Not sure I agree with 1:45. Maybe for some people, but isn't it perfectly logical to assume some people watch porn purely for the physical stimulation, and make little connection to anything else? By no means am I saying this from a zero-sum sort of viewpoint, of course we can and should make "better" porn. As far as I can tell though, this is sort of the direction that the industry is going in. More people are going for higher-quality content both in terms of how it is filmed and what is depicted. With the rise of amateur porn, more people seem to be looking for "natural" depictions of sex as opposed to the intensely artificial and "traditional" pornography. This video seems to make a lot of vague suggestions with little in the way of specific gripes.
I was into really hardcore shit to the point where a masturbating 20 year old didn't do a damn thing to me. Stopped for a month and now I'm back to normal.
[QUOTE=AtomicWaffle;48387635]Not sure I agree with 1:45. Maybe for some people, but isn't it perfectly logical to assume some people watch porn purely for the physical stimulation, and make little connection to anything else? By no means am I saying this from a zero-sum sort of viewpoint, of course we can and should make "better" porn. As far as I can tell though, this is sort of the direction that the industry is going in. More people are going for higher-quality content both in terms of how it is filmed and what is depicted. With the rise of amateur porn, more people seem to be looking for "natural" depictions of sex as opposed to the intensely artificial and "traditional" pornography. This video seems to make a lot of vague suggestions with little in the way of specific gripes.[/QUOTE]
They say a lot without actually saying anything other than, "visit our new porn site!"
I fully agree with the notion that shunning sexuality into a dark corner and treating it as nothing but crude/undignified is a recipe for self-loathing.
also porn as the rapy is down. :(
I think ethical porn is something we need to talk about a lot more (esp. after seeing the rise of those recent Netflix docos)
Porn where the people aren't cock hungry sluts exists. However liking aggressive porn like that shouldn't be shamed as harshly as it is either.
There is a distinct line between fantasy and reality in most peoples minds.
It just seems like a fancy ad. Their website is down but judging from the few pictures they showed in their video I don't see how it's any different. There is a lot of "artistic" porn in the same vein and if you want a more emotional porn there is stuff like erotic visual novels and regular erotic novels. For emotional porn videos I think it would have to be like a romantic movie for proper characters to develop, just with longer erotic scenes. Would that really be popular with men other than ero games? As it's more women who prefer emotional stuff that, most of the time I just want to jack off to something that looks nice and just be done with it and I am assuming that's true with most guys and that is why most porn videos are just sex. I don't see their website becoming very popular with their content only so that's why they are trying to sell it as a more "rich" experience.
this is why i watch x art, it's all emotional and shit, i don't wanna see a sweat asshole slapping meat into a greasy frothy vag
[QUOTE=.Isak.;48387898]this is why i watch x art, it's all emotional and shit, i don't wanna see a sweat asshole slapping meat into a greasy frothy vag[/QUOTE]
this is why i want hentai because i know i don't have to worry about some real, sentient tentacle monster invading my gf
I didn't like this video at all really, it assumes that the stuff depicted in porn is born purely out of the industry and has nothing to do with customer demand. She's trying to legitimize this by referring to people "closer to nature" such as "the Greeks" (let's just simplify I suppose) and Hindi people. Many of those Greek statues depict god(esse)s or important people, and even those that don't - do you really think the Greeks would've put up a statue depicting double penetration in a simulated rape scene?
As others have said this video is being way too vague, and it assumes way too much. There's a lot of porn I dislike, but yeah.
give me chaturbate, or give me death
It seems like an ad for adblock by the amount of ads it shows.
Now that I reread that, I noticed how ironic it sounded.
Porn better not become about feels. It's already hard enough to explain to many women that men watching porn are not cheating. If porn starts to involve feels it will ruin so many marriages.
Now I want to masturbate
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again
[QUOTE=itisjuly;48391042]Porn better not become about feels. It's already hard enough to explain to many women that men watching porn are not cheating. If porn starts to involve feels it will ruin so many marriages.[/QUOTE]
We should probably consider Romance novels porn.
[QUOTE=Rangergxi;48391240]We should probably consider Romance novels porn.[/QUOTE]
We don't already?
Im gonna guess the website they're advertiseing in the vid is basically like the vidoes you would find in pornhub's "for women" category.
no gay porn on their site. 0/10
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Contain your orgasms.
It's pretty much, "Imagine if we made porn, but as hipsters."
They say mainstream porn is disconnected from what we value and is just "purely sex" but the majority of mainstream porn has a semblance of a plot.
[QUOTE=slayer20;48388013]this is why i want hentai because i know i don't have to worry about some real, sentient tentacle monster invading my gf[/QUOTE]
That's what the tentacle monsters want you to think.
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i dunno i think pawn stars is pretty good as it is
This really talks about a lot of real problems before proceeding to draw the exact wrong thing from it and go in completely a weird and wrong direction.
A teenager discovering porn and feeling embarrassed about it is a problem because of the crudeness and I guess 'underground' nature of porn. But it's not because of the 'presentation' of it. It's because of the way we think about it. We're in a culture that is simultaneously exploring sexuality and breaking down walls into it while also being deeply ashamed of it the whole way through. We all have sex and we all masturbate, and we all pretend like we don't. It's why the concept of getting 'caught' masturbating exists in the first place, because for some reason, you're not supposed to be doing that. We all expect everyone to be a perfectly asexual being beyond sex for social competency as a male (because we shame virgins as well), and it's dumb.
And if one were to make porn with more of a story and more feelings and 'connections to things we care about', hamfistedly shoving in a book in to the picture because ~ooh look she's smart 'cause she's got a book~ or a boring slideshow of a date isn't going to do it. It's all still under studio lighting, all still with a HD camera, and all still staged. We aren't exactly constantly doing studio quality photography during our normal lives. If a dude was 'caught' looking at that website he'd still be embarrassed.
What needs to change isn't porn via shoving books in to make the most pretentious hipster photos, it's the way we think about sexuality. We need to be comfortable with sexuality, exploring sexuality, and the fact that others explore sexuality. We need to know that what we're doing is natural (because it is, sex doesn't need to be anything but itself to be a good thing).
It's hard to know where that should fall considering it's been so long since we've been comfortable with sex as an entire species. Maybe our modesty about it in it's entirety isn't healthy, and the real healthy way to approach sex is to practice sex openly or watch porn openly and have no walls at all. Or, it's one of the million different ways it could exist between that and what we have now. We're passively progressing as it is anyway. It's been a huge leap in progress from this
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to the situation we have now. Maybe we could do with a sexual comfort movement though, to jolt it forward and remind people that if you have sex, if you're watching porn, you're doing nothing wrong and if people walk in on it you've done nothing wrong and have nothing to be embarrassed about.
As for now, there are other issues in porn that have nothing to do with anything in this video. And I mean in the world of porn. While getting all righteous we tend to forget that the porn we're vilifying or saying needs to change contains real people too. Porn stars have their own problems, and many of them are extremely mistreated and need help. Many are trapped and exploited in the industry. And I'd say that's a much more immediate, solvable and necessary to solve problem than how a teenager feels about getting seen looking at tits.
Another thing that needs to change is porn sites, though. Most every porn site out there is full of pop ups, and ads that all link back to virus ridden websites and other bullshit. This needs to change, and stop. The fundamental problem is that these websites need funding and we're dogmatically committed to not buying porn anymore, ever, so they have to have ads, but they also can't have any ads [I]but[/I] these ones because Chevy isn't exactly going to advertise because again we've completely divorced sex from our normal lives and think of it is as dirty and shameful, so what the fuck
So I don't know how how one could do it. Crowdfunded porn sites maybe? A change in thought of sexuality having a passive effect of letting companies advertise on porn sites? Integrating porn on to normal sites like YouTube for a sort of Cartoon Network/Adult Swim effect, like Tumblr has going on? No clue.
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Also sex obsession is a real thing, but we again draw the complete wrong solutions from it, the biggest one being 'stop all masturbating stop all porn'. Or, like this, to change porn. Instead, we should promote not being obsessed with porn by just making porn a normal hobby and not something you're desperately addicted to. Fap responsibly.
Couldnt watch the video cus of this chicks voice, its just annoying :frown:
Here are five reasons why watching porn together can be good for your relationship:
1. It is a shared experience. Any time a couple can share a hobby, or even better, a sexual experience, they are investing in the longevity of their relationship. Going solo with porn is fine, but why not include your partner? In a memorable scene in The Kids Are Alright, Annette Bening and Julianne Moore played a lesbian couple who had their own fun under the sheets while watching a porn film together. Just make sure the kids are out of earshot before proceeding.
2. It's an easy way to learn about your partner's fantasies. Some people are very shy or ashamed about sharing their sexual fantasies with their partners. Others don't even know what really turns them on, much less what gets their spouses' engines revved. Thanks to the Internet, there's a veritable smorgasbord of video clips with professionals and amateurs playing out any and every possible sexual act. With a simple touch of a button, you might be fortunate enough to see your inner desires being acted out onscreen. For those rendered speechless by the question, "What do you fantasize about?" a video clip may say it all. That may be precious information if your partner really wants to learn how to please you. And a great lover aims to please.
3. It can speed up foreplay. In this modern world when everything and everyone is moving at an accelerated pace, the term "quickie" can take on a new significance. And if you have young children who are perpetually just one knock away from the bedroom door, you may need to expedite your intimate moments. According to New Scientist, "In a 2006 study at McGill University, researchers monitored genital temperature changes to measure sexual arousal and found that, when shown porn clips, men and women alike began displaying arousal within 30 seconds; men reached maximum arousal in about 11 minutes, women in about 12."
4. It shatters the myth that you can (and should) only be attracted to your mate. We need to admit and accept the fact that our partner can be turned on by others. Chances are great that you and/or your mate will be fantasizing about someone other than each other at some point during the course of a long-term relationship. Surely even Brad finds women besides Angelina to be attractive -- and visa-versa. Watching porn together allows you to see your partner's arousal at the image of another woman for what it is -- a biological response to a stimulus. There's no need to feel threatened and insecure.
5. It may lessen the need to act out on sexual desires outside of your relationship. Home is where the heart is, and home can also be the place where all of your sexual needs and fantasies are met. If couples can get down and dirty together, it may obviate the need for "extracurricular activities," and I don't mean the kind you can put on your resume. If you're sexually satisfied by your partner, you're less likely to look for gratification elsewhere. Some think that watching or thinking about another is tantamount to "cheating" on your mate, but this sort of mindset ignores a central fact of human sexuality -- most of us crave variety. Allowing your spouse to look at someone else out in cyberspace won't wreck your relationship, but forbidding him/her to do so might put a strain on it. And since it's probable that porn will be viewed, giving permission allows for honesty and openness about one's habits rather than feeling like they are shameful secrets that must be kept hidden. You won't need to clear your "history" on your laptop anymore.
For many, sex is the glue that keeps relationships together. If you and your mate haven't included pornography in your sexual arsenal, there's no time like the present. After all, couples that play together, stay together.
Or if you're far from your partner or you're still alone, why dont you try this:
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Porn would be better if people stop bitching about every nude or erotic scenes in movies or games. Also if ridiculous censoring would go away (like steam censoring Witcher 3 for some reason) than maybe porn might become something better than just videos for stimulation.
Also never like the style of these videos, like they're trying to sell me something.
[QUOTE=Velocet;48387654]I was into really hardcore shit to the point where a masturbating 20 year old didn't do a damn thing to me. Stopped for a month and now I'm back to normal.[/QUOTE]
I found that delving into weird-ass porn for years now means that proper, passionate and sensual lovemaking (Not the dime-a-dozen porn jackhammering) gets me more than anything. I seem to have swung over and back to normal sex.
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