What are you thoughts on open relationships? Do they work? Do you think its even worth having a relationship if its an open one? My girlfriend broke up with me because of a certain problem, but wants to get back with me, trying an open relationship, I love her, do you think its worth it?
no
Its free tail while not getting tied down. I would.
it is really stupid
Wait, so you love her, and you guys want to get back together, but still see other people? (assuming that's what an open relationship is)
[QUOTE=Duxfever;25470827]Wait, so you love her, and you guys want to get back together, but still see other people? (assuming that's what an open relationship is)[/QUOTE]
yes
[QUOTE=Duxfever;25470827]Wait, so you love her, and you guys want to get back together, but still see other people? (assuming that's what an open relationship is)[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I dont want an open relationship, because a relationship is between two people right? But she wants one because of some family issues. She says no sex or making out with the person who is in the open relationship, but we could do those things.
Who would want their girlfriend to be fucking some other faggot?
[QUOTE=The Advisor;25470914]Who would want their girlfriend to be fucking some other faggot?[/QUOTE]
Thats the thing, sex wouldn't be allowed. But I totally agree with that. I don't want to think my dick is getting someone elses cum rubbed all over it.
"i want to be in an open relationship with you because i want the emotional security of having you around, but also having the freedom to fuck whoever i want when i feel like it"
I see. You don't want one, but she wants one.. Do you care at all that she may or may not love you as much as you may love her?
I wouldn't personally, you need to think about does it work for you and are you happy for her to be people
They don't work.
[QUOTE=Ranger149;25470879]Yeah, I dont want an open relationship, because a relationship is between two people right? But she wants one because of some family issues. She says no sex or making out with the person who is in the open relationship, but we could do those things.[/QUOTE]
time to move on she's manipulative
[QUOTE=Duxfever;25470948]I see. You don't want one, but she wants one.. Do you care at all that she may or may not love you as much as you may love her?[/QUOTE]
She says im an amazing guy, but shes just not ready for a serious relationship yet, so she wants to try this. I met her the same day she dumped her ex, and I had no idea till the other day.
I wouldn't. Stay with one partner, not two. If she can't dedicate to one person, it's not worth it. Move on.
Tell that hoe she be trippin'
[QUOTE=Ranger149;25471052]She says im an amazing guy, but shes just not ready for a serious relationship yet, so she wants to try this. I met her the same day she dumped her ex, and I had no idea till the other day.[/QUOTE]
Asi asi, I'm not trying to want any inner detail just yet, and so is that a yes or a no?
[QUOTE=Duxfever;25471129]Asi asi, I'm not trying to want any inner detail just yet, and so is that a yes or a no?[/QUOTE]
Of course I care, but she is the sweetest girl I have ever met, I haven't ever seen anyone like her.
[QUOTE=Ranger149;25471185]Of course I care, but she is the sweetest girl I have ever met, I haven't ever seen anyone like her.[/QUOTE]
That's cute. So you know what you'll feel if you guys DO actually go for the open relationship, after she starts seeing another dude, right?
[QUOTE=Duxfever;25471257]That's cute. So you know what you'll feel if you guys DO actually go for the open relationship, after she starts seeing another dude, right?[/QUOTE]
I don't know, but I hope it wouldn't have to last long. I just don't want to say no and wonder if things between me and her could have worked out. We have almost everything in common, childhoods, everything.
normal relationship
Well I'd prefer a closed relationship, but there's nothing wrong in an open one.
I really don't care what anyone chooses, but for myself, I would think that an open relationship would be fine with me. Of course if that wasn't ok with my partner I would be fine with that.
Rofl this girl I was with for a year or so tried pulling this shit. Broke up with me, same week was "with" another guy, then comes to me and is like "I still want what we had" which was her fucking me on the side while she was in [i]another[/i] relationship. I kicked that bitch to the curb and you should do the same.
As said in a previous post she's manipulative. She knows you'll always be there for her so she doesn't have to get tired down with just you, she can have this open relationship bullshit and go fuck other people. I can say no sex is allowed just as easily as I can say my dick is 10 feet long, but neither are gonna stick as soon as she is tempted to get intimate with someone else.
I'd say leave her and find someone else. Easier said than done, yes; the best for you in the long run, also yes.
Forget her and just smoke weed err' day
It's gonna end up as a, no sex for you. And girls gets what she want from you.
She's just using you.
[QUOTE=Sgt. Khorn;25472099]
She's just using you.[/QUOTE]
He's being used by a woman.
Oh no.
Whatever shall he do.
[QUOTE=mr apple;25471086]Tell that hoe she be trippin'[/QUOTE]
Quality post. I'm not ironic, i mean it.
Open relationship, all the way.
I'm not going to bother explaining why you should keep it open (common sense after reading OP), but I think all the posts that are trying to give the "morally correct relationship" advice should be ignored. Besides, it's your choice. Personally, I wouldn't take love advice from total strangers on an internet forum that talks about TF2 Heavy sandvich jokes all day, but that's just me.
Also, it's [b]not[/b] manipulative if she's [b]ASKING[/b] him, you morons.
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