• It's not gay if the guy looks like a chick.
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I'm back home for the Summer and I'm depressed/lovesick. There's this boy in college who's a friend of my friend (we're all freshmen). Whenever we bump into each other on campus without my friend to mediate, we just say hi or wave, but we never really talk. He looks like a teenage surfer dude complete with the long blonde hair and all. Because of the hair, which is coupled with quite feminine facial features, he looks like a girl, and a very pretty one at that. Man, I've spent much of the last semester lying in bed, thinking about this guy. I've found that my heterosexuality is more flexible than I had previously thought. Although, wouldn't the fact that it's the feminine qualities in this boy which are attracting me, actually AFFIRM my hetero-ness? Anyway, I've decided that when we reconvene in the Fall, I'm going to start talking to him, befriend him etc. The problem is that if I actually ask him out, I have absolutely no idea how he'll react. My worry is if he rejects me, laughs and then tells people about it. He's from North Carolina so he was probably raised to despise anything remotely homo. Maybe I could ply him with alcohol and hope something happens?
you know he is a man, thus you are gay not that it's wrong to be gay but if he hates homos do not do it obviously
you're wrong. It's gay if the guy is a guy.
You're thinking about tricking some guy into fucking you with beer? That's wrong.
Wait, I understand if you think he's attractive, but you want to ask him out? Straight up queer, dawg.
Mr. Optimistic, diagnose this man's gayness please.
[QUOTE=tehMuffinMan;21911480]You're thinking about tricking some guy into fucking you with beer? That's wrong.[/QUOTE] Yeah man if you are talking about getting a dude drunk and then fucking him that is why straight people become homophobic.
Just keep thinking that it ain't gay...
[QUOTE=tehMuffinMan;21911480]You're thinking about tricking some guy into fucking you with beer? That's wrong.[/QUOTE] That's even worse than using beer to trick somebody into fucking you. I don't even know how you fuck someone with beer. Oh, and just go with what feels right, OP. Labels are overrated and inadequate to describe sexuality.
Go fuck a girl and you'll never go gay.
Maybe you're a bromosexual.
Yeah it is.
Asking out part is a bigger problem. Also, having a crush on a guy and defending yourself because he looks feminine is a weak argument
[QUOTE=Trial By Fire;21911539]Just keep thinking that it ain't gay...[/QUOTE] But it is....
Remember, it's not gay if the balls don't touch!
You think it's not gay to like a dude who looks like a chick? Somebody is in denial
Sounds like someone is in denial. [editline]01:07AM[/editline] [QUOTE=ThePutty;21911626]You think it's not gay to like a dude who looks like a chick? Somebody is in denial[/QUOTE] Ninja'd.
It is kinda gay.. Nothing's wrong with it though
[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;21911462]you know he is a man, thus you are gay not that it's wrong to be gay but if he hates homos do not do it obviously[/QUOTE] I never said he's homophobic. I said he MIGHT be, since he comes from the South.
[QUOTE=Fables;21911529]Mr. Optimistic, diagnose this man's gayness please.[/QUOTE] Sorry, I retired.
Op, you're bi, not gay. [QUOTE=Bubz;21911948]Sorry, I retired.[/QUOTE] He's talking about another user.
Take his dick... And don't give it back. Hide it well.
What the fuck is up with all the tranny/crossdressing threads lately?
What's with all these threads? NINJA'D!
You are bi. Congrats! Welcome to the club.
I support you 105% of the way! IT's hetero for you, but I'm gay :D
I can understand finding him attractive, but not your lover.
Troll.
He's from NC? Ask him what he thinks about Gamecocks, paying special attention to his reaction to the 'cock' sound.
If a dude looks like a chick and is hot, then it's not gay. But, if you decide to proceed any further you are gay.
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