I'm the type of person that always covers my tracks when smoking, (deodorant, clean up after myself and hide my things really well), but last night I had a few bowls in the bathroom (wet towel under the door, blow out the window and spray air freshener) then went on my computer for about 40 minutes while mum was watching a movie with the heater on (which is loud) so I thought I was safe.
Everything was fine until I had a stoner epiphany, "Hey.. there's no reason why I can't smoke in my room if I blow the smoke out of the window..." So I went into my room, grabbed my bong and weed, lit up a bowl and blew it out the window (at this time I was already pretty baked).
The wind blew the smoke straight back into my room..
I hid my bong and weed and put my earphones in and listened to loud music thinking "I'll be fine, mum never checks on me anyway". About 10 minutes later mum comes in saying something and stops mid sentence to say "It smells ..Funny in here.." (She knows what marijuana smoke smells like).
So I start panicking and thinking the same thought over and over "Man there's deodorant JUST THERE ON THE FLOOR NEXT TO ME! why was I so stupid >.< The only time I didn't spray after smoking and I get caught..".
Almost straight after, I hear mum whispering on the phone. 5 minutes after that Mum's friend comes over to give me a lecture about the whole situation. I don't really remember much of it since I was really high but he kept saying things just "IDGAF if you smoke at parties and drink etc, I was your age once but just DON'T ever bring that stuff home.". So I fall asleep after he had left, purposely slept in and missed school and was terrified to leave my bedroom in the morning.
Everything was extremely awkward. Mum didn't speak about it, which only made things a thousand times more awkward.
That leads us to now, typing this all out..
I'm not going to stop smoking anytime soon it's just.. should I talk to her about it or just ignore it? Should I still smoke in secrecy or not care since she knows?
She hasn't given any hints as to how she feels about it and I don't know what to do.
i'd talk to her because sometimes parents are more chill than you might think, from the sounds of it i'd say your mom doesn't really care too much. it'd probably just be easier to not smoke in the house though and let it drop.
smoking outside's way more fun anyway, if you can get outside when it's dark that's simply the best.
[editline]25th July 2011[/editline]
nighttime adventures are the shit.
nothing better than smoking outside at night
just dont smoke at home for a week or so and then get right back to it.
by the 4th time i was caught my mum didnt say anything, doubt they care anymore
What i did when i got caught, is have a deep long talk with her. Yeah she still doesn't want to do it anymore since im underage, and says when im 18 i can do whatever i want.
Just talk to her to get that awkwardness away.
Then again it depends on your mom. Everyones different.
Mum has the stereotype "Drugs are EVIL and you are now EVIL" prejudice towards anybody that touches them and I can't really sneak out every night since I live in a really small house and she'd notice that I'm not home.
It feels like nothing has happened since none of us has said a word about it.
I'll probably just continue to act like nothing has happened until she says something and smoke in extreme secrecy.
make her watch the union or something
Well she knows so try to negotiate and if not tell her you'll respect her wishes and not do it inside. I don't know your mother so it may be best to not even mention that you have shit in your room idk.
Edit: saw your new post :(
[QUOTE=Mac2468;31320079]make her watch the union or something[/QUOTE]
Just finished watching that movie. Excellent movie and I suggest everybody watch it.
Unlucky Rohan, we have had that awkward moment with my mum but she just said not to smoke it in the house. I would just let it blow over haha. Just don't have bowls as often and smoke when you have a shower so the smell can be squashed by all the hot water n fog n shit., good luck bro sesh soon :)
Lol you got off lucky. I was bitched at for the next week and a half after getting caught, and the awkwardness lasted for another few weeks
[QUOTE=Glitch360;31321178]Lol you got off lucky. I was bitched at for the next week and a half after getting caught, and the awkwardness lasted for another few weeks[/QUOTE]
You got off lucky. My friends mom is like "lol i wouldnt care if it was legal but it isnt so i fucking hate you" and before she confronted him about finding shit she told all of their relatives and I think a doctor or something.
[QUOTE=Krzystylez;31320171]
arrrrg[/QUOTE]
You might wanna snip that, unless the movie is actually free
i never got caught, i came out and told my mom i did it before it could ever happen
[editline]25th July 2011[/editline]
she was cool with it
i wish i could smoke more but my parents would freak out if i got caught. But, the comforting thing is that they are only against the legality of it. What i mean is, if it was legal they would be ok with it, however since its not, they want me to play it safe and not get caught (by the police or something) since i have a lot going for me (going to be a psychologist) and dont want me to ruin it by going in jail or something. Sigh* fucking want it to be legal already so i dont have to hide it.
Move to a state where its decriminalized :v:
[QUOTE=Krzystylez;31319592]Mum's friend comes over to give me a lecture about the whole situation. I don't really remember much of it since I was really high but he kept saying things just "IDGAF if you smoke at parties and drink etc, I was your age once but just DON'T ever bring that stuff home."
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Why was your mom's friend giving you permission to smoke and telling you it's not ok to bring it to the house, it's not his house and you're not his kid. By the way nice Avatar Mac2468, have you been watching their new show the Drunk and on Drugs Happy Funtime Hour?
These threads are useless
oh no guise mum found me what do i do
[QUOTE=En-Guage V2;31322998]These threads are useless
oh no guise mum found me what do i do[/QUOTE]
people panick so they come to ask wtf to do honestly me and my natural stoner self just shrugs it off and continue on with my life
it wasnt awkward when my mom caught me for the first time
which coincidentally was also my first time smoking
mainly because she had no problem telling me how horrible pot was and how bad i 'fucked up'
[QUOTE=confinedUser;31323957]people panick so they come to ask wtf to do honestly me and my natural stoner self just shrugs it off and continue on with my life[/QUOTE]
My family found my weed before but they never found me smoking it
They said "never do it again" and I haven't smoked much since then, but they've found lighters and other weed related stuff in my room so it's a giveaway
[QUOTE=En-Guage V2;31324731]My family found my weed before but they never found me smoking it
They said "never do it again" and I haven't smoked much since then, but they've found lighters and other weed related stuff in my room so it's a giveaway[/QUOTE]
my mom knows i smoke i smoke outside with buddies i really don't like smoking inside the house it kinda sucks
i didn't read the post, sorry i cant read very well right now(fuckin hangovers), but if it's anything like my situation just get her into a room alone. htis is essential because you can't have any outside distractions. you tell her how you feel about weed, how it makes you feel, what it does for you (if there are any medical reasons you should be smoking it, like me). I think i really got to her head and made her understand a slight bit more why i need to smoke weed to live a happy life. this talk may bring tears to eyes if it gets as deep as it was for me but thats ok man, crying is what helps people get things out. they realize that its something to cry about and ween that happens they feel the need to get it out if they're around others.
just dont bottle up hate for her if thts the case, dont. its the worst you can do
[editline]25th July 2011[/editline]
just read op, yeah if ythey are trying to make you think its terrible for them do what i said, talk to her. i mean REAL TALK with her
[QUOTE=Mac2468;31321533]i never got caught, i came out and told my mom i did it before it could ever happen
[editline]25th July 2011[/editline]
she was cool with it[/QUOTE]
my rents have no idea either, cant wait to tell her ive been smoking for years when i move out or if they catches me
Show your mum that your informed about your smoking decision (If you actually are). Give her fact sheets, statistics, and heart-filled promises of not fucking up.
The main things that parents worry about is that their kid will get caught from the law, get the household caught, lose focus on schoolwork/life, move onto different drugs.
Put all these notions at ease and you should be in the clear.
And lastly, talk about it wit yo momma boy.
make up some crap like "ill enjoy it responsibly once a week" or something, then do it erryday
She just asked you that you won't do it in the house, and she said that she doesn't care if you smoke and drink somewhere else, what's the big problem?
Sounds like she smoked some when she was your age, if anything, she's just worried that you'll get addicted (mentally! stop shouting!), she probably isn't mad, maybe because you stayed at home and she have to put up with you, but that's probably it.
Chill, it's going to be alright.
Well, sounds like your pretty much allowed to smoke as much as you want outside, so I'd take the offer, as long as you're not punished just for smoking.
I left my facebook logged in at my friends house, apparently his mom opened my messages and saw one related to us going and getting high. He said when she brought it up the next day, she was all "drugs are bad don't do them" but then his dad asked "Have you tried it twice? you gotta try it twice, i got nothing the first time..."
:v:
um dont listen to anyone suggesting talk with her, just dont bring it up and life will move on.
especially if she's not even mad.
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