I think my father is gay - General

This was bugging me for ages and I really need to tell this someone, I can't even tell my friends. As you see, I think my father is gay. You probably don't care, but you are the only person that I can talk to right now. My father is a nice person. He has a great job, while mom doesn't. Without him, I don't know, if I could have, what I have now. PC, PS3, a big aparment, an apartment at the sea,... he really cares about me. But the thing that he might be gay is frustrating me. I mean, think about your dad being gay. How the fuck would you feel? I wasn't quite certain if he was, I thought to myself that it might be my mind playing tricks on me. But then these things happened: -When I helped him something on his laptop, he had a tab opened. It said something like:"Gay romeo". -I came home earlier and the door was locked. I couldn't unlock it, because if we leave our keys in the door from the inside, you can't unlock it from the outside. We all know that, but that day it was locked like that. I rang, and he opened the door. We was just putting his shirt on. Normally I came inside, went to my room and I heard some guy from the living room, asking my father:"Who is it?". After 5 minutes, I went to our living room, and they were gone. -My father's friend was few days with us on our vacation. We had quite a lot of fun. And one day, we were sitting at the bar and watching the sea. My mom was talking about something and pointing her finger at something, while some fitnes guys come by. And no, my father and his friend didn't look at the thing my mom was talking about, THEY LOOKED DIRECTLY AND THOSE FUCKERS. And there's a lot more things I came across. I really want to tell my friend about this, but he and my father understand each other very good. My mother and father had this joke about divorce, asking me that if they get divorced, who would I choose to live with? I said mom, because she has a bad job and she would need some help. But then my father ALMOST EVERYDAY asked me the same thing."You sure you would live with your mother. If you live with me, you will have all games and anything you'll want". I just responded:"Nope. With my mom. She would need help". I'm just scared that if my father somehow finds out, that I know about him being gay or his (not-knowing) friends find out about this, he will leave us. If that happens, I can say goodbye to internet, to our home, to our apartment at the sea, to my PC, to school, to almost everything, because we wouldn't have enough money to pay everything. So what should I do? I was thinking to be quiet for a few more years, to get a job and move away(I'm 19 now). And then I won't give a fuck about if they get a divorce or not. But these gay hints are getting stronger and stronger each day and I'm so fucking tired of them. GODDAMNIT, WHY? By the way, excuse any spelling mistakes.

you're adopted, your mother is actually a guy [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Snipe" - Gurant))[/highlight]

[QUOTE=wewt!;25915601]you're adopted, your mother is actually a guy[/QUOTE] Can you ,please, read the whole thread next time?

I did, he wont leave.

When did that "get stuff of your chest" thread appear? I would post in there if I saw it before. Goddamn.

Just let it be.

Even if your dad is gay, you shouldn't look at him differently. Just try to pretend as if you didn't know.

[QUOTE=Oversoul;25915673]Even if your dad is gay, you shouldn't look at him differently. Just try to pretend as if you didn't know.[/QUOTE] That's exactly what I'm doing. But when I forget about it, another hint comes up and reminds me.

I felt similarly when I found out my Dad smoked pot. I never confronted him about it (it was about 5 years ago). Being gay is something that you can't really control, just like (i assume) you are attracted to women. My parents divorced when I was FIVE YEARS OLD, and they divorced because my Dad was cheating on my mom with the person I now know as my step-mom. I hate myself every day for not feeling hate at my stepmom because she ruiined my life, but i deal with it. I have friends and I am living alone now, so I could care less about what my family is doing, I make my own life now. Things could be worse than divorce, but i could just be saying that.

Sometimes people come out of the closet after several years of marriage and kids. So if he preferred other men, what effect would that have with you?

Wait, so you're 19 and your worried about losing all your games? Shouldn't you have a job by now to start supporting yourself?

[QUOTE=Greendead;25915706]That's exactly what I'm doing. But when I forget about it, another hint comes up and reminds me.[/QUOTE] So? Are you homophobic or something?

[QUOTE=Vigilance;25915723]Sometimes people come out of the closet after several years of marriage and kids. So if he preferred other men, what effect would that have with you?[/QUOTE] I have a strange feeling that I'm giving gay sings around you know? Being raised by a gay might have some gay effects on me. That scares me. [QUOTE=RusMar;25915724]Wait, so you're 19 and your worried about losing all your games? Shouldn't you have a job by now to start supporting yourself?[/QUOTE] Not yet, 3 more years of school, then I'm out. (if everything goes as planned)

[QUOTE=Greendead;25915747]I have a strange feeling that I'm giving gay sings around you know? Being raised by a gay might have some gay effects on me. That scares me. Not yet, 3 more years of school, then I'm out. (if everything goes as planned)[/QUOTE] Oh, do you just not live at school then?

[QUOTE=RusMar;25915766]Oh, do you just not live at school then?[/QUOTE] What? I will study 3 more years, than I'm going to live somewhere else, away from my parents.

My dad really is gay, but you wouldn't know it to look at him. And I don't give a fuck that he is. :v:

Your birth was an accident.

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Have sex with him and if he says he enjoyed it, then he's gay

If you stick your finger in him you will find out.

[QUOTE=Greendead;25915747]I have a strange feeling that I'm giving gay sings around you know? Being raised by a gay might have some gay effects on me. That scares me. Not yet, 3 more years of school, then I'm out. (if everything goes as planned)[/QUOTE] Come on.. It won't have any effect on you, and can't you accept your farther, even though he might be gay?

[QUOTE=Greendead;25915747]I have a strange feeling that I'm giving gay sings around you know? Being raised by a gay might have some gay effects on me. That scares me.[/QUOTE] It doesn't, if I was less lazy I'd look up the studies done on this, but it makes no difference.

[QUOTE=Greendead;25915747]I have a strange feeling that I'm giving gay sings around you know? Being raised by a gay might have some gay effects on me. That scares me. [/QUOTE] Are you kidding me? Being raised by a gay person has no effect to you being raised at all. Zilch. It's like saying that you've been born with a gay gene because one of your parents is gay.

The Dad is probably bi and the OP is scared of nothing.

[QUOTE=BuG;25915833]Come on.. It won't have any effect on you, and can't you accept your farther, even though he might be gay?[/QUOTE] I would accept it, if he admit it he was gay. And not hiding it badly.

[QUOTE=Greendead;25915596] My father is a nice person. He has a great job, while mom doesn't. Without him, I don't know, if I could have, what I have now. PC, PS3, a big aparment, an apartment at the sea,... he really cares about me. But the thing that he might be gay is frustrating me. I mean, think about your dad being gay. How the fuck would you feel? [/QUOTE] I would feel as good as your parents would love videogames as much as I do.

[QUOTE=CyrusTehSage;25915869]The Dad is probably bi and the OP is scared of nothing.[/QUOTE] Seriously. My mom is bi, but you don't see me freaking out about her checking out women.

it's inherited.

[QUOTE=ZapDing;25915935]it's inherited.[/QUOTE] Shut up. Don't shit on the thread for no reason.

[QUOTE=Greendead;25915783]What? I will study 3 more years, than I'm going to live somewhere else, away from my parents.[/QUOTE] haha nevermind, we live in different places, it's different here.