So, I have this friend. I've known her for about 8 or 9 months now. Long story short, she considers me her 'best friend', just below her actual boyfriend who is a massive cunt, but more on that later.
Now, she created a website. That website is [sp] Not being sared here anymore, too late [/sp] . She kept bugging me to join it and try to get some writing going on since I actually do write professionally from time to time. I shrugged, and decided to put up with her obsession for Anime once again. I made a profile on it, and I almost instantly regretted it given that I know fuck all about the content or anime rules in general.
To sum this website up better than anything else I can really say, reading most of the content on it will put any Grammar Nazi into massive convulsions. Not only is the stuff you're writing about hard to take seriously, but it's hard to understand given none of the 80-something members aside from myself and maybe 3 others even try to make their words coherent. This is something that's even worse than how she dragged me into a similar, but actually somewhat website of the same mannerism ([url][sp] also not being shared here, unfortunately [/sp] Needless to say, i got bored of these sites and decided to leave them months after I joined.
Now, in this period of me not being on the sites, she dumped her cunt boyfriend because 'he didn't buy her something for her birthday.' . Not because he ignored her, not because he was a massive perv, not even because he openly admitted to wanting to see her get tentacle raped (I COULD NOT make this shit up if I tried to for a fucking book), but because he didn't buy her a present. At some point they get back together even though her new boyfriend actually cared about her, but whatever.
3 months later. I go back on her site to see what's become of it. Not only did she have upwards of 2000 posts in a few months, but much of her backstory [I]competely revolved[/I] around some of the things I did in maybe 25 posts. First off, this made me feel like she was totally dependant on me, and worse yet, she seemed to have turned into some Wolf Demon of some sort. Not only this, but she created a group exclusively for furries (ugh...) and changes her character's portrait to furry art.
Not only does she encourage me to join these groups (ugh...) but she also promises to make me a moderator of the site (which if I was, god damn would I fucking edit posts to make them at least decent to read). After she does these things, I slowly realise she talks to me more than her boyfriend and openly expresses her feelings to me more, asks me for love advice more, asks me for stuff more, and treats me like a sugar daddy. On top of this, she says I'm the most important person in the WORLD to her, and she would probably go back into her stages of suicidal thoughts and chronic depression again if I stopped talking to her.
TL;DR - A girl is dependant on me for everything even though she loves everything I don't and has a boyfriend who does.
So now I'm fucked. Advice, please.
PS: This story is real. Girl on website is [sp] Very strange [/sp] and cunt boyfriend is [sp] Stolen from some Anime [/sp]. Have fun looking at terribly written backstories.
make new friends
She's not your girlfriend, why do you give a shit?
Make new friends.
you're fucked
Well, she does seem a tad insane. Run is all I can say. Run.
[QUOTE=1/4 Life;24481945]She's not your girlfriend, why do you give a shit?
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She's still my friend, I jsut don't understand why she treats me like her boyfriend when she HAS a boyfriend to treat like that.
[QUOTE=FuhFuhFresh;24481986]She's still my friend, I jsut don't understand why she treats me like her boyfriend when she HAS a boyfriend to treat like that.[/QUOTE]
she's a slut
[QUOTE=FuhFuhFresh;24481904]
So now I'm fucked. Advice, please.
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In and out man.
Tell her to watch real anime, I suggest going to the Fast Anime thread.
It's ok for her to be a furry, but tell her your not and your not comfortable with it.
Tell her that she needs to be smart when it comes to boyfriends, because so far she has probably made poor decisions.
Thats what I think you should do.
Get an exorcism done on her.
But seriously, tell her to back off/ditch her.
Tell her straight that she can't keep hogging over you like this, you need personal space and she can't make everything revolve around you.
[QUOTE=MrAfroShark70;24482009]Tell her to watch real anime, I suggest going to the Fast Anime thread.
It's ok for her to be a furry, but tell her your not and your not comfortable with it.
Tell her that she needs to be smart when it comes to boyfriends, because so far she has probably made poor decisions.
Thats what I think you should do.[/QUOTE]
good advice, but good luck convincing anyone with the maturity level of this girl to do any of those things
i find this funny
[QUOTE=plazzydan;24482023]good advice, but good luck convincing anyone with the maturity level of this girl to do any of those things[/QUOTE]
Yeah, that's true, I practically waste my time on giving good advice on these people.
[QUOTE=FuhFuhFresh;24481986]She's still my friend, I jsut don't understand why she treats me like her boyfriend when she HAS a boyfriend to treat like that.[/QUOTE]
Perhaps she's giving you a hint?
[QUOTE=1/4 Life;24482067]Perhaps she's giving you a hint?[/QUOTE]
That could also be true, she could be hinting towards you but you're to stupid to realize it.
Do her.
I looked on the website and found her profile.
[IMG]http://gyazo.com/179ae4744bd63b71d5cfc560c5a10b95.png[/IMG]
What.
[QUOTE=MrAfroShark70;24482098]That could also be true, she could be hinting towards you but you're to stupid to realize it.[/QUOTE]
Put it this way. After she dumped her boyfriend, she came running to my house to talk to me about it. I comforted her and asked if she wanted to do anything to make her feel better. She said no, because she had somebody in mind that she wanted to start dating soon, and that would make her feel better.
I swear to god if she wanted me to be her boyfriend I would have already said no, and that we should just be friends.
[QUOTE=FuhFuhFresh;24482160]She said no, because she had somebody in mind[/quote]
[QUOTE=FuhFuhFresh;24482160]had somebody in mind[/quote]
[QUOTE=FuhFuhFresh;24482160][b]somebody[/b][/quote]
-snip NEVERMIND-
That somebody wasn't me. The next day she went out with some blonde dude who treated her properly and paid for everything. She dumped him two weeks later because he didn't like Anime very much.
Edit: Blonde guy on site is Ross Orochi
I'm not too far away from Oakville, if I was in a really asshole mood I could come and tell her off for you...
Then again, I'd feel guilty if she killed herself.
She needs therapy or something.
Hit it and quit it.
[QUOTE=FuhFuhFresh;24482256]That somebody wasn't me. The next day she went out with some blonde dude who treated her properly and paid for everything. She dumped him two weeks later because he didn't like Anime very much.
Edit: Blonde guy on site is Ross Orochi[/QUOTE]
are you guys in middle school or something
learn how relationships work
Avoid her and run.
[QUOTE=DaCommie1;24482264]
She needs therapy or something.[/QUOTE]
Dear god yes. And yet if I ever mention that to her she'll break down. I think I'll take the advice of everybody who tells me to avoid her, and yet she knows where I live, where I go to school, and where to find me if I'm not at either of thsoe places.
Dear god I've fucked up.
Tell her that your not letting her guilt trip you and draw you into her fanatasies and get help.
You have to be blunt with her. Ignore her and she might do something stupid, hang out with her and she will just drag you down with her.
Or kill her and wear her skin so you may obtain her wolf demon powers.
that seriously sucks. i wish you luck
[QUOTE=plazzydan;24482278]are you guys in middle school or something
learn how relationships work[/QUOTE]
Pretty much this.
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[QUOTE=MrAfroShark70;24482064]Yeah, that's true, I practically waste my time on giving good advice on these people.[/QUOTE]
You should just start your own advice service, that way you know the people coming to you are at least reading your posts. Well, most of the time anyway.
"Dr. Mr. Afro Shark's Advice for a Better Life."
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