• Has chivalry all but vanished from the world?
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So, I was hanging out with my girlfriend, and offered to throw something away for her, and not five seconds later, I'm being called her "bitch" by someone I've never met... Is it weird to actually be nice and kind to someone you care about? To help them out? To do stuff for them on occasion? Honestly, it makes no sense to me...what do you think Facepunch?
Treating women badly makes you cool. [editline]13th October 2010[/editline] /saracasm
My friends seem to think that paying for your girlfriends taxis all the time makes you her bitch aswell, seems as the right thing to do to me, seeing as she's coming out of her own accord to visit.
If it's not all the time then I guess it's good. Whoever called you being "her bitch" for helping her out one time is a dumbass.
Stop throwing things out for her. She has legs.
help a woman out, that's chivalrous and you should feel good OP, be glad you aren't a cunt. But don't start doing everything for her, then you be whipped.
Slap that bitch
Slap the guy who said it
I have a lot of experience in telling who is whipped and who is not. I can tell you OP, you are so whipped you can't even see it for yourself. That's the worst kind of whipped, you're already brainwashed. She's got you on a chain man. You ditch your mates just to serve your new master and you don't even remember it, or you call it chivalrous. I don't blame her though, it's a woman's nature to be calculative and controlling. You have only yourself to blame, for being whipped.
Honestly there's nothing wrong with paying but paying for anything and everything.. including cellphone bills and other shit looks ridiculous. I'll attempt to pay for my girls meal if we go out but sometimes she gets it first. The one time she didn't put up a fight I was excited. ...Then later that night I found a 20 she put in my pocket. Damnit. Although if you ALWAYS offer to throw sometimes away, or do it when its not even convenient for you is a bit weird. I mean, I understand helping someone out but it is sorta messed up. Does she every take YOUR stuff to throw away without you asking? You gotta have effort from both.
Challenge him.
[QUOTE=JeffAndersen;25377445]Honestly there's nothing wrong with paying but paying for anything and everything.. including cellphone bills and other shit looks ridiculous. I'll attempt to pay for my girls meal if we go out but sometimes she gets it first. The one time she didn't put up a fight I was excited. ...Then later that night I found a 20 she put in my pocket. Damnit. Although if you ALWAYS offer to throw sometimes away, or do it when its not even convenient for you is a bit weird. I mean, I understand helping someone out but it is sorta messed up. Does she every take YOUR stuff to throw away without you asking? You gotta have effort from both.[/QUOTE] It's not all the time, just every now and then...if it's convenient for me [editline]13th October 2010[/editline] [QUOTE=MuTAnT;25377405]I have a lot of experience in telling who is whipped and who is not. I can tell you OP, you are so whipped you can't even see it for yourself. That's the worst kind of whipped, you're already brainwashed. She's got you on a chain man. You ditch your mates just to serve your new master and you don't even remember it, or you call it chivalrous. I don't blame her though, it's a woman's nature to be calculative and controlling. You have only yourself to blame, for being whipped.[/QUOTE] Yeah...I think you're wrong about that, since, I'm not going out of my way to help her, only when it's convenient, and I do in fact stay with my friends, she's not more important then that.
[QUOTE=dmillerw;25377480]It's not all the time, just every now and then...if it's convenient for me [editline]13th October 2010[/editline] Yeah...I think you're wrong about that, since, I'm not going out of my way to help her, only when it's convenient, and I do in fact stay with my friends, she's not more important then that.[/QUOTE] Just to let you know though, you're immaturity shows as a whole if you really care if your most likely high school friends are calling you whipped. They'll learn soon enough. Most guys will do things like this but if you care enough to let it bother you then that's silly. They're just fucking with you.
I hate it when I do someone a favour for once and they repay me by saying it makes me their bitch. some people are just ungrateful assholes...
[QUOTE=dmillerw;25377277]So, I was hanging out with my girlfriend, and offered to throw something away for her, and not five seconds later, I'm being called her "bitch" by someone I've never met... Is it weird to actually be nice and kind to someone you care about? To help them out? To do stuff for them on occasion? Honestly, it makes no sense to me...what do you think Facepunch?[/QUOTE] Whose opinion do you care about more, the girl who is sucking your dick, or the jackoff you'll never see again?
It all depends. If she's your girlfriend then yeah don't do everything for her but do noticeable things.
Treat whores like queens and queens like whores... that's what I usually do and it works just fine for me [QUOTE=GodKing;25377933]Whose opinion do you care about more, the girl who is sucking your dick, or the jackoff you'll never see again?[/QUOTE] Also, [U]this[/U]
Hey guys, I was called a bitch, now I'm making a thread about it. [editline]13th October 2010[/editline] I do agree with the OP though.
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