[b]The Nice Guy Complex or: You're All Misogynists[/b]
It's a common whinge in the forums that girls are all the same. They only go for men that treat them badly, and the 'nice guys' are left with nothing, and the only time 'nice guys' can catch up is when they're in their thirties and forties, much past their prime. Read that sentence again. Do you agree with that? Yes? Congratulations, you're officially a misogynist! The basis of this sentiment is patriarchal and entitled trash. Let's break it down blow by blow:
- Women only go for men that treat them badly.
Actually, it turns out that women don't like being treated like shit anymore than you do! Weird, isn't it? This is related to the next point, one of the most important ones:
- I'm a 'nice guy', but I don't get any girls (the whores).
No, you're not. I've seen this happen dozens of times, and the timeline is almost always the same. X feels he deserves a women. X pretends that he is courteous in order to warm up his love interest, Y. X then sits, hoping to be asked out. Y then goes for a different man. X gets angry: "That bitch, I was nice and she went for some jerk! Fuck her and fuck women!". He then channels his impotent rage and takes it out on the internet. But let's see what went wrong here. First, he did nothing when he had the chance, and then blamed the consequences of his (in)actions on the woman. Second, he's [i]not actually a nice guy.[/i] Do you see that? You're not nice, just spineless. Third, you're a misogynist and using the woman as a social tool and as an outlet for your sexual dissatisfaction. There's something about that that turns off the ladies. Moving on:
- Nice guys only catch up when the women are past their prime.
Of the entire argument, this says the most about the man who thinks this. You think a woman's 'prime' is when she is most sexually active. That is all she is worth to you. That is all you think a woman is ever worth, how well she can be used as your personal masturbation toy.
So please feel free to tell me how wrong I am for believing women should be treated as equals!!
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you are wrong
OP missed his chance
So did you register just to tell facepunch that they're nerds?
Are you calling me fat?
I treat women with the utmost respect, and have never had a problem.
Although once the chloroform has kicked in they don't protest much anyway..
I'll say it now, women are only good for making Sandwiches. Beat them if they forget the mayo.
Or maybe it's because all the guys that treat girls like shit have [I]girlfriends[/I] but not [U]girl[/U] [U]friends.[/U]
I have alot of female friends who come to me for comfort - but not a girlfriend because I'm a bit of a geek.
It's true, I personally find guys who act like dicks to me a huge turn off. I've never been with a guy like that. If a guy acts uninterested I give up on him and move onto someone else. If a guy doesn't show he is interested too then I again give up on them and look elsewhere. Stereotyping women out of your own buisiness just means you're just as much of a dick as the "jerks" you're talking about.
[QUOTE=QuikSilv3r;17292409]you are wrong[/QUOTE]
You're right, your cutting, yet eloquent, defense of the patriarchy has caused a sudden change of heart, I now retract my entire argument.
So you are basically proving that you yourself are taking out your impotent rage on the internet. Also, I have no idea how this relates to treating women as equals. Please explain.
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