alone and fail at life funnily enough , we just joke about it all the time. no awkwardness or anything
[QUOTE=ConvolutedLogic;28256419]Who knows. I'm just pissed because of my damn post count. First off, not all of my posts were in LA, and second off, it won't increase. Also there's apparently 2 groups for love advice and several threads. What do we do?[/QUOTE] My posts were removed as well, which is crap. [editline]24th February 2011[/editline] And they won't go up. Is it Garry or Compwheezys fault?
[QUOTE=Trumple;28255278]So, since this is a love advice thread: Theres a girl I like. She would normally be way out of my league, apart from one thing. She actually seems to like me. She texts me sometimes and I occasionally have a quick chat at college. Thing is, I can't tell if she's just flirting (as girls do) or if she actually likes me. Advice? Should I just ask her out? Should I ask her if she likes me? I need a tutorial like for everything computer related :saddowns:[/QUOTE] Read my thread in GD, I answer pretty much every question you just asked in the OP. Also, there's no need for a "proper" OP or anything. This seems to be more of a general chat thread for old members, not really a thread for advice and whatnot. That's what the thread I made in GD is for.
sorry about that mav, i didn't see your thread before i made this
so do we all hang out here, or what?
Sure.
I almost never posted in LA, but I lurked there a lot. You guys has a close knit community, and it's sad to see it go. HOWEVER, the advice you gave was repetitive as shit. You didn't really give advice based on each poster's personal situation, taking their own fears, social skills, level of courage, etc. into consideration. You had 2 responses, "Ask her out", or "End it". That is not the type of advice that a community of people on a forum can give, that is something you could get from Google or something. As a forum, don't you want to use the resources that you have to dig deeper into the personal situation to give them accurate advice about [i]exactly[/i] how to solve their problem?
Except asking the girl out [i]was[/i] exactly how to answer their problem. There's literally no way to ask a girl out without asking a girl out. There's no way to engage with a girl without needing some courage, social skills, etc. You're retarded.
So tell them how to deal with that, or tell them something they can do to help themselves? Go a little more in-depth with your advice, because there [i]is[/i] more to solving their problem than that.
No, there isn't.
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