Yeah, thread title sums it up. She's a lonely girl, i must admit, she doesn't have too many friends and her family is quiet too. She's completely convinced she wants this child, she begged another friend that is a bit older to have sex with her so she can have one.
I've been speaking to her for 3 hours, trying to convince her that this is an awful idea and that she would be giving up everything. She just won't listen, and i don't know what to do.. I really don't want her life to be wasted. My friend has always been very sad, she had a rough upbringing and she said she wants the kid to make it happier than she was when she was younger. She has no idea what she is letting herself into.
I have no idea what to say. What can i do?!
[B]UPDATE:[/B]
yay she wants me to be a godmother.
I fucking hate kids what the fuck do i do shit
[b]ANOTHER FUCKING UPDATE:[/b]
hohoho merry christmas guys
she's fucking pregnant
what a great present i have this year huh
Talk to her parents.
Let her do what she wants. If she wants to fuck up her own life, let her.
is she hot
Slap her for being stupid, and that a child is probably the biggest responsibility anyone can have.
Age is a pretty damn important factor in this, how old is she?
[QUOTE=ketchup;20405405]Talk to her parents.[/QUOTE]
Her parents are both cunts
[QUOTE=BANNED USER;20405418]Slap her for being stupid, and that a child is probably the biggest responsibility anyone can have.[/QUOTE]
Tell her to get back in the kitchen and start preparing food. That will get her mind off having a child.
[QUOTE=CourageDog;20405447]Her parents are both cunts[/QUOTE]
That doesn't change the fact that if you really have no other options, you should talk to her parents.
by all means, fuck her, fuck her brains out!
[QUOTE=CourageDog;20405399]Yeah, thread title sums it up. She's a lonely girl, i must admit, she doesn't have too many friends and her family is quiet too. She's completely convinced she wants this child, she begged another friend that is a bit older to have sex with her so she can have one.
I've been speaking to her for 3 hours, trying to convince her that this is an awful idea and that she would be giving up everything. She just won't listen, and i don't know what to do.. I really don't want her life to be wasted. My friend has always been very sad, she had a rough upbringing and she said she wants the kid to make it happier than she was when she was younger.
I have no idea what to say. What can i do?![/QUOTE]
Kid isn't gonna be very happy if your friend struggles to get even basic necessities for it because she has no education, job, or man in her life. Did you explain this? If she wants to make a child happy, she should wait and sort out her shit first.
She sounds like a bad mother.
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Go with ketchup and talk to her parents. You're only being her friend if you rat on her.
Let her have it.
Once it is born, feast upon its supple flesh in front of its own mother.
[QUOTE=BagMinge101;20405412]Let her do what she wants. If she wants to fuck up her own life, let her.[/QUOTE]
I fucking hate people who give this piece of advice; and so many people do. It's just fucking retarded. I swear people do it just to be edgy and cool.
Offer to impregnate her.
Remind her that having a kid is not simply having a kid. It's having a human being that will rely on you for 18 years.
is she fat I bet she's fat????
Let her do it. If she really wants to be a complete dumbass, she's going to do it anyways.
I hate when people say let them ruin their life, because in the end who's life are they really ruining, theirs or their childs?
[quote=Robbobin]I fucking hate people who give this piece of advice; and so many people do. It's just fucking retarded. I swear people do it just to be edgy and cool.[/quote]
BagMinge101 seems to have overlooked the fact that it's two lives she's going to screw up. There is a baby involved.
According to the 2005 report from the Department of Agriculture, the cost of raising a child to the age of 17 will be approximately $500,000.[url=http://www.pregnancy-info.net/raising_child_cost.html]link[/url]
Tell her that.
Hey guys, my mother got my sister when she was 17, and we are very happy, my dad went to university at the same time, my mother makes the job at home and my father make the job outside to make money. You can have a child, but just be sure to have a good boy that will not give up after 2 months.
Sit her down? And ask her to be logical. Financial Support? Single Parent? No specialized education?Babies Future?What if she dies?twins?retardation? Is she ready for every eventuality.
Next time post her age, prefession, etc or dont expect and useful answers
[QUOTE=Septimas;20405468]by all means, fuck her, fuck her brains out![/QUOTE]
Yeah, I mean you obviously can't convince her not to have the baby. Besides, who would you rather have sex with her, you, or some older 'friend'?
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oh wait, you're a girl
I'm a girl to everyone saying fuck her haha
[QUOTE=BANNED USER;20405418]Slap her [b]ass[/b] for being [b]horny[/b], and that a child is probably the biggest responsibility anyone can have.[/QUOTE]
Fix'd
Punch her in the ovaries.
[QUOTE=BagMinge101;20405412]Let her do what she wants. If she wants to fuck up her own life, let her.[/QUOTE]
You know that she might possibly fuck up somebody elses life too right?
Her family, and the GODDAMN BABY ITSELF!
Your advice only works when it affects only the person itself.
take her to church
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