• Dying woman who refused cancer treatment to save unborn child sparks debate in China
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[IMG]http://www.straitstimes.com/sites/straitstimes.com/files/imagecache/2014_revamp_615x346/20141212/DEATH-121214e.jpg[/IMG] [QUOTE]BEIJING (AFP) - The fate of a Chinese television presenter who died of cancer after refusing chemotherapy to save her unborn son sparked intense online debate Friday.Qiu Yuanyuan died on Wednesday aged 26, 100 days after giving birth to her child - a special occasion in Chinese culture. More than 10 million netizens viewed her story on China's Twitter-like Sina Weibo on Friday, but many of those commenting questioned why she had sacrificed her life. "I don't think it's good to give up on living, even if the mother's love is great," posted one netizen. "It's not a beautiful thing if a child is born with no care and love from its natural mother." Qiu, from the central province of Henan, was told she was pregnant in March, the website of the People's Daily newspaper said. But her "hope turned to despair" soon after when she was diagnosed with a late-stage cancer of the womb, it went on. Qiu decided to halt her treatment to prevent her baby being harmed, and the cancer soon spread. As her condition worsened, she was admitted to hospital in September when she gave birth to the boy, named Niannian. She eventually died as the family were celebrating his 100th day. [/QUOTE] - See more at: [url]http://www.straitstimes.com/news/asia/east-asia/story/dying-woman-who-refused-cancer-treatment-save-unborn-child-sparks-debate-c#2[/url]
So, the Chinese don't like orphans? Being the biological parents is some how better? Wacky.
[QUOTE=download;46709044]So, the Chinese don't like orphans? Being the biological parents is some how better? Wacky.[/QUOTE] You know, when your country is trying to cut down the amount of children, a woman dying to save her unborn child is... hypocritical? I cant think of a word. But not wacky.
[QUOTE=download;46709044]So, the Chinese don't like orphans? Being the biological parents is some how better? Wacky.[/QUOTE] Can you stop with the Xenophobia?, seriously the only thing you do is shitpost. How are you not fucking permabanned yet?
[QUOTE=Browseraltreb;46709058]You know, when your country is trying to cut down the amount of children, a woman dying to save her unborn child is... hypocritical? I cant think of a word. But not wacky.[/QUOTE]Uh, the point of their birth control program isn't to "ban babies" or whatever the fuck you have in your head, it's to reduce population growth to a manageable rate. Some chick kicking the bucket after a baby is born serves that purpose admirably, there is no plus or minus here, it's an even break. [QUOTE=Hazai;46709069]Can you stop with the Xenophobia?, seriously the only thing you do is shitpost. How are you not fucking permabanned yet?[/QUOTE]How the fuck was download's post xenophobic...?
[QUOTE=JumpinJackFlash;46709097]Uh, the point isn't to "ban babies" or whatever the fuck you have in your head, it's to reduce population growth to a manageable rate. Some chick kicking the bucket after a baby is born serves that purpose admirably. How the fuck was download's post xenophobic...?[/QUOTE] 'wacky'
[QUOTE=Hazai;46709069]Can you stop with the Xenophobia?, seriously the only thing you do is shitpost. How are you not fucking permabanned yet?[/QUOTE] I may have generalised but I'm not sure how that was xenophobic. Also, coming from someone with less than 14 days and 4 posts.
[QUOTE=download;46709103]I may have generalised but I'm not sure how that was xenophobic. Also, coming from someone with less than 14 days and 4 posts.[/QUOTE] What does my post count have to do with this? you're not trying hard enough, try again. [url]http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1411725[/url]
[QUOTE=Hazai;46709069]Can you stop with the Xenophobia?, seriously the only thing you do is shitpost. How are you not fucking permabanned yet?[/QUOTE] That's not xenophobia, and how do you know that all he does is shitpost? You joined this month I think registration needs to be closed again
[QUOTE=Hazai;46709099]'wacky'[/QUOTE]I think the negative perception Germans have toward showing up to a meeting five minutes early is silly bullshit. No xenophobia here, some people don't agree with the cultural traditions and mannerisms found around the world; fucking deal with it.
[QUOTE=Crash155;46709109]That's not xenophobia, and how do you know that all he does is shitpost? You joined this month I think registration needs to be closed again[/QUOTE] I think you need to stop getting your rocks off to children and get permabanned.
[QUOTE=Crash155;46709109]That's not xenophobia, and how do you know that all he does is shitpost? You joined this month I think registration needs to be closed again[/QUOTE] I'd think it was a given that this guy's probably an alt. Also it's more or less in the hands of the patient here; everybody's got the right to refuse treatment, no matter how whacked out it might sound, for whatever reason.
[QUOTE=JumpinJackFlash;46709097]Uh, the point of their birth control program isn't to "ban babies" or whatever the fuck you have in your head, it's to reduce population growth to a manageable rate. Some chick kicking the bucket after a baby is born serves that purpose admirably, there is no plus or minus here, it's an even break. How the fuck was download's post xenophobic...?[/QUOTE] Where did I say ban babies? It is debatable in China for a woman to sacrifice herself for her baby. It is expected for her to do the opposite, since it serves the general consensus of baby policy. Sacrificing yourself for your baby doesnt help with it.
Shitty situation, when getting cancer treatment it's either stop treatment and have the baby, or get an abortion and get the treatment. That's why when you are diagnosed doctors specifically advise patients to not have children during treatment. I can only think of one patient at the hospital I worked at who didn't end up dead after going through with childbirth without treatment.
[QUOTE=Browseraltreb;46709121]Where did I say ban babies? It is debatable in China for a woman to sacrifice herself for her baby. It is expected for her to do the opposite, since it serves the general consensus of baby policy. Sacrificing yourself for your baby doesnt help with it.[/QUOTE]You didn't say it, I just took a stab at whatever you had in your head. (I don't know) You also referenced the official government policy in place for a couple decades, and now you're talking about cultural traditions that date back thousands of years. These are not the same thing, and they're quite often at odds with each other in Chinese society. [editline]14th December 2014[/editline] Okay Hazai. I hope rating all of my posts fills you with a sense of satisfaction or something.
That kid's going to find out he's the reason she's dead. Thats no bueno.
[QUOTE=Mebit;46709169]That kid's going to find out he's the reason she's dead. Thats no bueno.[/QUOTE] Or he will value his life more because she sacrificed his own life to save him.
[QUOTE=Mebit;46709169]That kid's going to find out he's the reason she's dead. Thats no bueno.[/QUOTE] He will find out his mom did an incredibly selfless act and give her life for his.
[QUOTE=Mebit;46709169]That kid's going to find out he's the reason she's dead. Thats no bueno.[/QUOTE] Also keep in mind there is a huge chance she would have died either way.
Uh... If its alright to ask, what the fuck happened on this page.
[QUOTE=AaronM202;46711025]Uh... If its alright to ask, what the fuck happened on this page.[/QUOTE] some guy who was banned for shitposting came back on an alt to make fun of people who liked anime and asked them to be permabanned. You didn't miss much really.
Well, let's hope the kid actually lives to grow up after this stuff happened.
I think people are failing to understand the bond between mother and child...hell, I've heard girls 'talk' to their unborn children even before they started showing. Then you're told this child is to be killed for the chance of you to live. Sometimes you bite the bullet for the things that matter the most, what feels right, fuck everyone else.
That's terrible. His mom gave up her life for him so I hope the kid stays well and does some really great things.
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