Caught in a sticky situation with my brother (need help) - General

My older brother recently found out I smoked and caught me doing it. He told me if he ever catches me doing it again he will tell my parents. My parents arent normal. Seing them flip out over the dumbest reasons just scared me terribly about how they would react to learning I smoke weed. The thing is though, my brother smokes himself (he has paper around everywhere and I have seen cannabis vials in shoe-boxes and shit like that.) I don't know what to tell him because he is threatening to tell my parents when he does drugs himself. How do I fix this because if I don't my family might just rip apart. The good thing is that he is in college for most of the year and my parents are clueless but how am I going to live through a sober summer...

Smack the little brat in the face and tell him you got just as tight a grip on his balls as he does yours, then ask him what the hell is taking hold of his mind and why he would even do this.

just sit down and talk to him and make sure he knows you are being serious. Raise some points on how its not fair that he smokes and does not let you (unless you are under 17 cause if that was my bro I would tell my parents as well and tell him the only time he can smoke is when he is with me)

[QUOTE=Stormcharger;40128167]just sit down and talk to him and make sure he knows you are being serious. Raise some points on how its not fair that he smokes and does not let you (unless you are under 17 cause if that was my bro I would tell my parents as well and tell him the only time he can smoke is when he is with me)[/QUOTE] I guess thats fair but he doesnt have much ground other than hes 5 years older than me (21, 16) I assume he doesn't trust me and he just wants me to be safe but that isnt exactly right because I'm not doing anything unsafe. Being the older brother he just presumes im an idiot with everything I do i guess :v:

Then I resort to my original idea of smacking the bitch up and showing him that you can make your own damned decisions, and that his foolish interventions would only serve to cause more harm than good, maybe propose the idea of him actually helping you and showing you how to use drugs responsibly as an older brother should instead of being a twat and a coward by running to your parents about it as if it's a huge problem he can't deal with himself. Or just accept the ramming as he would have it and lay down all drug use. It's your choice to make a stand or bend over.

[QUOTE=acommentator;40128216]I guess thats fair but he doesnt have much ground other than hes 5 years older than me (21, 16) I assume he doesn't trust me and he just wants me to be safe but that isnt exactly right because I'm not doing anything unsafe. Being the older brother he just presumes im an idiot with everything I do i guess :v:[/QUOTE] but you are doing something unsafe as you are taking a mind altering substance before you are 18 [editline]2nd April 2013[/editline] but he shouldn't tell your parents if they will flip a shit he should talk to you and help you out. [editline]2nd April 2013[/editline] but my mates older bro told his parents he smoked weed even tho his bro did so my mate beat the ever loving shit out of his brother so theres always that option as well.

[QUOTE=Stormcharger;40128435]but you are doing something unsafe as you are taking a mind altering substance before you are 18 [editline]2nd April 2013[/editline] but he shouldn't tell your parents if they will flip a shit he should talk to you and help you out. [editline]2nd April 2013[/editline] but my mates older bro told his parents he smoked weed even tho his bro did so my mate beat the ever loving shit out of his brother so theres always that option as well.[/QUOTE] I am playing it safe, I get advice from DD :v: [editline]2nd April 2013[/editline] [QUOTE=Mindtwistah;40128266]Then I resort to my original idea of smacking the bitch up and showing him that you can make your own damned decisions, and that his foolish interventions would only serve to cause more harm than good, maybe propose the idea of him actually helping you and showing you how to use drugs responsibly as an older brother should instead of being a twat and a coward by running to your parents about it as if it's a huge problem he can't deal with himself. Or just accept the ramming as he would have it and lay down all drug use. It's your choice to make a stand or bend over.[/QUOTE] well... he is kind of a pussy so I might just do that but he still would probably tell my parents

Play the baby of the family card, shit works everytime!

you could play the "dont tell them because it would stress them out, do you really want to make something insignificant a big deal and freak them out?" card.

[QUOTE=Cpn Crunch21;40131639]you could play the "dont tell them because it would stress them out, do you really want to make something insignificant a big deal and freak them out?" card.[/QUOTE] Seems good enough, I'll just tell him that if he tells my parents it will destroy them I guess. Thanks :D

smoke more weed and relax, dont let authority bring ya down man, rebel! ANARCHY! but seriously, see if you can get stoned with him and show him how cool you would be on it, it'd be a fun bonding experience aswell if you can manage :)

Just don't get caught again, thats what i do, my mom thinks i only smoke weed, and that i havnt in 6 months, well that is true, i just do meth instead, see i dont lie, but i dont tell the whole truth, so im in the cool zone man

Quite a [I]sticky[/I] situation indeed.

Yeah, just ignore him and dont get caught again is what i say

Call the police!!!11 [sp]dont do that[/sp]

can we get a status report? Its annoying when people make these threads and there isnt a conclusion to what happened.

[QUOTE=Cpn Crunch21;40210891]can we get a status report? Its annoying when people make these threads and there isnt a conclusion to what happened.[/QUOTE] Yeah, I always assume something like "Well he must've gotten his computer taken away" in a case like this, or another one maybe "He must've got shot, OD'ed or is in prison.."

Lets make fictional stories of what happened to him until he finally posts and we mistake his post for another fictional story :v:

He offered to have a "sticky situation" with his brother in return for not telling his parents.

If he does tell them, you just tell your parents it was from his stash. Then they'll get mad at him, and know that he's keeping it in your house.

[quote=OP]So I challenged my brother to a game of chicken to determine if he tells my parents or not. If i win, he agrees to never tell them, lose and he tells them tomorrow. We drove up to a cliff, i had to sneak out my parents car, and we got into position. The person to stop closest to the edge of the cliff wins. We started up the hill going full speed, my moms car was fairly new so i knew i could brake late but my brother had experience on me. About a few hundred feet away i got scared and hit the brakes as hard as possible, i was to afraid to look above the dash when i slammed on the brakes. I hear a loud crash and look up to see a gaping hole in the fence guarding the cliff's edge. I got out of the car and ran to the edge, but i couldnt see where the car landed in the ocean. Im not sure if hes dead or not, he technically won, so my question is this. Should i be worried that one day he will appear out of nowhere at the door, in crappy clothes, with a full beard, untamed hair, with a faint smell of piss and revenge, my parents go into an emotional episode of happiness to see their first son return after all of these years, that his first words will be "he smokes weed"? [/quote]

[QUOTE=Cpn Crunch21;40250617][/QUOTE] Oh god, why.

[QUOTE=Cpn Crunch21;40210891]can we get a status report? Its annoying when people make these threads and there isnt a conclusion to what happened.[/QUOTE] Well, I have to wait for him to come back. His college is across the country so he just kinda skipped coming back for spring break. I just have to wait until summer

it's called live and let live, mutually assured destruction. if you tattle i tattle, simple as that, i don't know why you didn't think of this in the first place.

[QUOTE=NeoSeeker;40264459]it's called live and let live, mutually assured destruction. if you tattle i tattle, simple as that, i don't know why you didn't think of this in the first place.[/QUOTE] Get all religious on his ass and be like Jesus said, "let he who is without sin, cast the first stone."