Parents just found out about weed habit. - General

What do. I found out my dad has smoked at some point, but he's still pissed. My mom is just fucking furious.

Find out why you they are pissed. Don't do anything to make them more mad. Ask questions. Find out why it's a big issue. Explain your viewpoint. Again, don't make them more mad. Most teens will do this by acting like they know it all and complaining about how unfair they are and it goes on.

[QUOTE=Pepin;25569669]Find out why you they are pissed.[/QUOTE] Somebody's as high as I am right now.

My 'rents aren't too fussed. My mums more concerned about me getting an addiction to tobacco, so now I just smoke blunts. My dad makes me lots of food when I'm high

Ask them if they think its immoral.

[QUOTE=InvalidUsername;25570690]Somebody's as high as I am right now.[/QUOTE] The best thing to do in a disagreement is to find out why the other side feels the way they do. A lot of times in cases like this it's just pure reaction with a little bit of reason tied in. Sometimes when you question someone on their beliefs they will find that their reasons really don't make sense and reevaluate their opinion with time. But the main thing in this is not to offend the other person or act childish because then anything you say is just going to disregarded and they person is going to feel more justified with their anger towards you. To put it like this, if you say "you're dumb for thinking you can OD on weed" the person isn't at all going to remember or care about the you can't OD on weed part, they are only going to remember that you called them dumb. If you pretend to take interest in a person's opinion and ask a lot of questions in a way where you just want to understand their side, there is a greater chance that they'll be less mad with you, and a lot better chance that they'll change their mind (although less likely).

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My parents are pretty much convinced that marijhuana fucks your brain up. My dad has smoked before, but didn't want me to know. Mom told me and he got pissed off. [editline]23rd October 2010[/editline] Don't rate me dumb, this is kinda tough on me you know. :(

[QUOTE=TaniaTiger;25570867]My 'rents aren't too fussed. My mums more concerned about me getting an addiction to tobacco, so now I just smoke blunts. My dad makes me lots of food when I'm high[/QUOTE] What a responsible father you have.

I feel like my dad always knows when I'm high. He always makes like steak dinners with scalloped potatoes whenever I smoke earlier in the afternoon :P

i really really want to punch your avatar in the face bobbo

[QUOTE=Bobbo666;25578989]I feel like my dad always knows when I'm high. He always makes like steak dinners with scalloped potatoes whenever I smoke earlier in the afternoon :P[/QUOTE] That's a certain paranoia people get. They think everything and everyone knows they are high. Although in your case it sounds to be quite good.

[QUOTE=Pepin;25580216]That's a certain paranoia people get. They think everything and everyone knows they are high. Although in your case it sounds to be quite good.[/QUOTE] No, i get what he gets and its only one of my parents that i am paranoid about (which is understandable), other than that i can talk to anyone about anything while stoned.

[QUOTE=Pepin;25580216]That's a certain paranoia people get. They think everything and everyone knows they are high. Although in your case it sounds to be quite good.[/QUOTE] not everyone gets that :smug:

My parents smoke a ton but don't support me smoking, well atleast my dad doesn't. Its really funny when he picks me up after school and i'm mega baked and he's super stoned and we go to jack in the box and stuff our faces after he makes a 45 minute over complicated order. My best advice to OP is to tell them you don't plan on smoking anymore, tell them its a one time thing and that everyone kinda experiences it once, oh also tell them you didn't inhale. Yeah. That'll be good.

[QUOTE=Kanshi;25582606]My parents smoke a ton but don't support me smoking, well atleast my dad doesn't. Its really funny when he picks me up after school and i'm mega baked and he's super stoned and we go to jack in the box and stuff our faces after he makes a 45 minute over complicated order. My best advice to OP is to tell them you don't plan on smoking anymore, tell them its a one time thing and that everyone kinda experiences it once, oh also tell them you didn't inhale. Yeah. That'll be good.[/QUOTE] well, he said they found out about his "habit", not that they caught him smoking, so i dont think that'll really work

Rate me bad read, (is that even legal in dd?) well definately the only possible thing you could do without making it worse would b

EVERYONE has smoked pot at some point. It's a huge part of our culture and you really can't miss the experience if you socialize through college. It sounds like your parents are kinda immature.

Ask them if they would get mad if you like to smoke the flowers in the garden. Or show them Cypress Hill, that'll do the trick!

I don't lie to people, and i'm not giving up on weed. I guess i should just tell them that, it's my choice after all. My family is kinda schizophrenic though, so today it was all kinda forgotten. What the fuck. [editline]23rd October 2010[/editline] What the fuck, i meant forgetful. What the fuck is a schizophrenic family.

My parents would fucking crack if they found out I smoke pot.

My parent's smoke pot. They know I smoke pot. Everyone's happy!

My mom's really cool about it, she knows I smoke and is only really worried about me getting caught with it and drug dealers. My dad, as far as I know, has no idea that I smoke.

Since you are a minor and live under their house follow what they say. Don't go on the whole "I'm going to explain my viewpoint and live how I want" bullshit. When you can move out and pay your own bills then you can do it. Just take what they say to heart and stop.

[QUOTE=cheeseman52;25621482]Since you are a minor and live under their house follow what they say. Don't go on the whole "I'm going to explain my viewpoint and live how I want" bullshit. When you can move out and pay your own bills then you can do it. Just take what they say to heart and stop.[/QUOTE] As much as I agree that you should respect the rules of the house you live under. I doubt I could abide by this if I was in his position. People are so goddamn ignorant. There's two kinds of people in this world. The players of the game and the dungeon masters. :3 N00bs just piss me off.

I think if you smoke in your room and your parents have an issue with that, you shouldn't smoke in your room.

Oddest thing is that my mum has completely come round to my smoking and doesn't bat an eye anymore.. The odd thing about this is that my dad has no idea, he's been away for 18 months in the Antarctic. Going to be hilarious when he comes back... Mum told me he's smoked a fairbit and stopped when I was born... and he's gone apeshit at me before about smoking when I was younger. I'm just gunna spark up a joint in the livingroom the day he comes back, he'll fucking lose it. The only reason he'll lose it is because he thinks mum will go crazy and wants to back her up and not break up the parental unit... which'll be funny.. because mum won't care and then right after losing it he's gunna look a fool when I pass it and he won't say no :P The best thing with parents, 100% honesty. When I turned 18 I came clean with my mum about my smoking and tbh it's just a much better attitude, she knew I was doing it and I was always paranoid trying to cover it up, using fucking sploofs and spraying my room with deoderant. My mum was also, so mis-informed about Cannabis it was ridonkulous.. being 100% honest with her and showing her shit and talking to her about it has just brought her round to the way of thinking that it's no worse than alcohol and the only thing that worries her now is me getting on the wrong side of the law, when I was hiding it from her the concern was that I was becoming a crazy crackhead. Now she knows a spliff is on par with a couple of cans and is no harm at all and it's all good for both of us neither of us have to worry :) Be informed about weed so you can argue constructively about it and show that you are aware of it's downsides aswell as the upsides.

I think my dad knows but I'm not too sure. I'm not sure how my mom would react, but it would most likely be bad. Thats why I'm not going to tell her until I'm like 20.

[QUOTE=Pepin;25580216]That's a certain paranoia people get. They think everything and everyone knows they are high. Although in your case it sounds to be quite good.[/QUOTE] It's not even paranoia, I really have no care as to whether he knows or not. He is an ex-stoner who is very pro-weed. It's just like "He must have a sixth sense cause whenever I smoke he makes good food" not an "Oh shit he knows I'm high".

either it's a coincidence or you just reek