Hey guys, I know this might not be the right section, but I sure as hell hope it is. Anyways, I've recently noticed (with the help of my mom screaming at me) that my life has NOWHERE that it's going. From what I know, I guess I'm supposed to have chosen my career choice by now (which is going into Sophomore year of high school). Everyone that I hang out with have good, positive lives, they really seem like they could do something impressive if they wanted to. But me? Well, I just seem like I'm always not having anything to do, always being 'bored'.
Although my friend(s) try to help me, usually I just brush them off, thinking later against it. I don't really have any skills at all, not even social skills. I'm usually the person everyone secretly points at and makes fun of. And even when I AM good at things, I think negatively about it, or put it in the wrong perspective. I used to be pretty good at doing Rubik's cubes, but once I saw my friend doing them in ~18 secs, I saw that (in my mind) I wasn't making any improvement, really just staying where I was at. I do this with any hobby I try, I just give up when I can't instantly win.
Facepunch, what should I do? I've tried learning how to play music, but that usually turns out to sound like shit. I tried being more social, and that made me seem like the wierdest kid at my school, and pretty much everyone stays away from me now because of it. Suicide sounds like a reasonable option, I've thought of it a few times and attempted on some of those thoughts. What should I do?
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My life is horrible I should tell Facepunch instead of a therapist or someone who can help.
An hero.
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Also you aren't supposed to know your career as a high school sophomore, who the fuck told you that!?
Gain some confidence and grow some balls, you'll end up alright.
Masterbation always cures boredom.. well at least for 30 seconds.
You'd kill yourself cos you think you don't have friends?
Or the fact your friend is better at rubiks cube?
You could get involved with [url=http://www.facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=759157]community groups[/url]?
Go fuck a girl and you'll feel accomplished. (That should be a few month trek)
Call a suicide help line. That's probably the best thing to do in your situation, or if you're not embarrassed to tell your parents, ask them to get you psychiatric help. Doing nothing is the worst solution though, because that ultimately leads to you killing yourself.
[QUOTE=Jman234;16051386]My life is horrible I should tell Facepunch instead of a therapist or someone who can help.[/QUOTE]
My Mom has tried putting me into therapy, and really I don't feel like opening up to a person about how I got raped as a child.
jump off a building
something like the empire state building
funnest (and last) minute of your life
Become a furry and learn how to draw.
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051422]My Mom has tried putting me into therapy, and really I don't feel like opening up to a person about how I got raped as a child.[/QUOTE]
so what are you doing now?
we are people, believe it or not.
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051422]My Mom has tried putting me into therapy, and really I don't feel like opening up to a person about how [b]I got raped as a child.[/b][/QUOTE]
haha
HAHAHHAHA
:ughh:
[QUOTE=Moby-;16051409]You'd kill yourself cos you think you don't have friends?
Or the fact your friend is better at rubiks cube?[/QUOTE]
Neither of those, the fact that I have nothing to look forward to in my future. I mean sure, I'll probably work at some minimum wage job for a while, but after that? Nothing.
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051446]Neither of those, the fact that I have nothing to look forward to in my future. I mean sure, I'll probably work at some minimum wage job for a while, but after that? Nothing.[/QUOTE]
end it
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btw op how old are you
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051422]My Mom has tried putting me into therapy, and really I don't feel like opening up to a person about how I got raped as a child.[/QUOTE]
cool, lookin for sympathy here? don't think you'll get any.
jesus helps those that help themselves
sophmore year
14-16
chill the fuck out you don't have to make a career choice now
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051446]Neither of those, the fact that I have nothing to look forward to in my future. I mean sure, I'll probably work at some minimum wage job for a while, but after that? Nothing.[/QUOTE]
Well yeah you can't really expect to get anywhere with that attitude.
[QUOTE=Bobsters34;16051433]haha
HAHAHHAHA[/QUOTE]
Oh, you're so witty, pointing out that I had a different childhood than you. My bad
And Skippy, pretty much now I just do nothing all day, sit in my room browsing FP or 4chan. And when my dad kicks me out of my house and sends me to my mom's, I just go sit at the school and smoke pot with all the self proclaimed "gangsters" there.
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051478]Oh, you're so witty, pointing out that I had a different childhood than you. My bad
And Skippy, pretty much now I just do nothing all day, sit in my room browsing FP or 4chan. And when my dad kicks me out of my house and sends me to my mom's, I just go sit at the school and smoke pot with all the self proclaimed "gangsters" there.[/QUOTE]
quiet you got raped
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051478]Oh, you're so witty, pointing out that I had a different childhood than you. My bad
And Skippy, pretty much now I just do nothing all day, sit in my room browsing FP or 4chan. And when my dad kicks me out of my house and sends me to my mom's, I just go sit at the school and smoke pot with all the self proclaimed "gangsters" there.[/QUOTE]
Try getting off your ass and doing something.
[QUOTE=Anonymouse;16051478]Oh, you're so witty, pointing out that I had a different childhood than you. My bad
And Skippy, pretty much now I just do nothing all day, sit in my room browsing FP or 4chan. And when my dad kicks me out of my house and sends me to my mom's, I just go sit at the school and smoke pot with all the self proclaimed "gangsters" there.[/QUOTE]
Welcome to FP. You'll fit in just fine.
Well who do you have to blame other than yourself? Go out and find something to do. It's time to leave the nest and find a life for yourself. No one's going to tell you what to be when you grow up and especially not how to get there, you need to set your own path!
i'm going to be a sophomore and I have no idea what I plan on doing
don't worry about it
procure a suitable female girlfriend
Just wait it out. Once you finish high school, you'll find something. Try finding another group of friends though. Don't just go searching though. Go to a place where something you're interested is held at. You're more than likely to meet people at places like that.
Just for the love of Christ, don't rock up to a group and sit with them. Just don't. It's rude, intruding, and when they hurt your feelings, it's your fucking fault.
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