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So I wanted to see what matters the most to you in a friendship. The most important thing.
Love? Trust? Loyalty? Honesty? Dedication? Passion? Respect? Humor? Patience? Genitals?
To me, it's loyalty/forgiveness. I've had quite a lot of times where I fucked up and they left. On the interwebz, I also made quite good friends. I keep good contact with most of them, but there were a few that..well I don't know how to say this well. Basically, it went something like this "..if you do it again, I'll block and delete you from MSN". What do you call that?
I find it odd because I'm the kind of person who forgives and just says "Shit happens". I would never delete (or leave) anyone I've known for a long time unless they really do something bad, ie steal/break my stuff. Fuck I'm the male equivalent of Mother Teresa.
Genitals because if your friend can't give you a good lay what kind of friend are they
This may sound gay, but definitely reliability. Whenever you need a friend the most and they're there for you..that's what makes a good friendship.
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also, I believe acceptance is vital in friendship
Loyalty or Love i think.
:cawg: That is a epic fail.
Well so am i, ninja'd.
I prefer trust.
Friends need to have cool games, so you can play em together. :smile:
trust, loyalty
Obviously, the trust and willingness to do favors for and potentially get into trouble for the good of someone else.
Trust Loyalty and Common Interests.
the knowledge they won't have gay sex with me
Absolutely forgiveness. Friends aren't true if they're not forgiving towards you. For me, a true friend is one who'll say "it's ok man" when you fuck up; not some shit like "omg you fucking noob"
Loyalty and Trust.
I'd say loyalty and trust
a healthy competition
Loyalty, companionship, fun, trust and understanding :) my best friend knows I'm a bit weird. She knows I need my space sometimes and that it's not something to take personally. She knows I have depression and that sometimes I'll be sad without being able to really explain why. We've known eachother since we were twelve, and now we're both 20 (I'm almost 21). Friends need to know eachother's weird quirks and accept them, be loyal, keep your secrets safe and be fun to be around in general.
[QUOTE=z0mbify;18852075]trust, loyalty[/QUOTE]
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Trust and loyalty are very similar, different definitions but in a way cover the same area in a relationship.
Trust and love work very well.
I dunno for me. But recently, like since yesterday. I've realized my new friend (I moved from AZ to CA [San Francisco]) and I don't really share any of the same hobbies. And when I talk about Games/Vidya he's kinda a douche about it and clearly states he does not care. Not really cool cause I listen to whatever he has to say, I dunno, I just really don't like that. I think I'm gonna start hangingout with him less. Work on my school work more, I haven't been doing as well.
[QUOTE=xXDictatorXx;18852358]Loyalty, companionship, fun, trust and understanding :) my best friend knows I'm a bit weird. She knows I need my space sometimes and that it's not something to take personally. She knows I have depression and that sometimes I'll be sad without being able to really explain why. We've known eachother since we were twelve, and now we're both 20 (I'm almost 21). Friends need to know eachother's weird quirks and accept them, be loyal, keep your secrets safe and be fun to be around in general.[/QUOTE]
Pretty much this.
[QUOTE=Take_Opal;18852455]I dunno for me. But recently, like since yesterday. I've realized my new friend (I moved from AZ to CA [San Francisco]) and I don't really share any of the same hobbies. And when I talk about Games/Vidya he's kinda a douche about it and clearly states he does not care. Not really cool cause I listen to whatever he has to say, I dunno, I just really don't like that. I think I'm gonna start hangingout with him less. Work on my school work more, I haven't been doing as well.[/QUOTE]
This has happened to me multiple times.
It really isn't fun. Like I was trying to talk to him about Dead Space yesterday, and he was just saying "I really, do not care." it really sucks. Sounds kinda whiney, but friends should like similar things.
[QUOTE=Frozen;18852201]Absolutely forgiveness. Friends aren't true if they're not forgiving towards you. For me, a true friend is one who'll say "it's ok man" when you fuck up; not some shit like "omg you fucking noob"[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Take_Opal;18852525]It really isn't fun. Like I was trying to talk to him about Dead Space yesterday, and he was just saying "I really, do not care." it really sucks. Sounds kinda whiney, but friends should like similar things.[/QUOTE]
Doesn't sound whiney at all.
If it was me, I'd probably tell him it's kind of rude of him to not care. Does he ever write to you? If yes, try to act the same way. Respond with "k" - "cool" - "ok" - "lol". You know, the usual "It doesn't interest me the slightest, but I'll just send a k to let him know im acknowledging him"
That is exactly what I did and exactly what I'm doing.
Oh and Dead Space was fucking JAWSOME
What I think is that you should be with friends that can make you laugh and you can make them laugh, I think what matters the most is that you can have fun and trust your friends.
[QUOTE=HeyMate;18852759]Oh and Dead Space was fucking JAWSOME[/QUOTE]
Eah, I was trying to show him the YouTube video that has all the rad death scenes and he was just being a prick.
it's mostly all the memories you share with a good friend. He can be an asshole but still be a friend.
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