Please help me decide if I ask the girl I like to a dance - General

O.K. so there is a girl I like, I have 1 class out of 6 with her but I talk to her a lot online. My friends are all going to a dance in and I really want to go. I have been friends with this girl for a while, we get along well and everything. The only problem is that she is pretty hot and I am not, I am not an ogre or a cave troll, I'm just not great looking. I want to ask her but I need encouragement or some advice on how to do it without acting like a douche. She is almost never alone and walks around with her friends all the time and asking her online is not the best idea. Since you guys obviously are inter web super studs I thought it would be a great idea to ask you. [highlight](User was banned for this post ("decide for me!" - GunFox))[/highlight]

Yes ask her.

Just bring it up online? Just start talking about the dance and ask if she's going with someone. It's a dance, so I don't think she'll mind if you ask her online. But make sure you ask if she has a date already because you don't want to ask and then end up being rejected because she's already going with someone. Bascially, treat it casually. It's not like it's a huge date or anything, so asking online should be perfectly fine. Just don't come off as a creeper or something.

You've talked about the girl but you haven't really talked ABOUT the girl. You're just asking us to say "yes or no" with basically no knowledge? I say drug her.

Make like Nike and [I]Just Do It[/I].

You guys don't think she will be mad if I ask online

I mean come on you just want us to tell you yes or no? Don't rely only on the internet's answers.

Worst thing that could happen is she says no and you stay friends. or she says no and it be socially awkward.

[QUOTE=Kidd;20132191]or she says no and it be socially awkward.[/QUOTE] That is all im really worried about I guess.

Grow some balls and do that shit.

Ask her. You won't lose a thing, and you'll feel damn proud when it's done with. If she likes you, persue a relationship, but if nothing happeneds don't push it. Also, look into her eyes when dancing with her. That lets her know that you're interested

Physically call her? That will get her alone, is more personal then online, and it isnt as embarrassing if she says no.

[QUOTE=theSPARTANhalo;20132166]You guys don't think she will be mad if I ask online[/QUOTE] If you're retarded ask her to the dance online, but if you're not get some balls and ask her in person.

[QUOTE=theSPARTANhalo;20132166]You guys don't think she will be mad if I ask online[/QUOTE] Man up and do it face to face. I never dated in highschool, but when it came to asking a girl to prom, I didn't want to stress over it. Just went strait for it, didn't care how awkward it for me or her. She said yes :madmax:

[QUOTE=yhan969;20132278]If you're retarded ask her to the dance online, but if you're not get some balls and ask her in person.[/QUOTE] I guess I will just have to deal with her friends being around

[QUOTE=theSPARTANhalo;20132294]I guess I will just have to deal with her friends being around[/QUOTE] kill them

Just ask her, but I would do it in person unless you're too nervous, then you might blow it.

[QUOTE=theSPARTANhalo;20132294]I guess I will just have to deal with her friends being around[/QUOTE] You could write a note and pass it to her during class.

She wouldn't be mad if you asked online. At least, not if she's an average/nice girl. But if you're worried you'll come off looking bad, either call her up at home or on her cell and ask or do what that person above said and write her a note.

Yah I don't know her phone number

[QUOTE=theSPARTANhalo;20132402]Yah I don't know her phone number[/QUOTE] Then write a note.

Post a picture for firm evaluation.

[QUOTE=BlackDeath292;20132430]Post a picture for firm evaluation.[/QUOTE] Not gonna happen

[QUOTE=BlackDeath292;20132430]Post a picture for firm evaluation.[/QUOTE] The less clothes she has on in said picture, the more likely she is to say yes. On a serious note, asking her to a dance is a great way. If she recoils then you can indicate it was just as friends, if she accepts it's a great sign. Problem with going to the movies is that you're basically admitting you want a relationship.

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[QUOTE=OutOfPop;20132490][/QUOTE] Thanks for letting me know sodaman, I really give a shit.

Go for it, I mean whatta' ya got to lose?

You need to build up some confidence and just ask her face to face. If even if she says yes but you act all nervous and timid during your dance date, there won't be another.

Ok guys, I will try to work up the courage to do it tomorrow. Even though it will make people mad I will post what happens :) unless I get banned

Not sure how old you are, me being sixteen I can remember a few years back getting nervous before asking this girl out. Best way to do it is bite the bullet. I have learned that most people don't think the way you think they think, if that makes sense. If girls talk to you, they won't think you are creepy (on average). Just walk up to her and say something like, "Hey, how about we go to the dance together?" Nothing more complicated than that. Good luck to ya.