i wanted to make a thread about the interpretation i give to threads about people feeling not quite social enough or maybe slightly autistic (its not that i have disagreed with them, just understood them differently) but i feel too tired t do so, still i want to talk about something, so i will write about something which would've be included in the other thread; it is a strange behavior i have decided to call the "Deep Thinking behavior"
what i have noticed is that i always felt that i understood things really quick, but i had trouble explaining them to other people, it just frustrates me. it does not frustrate me trying to explain a math equation, but i usually am able to think about stuff, and i mean.. tons of stuff i could come up with conclusions too lots of ideas that would come to my mind but i couldn't tell them to other people. i felt able to understand things without the need of certain words.. its like when you understand the meaning of a word but you cant really explain it. So, what i want to say is that i have the ability to understand things of such "deepness" or "importance" because i understand the concepts and there are no words to describe them which is one of the reasons for me not being able to explain all these thoughts to other people.
well now, if you have read all the way down to here, you might be saying, thats just another 14 year old kid(yes 14, but take me seriously) making a thread about something stupid he feels he is special, but please don't, i really feel something real about this so, you don't have to believe me, but at least take me seriously. i am not the only one who i feel has this ability, but there are also two friends and the husband of my mothers friend, who i like to call my uncle, which count with the ability as well. it shows quite differently on each person but it still covers the same points. for example, one of my friends usually likes to be on his own and think, on his own. he likes being with the rest of his friends, but not for thinking. he usually doesn't explain stuff, cause he knows the rest of the group wont get it. but when i have something to explain, ill go explain it to him, because aside from him being intelligent or not, he has this ability, and so, he would understand me easily, without the need of too much explanation. the other friend instead, is more like innovative and really social, but he has his unique way of doing things, and i mean really unique. you wouldn't really notice it at first sight (the fact that he has the ability) but i have noticed he has a very special way to see the world, which catches my attention and he is interested in things that a normal guy from my age isn't. my uncle is the type of guy who is really fun and likes to tell stories about stuff he has done in the past, and advice he has, but usually he will never finish a story, because he opens a bracket in the middle of it and move on to another one.
So when does this turn into a behavior? it does when i start acting differently because i like to think. let me explain this: i usually try to meat people and be more social, but i don't really like meeting new people, i hate having to explain them who i am, what i like and what kind of things i like to think about. i sometimes feel superior, though i am really humble, and this helps me come up with predictions of other persons movements. well, this and some other things make me act in different ways than i really should, and when i noticed that was when i decided to call it a behavior.
The problems that these causes on me:
i feel like i am very contradictory. i am the quiet, reflective, humble and passive guy on my inside (my mind) but on my outside (what i transmit to people), is the annoying, talking, and disturbing part of me.
Another one is that I feel this behavior takes me apart from people because as I get frustrated by trying to explain to my friends all of this stuff I think about as it is really hard to get them to understand and they will probably end making fun of me. So I kind of step aside sometimes.
So what is the point of this thread anyways? It is for you to know this and me to Express myself, but specially i want to see ur comments about it.
[B]Long story short:[/B]
i feel like i have the ability to over understand staff really Fast but may not Express it to other people.
Oh, to emphasize the staff i think about is REALLY deep and sensitive, and i get tons of Solutions to important stuff.
Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
[QUOTE=DrPompo;19539823]
i feel like i have the ability to over understand staff really Fast but may not Express it to other people.
Oh, to emphasize the staff i think about is REALLY deep and sensitive, and i get tons of Solutions to important stuff.[/QUOTE]
If it's really that important to you.
complicated and lazy mang
jkjk
few people have this ability and some don't or say they do...
you have it and bluntly said makes you a great person who sees more than meets the eye
the usual solution is to shut your suck hole and think of how to 'express yourself' next or say something along the lines of
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThEAO0lt4Dw[/media]
every two seconds
[QUOTE=Fourm Shark;19539954]i have this too. hard to explain.[/QUOTE]
Pass it around!
i feel you bro
Ok, after reading the thread again, I still don't see the point of it
it's just another 14 year old kid(I'm 18, but take me seriously) making a thread about something stupid he feels he is special
[QUOTE=Aman V;19546426]it's just another 14 year old kid(I'm 18, but take me seriously) making a thread about something stupid he feels he is special[/QUOTE]
Oh ok, just wanted to check
tl;dr
[QUOTE=DrPompo;19539823] i usually try to [B]meat [/B]people and be more social
i sometimes feel [B]superior[/B][/quote]
Get your head out of your ass
I find trying explain as well hard to know doesn't want find think or something right
i hav the powr to move thangs with me mind but not when other pple are looking i get embarissed :blush:
Something find more than find less think and win it does
I just think I'm partially autistic
[QUOTE=Factory;19547005]I just think I'm partially autistic[/QUOTE]no your not
Is it just me or the first reply justifies the OP, because he makes absolutely no sense?
You do not have some special magical ability.
You are not a unique and beautiful snowflake.
You are just bad at explaining stuff.
Also learn proper spelling, punctuation, and grammar or no one will take you seriously.
Yeah,I mean.. I take you seriously,I just agree that you probably just have a difficult time explaining whats on your mind.. And this thread is an indication of that. Everyone is special in some way,and maybe that you grasp concepts rather quickly is something unique about you. But it's not an "odd behavior" nor is not being able to get your message across easily.
Idk though,maybe you read body language well,and you know your friends and family well enough that its easy to understand what they are getting at without much being said. Odd thread though,gave me a lil food for thought. But I just ended up feeling mildly confused. Work on your story telling skills.. Maybe you wont behave oddly afterwords.
Congrats you have Assburgers.
Wow man you sound a lot like me. I get frustrated when people don't understand anything when i explain it. Also that thing you said about predicting movements also happens to me a fair bit but I also sub-consciously plan and and predict entire conversations with people before they happen. I don't sit there planning it out but I usually have a response for everything someone says and know what they will say after I say something. This said I have a lot of trouble starting conversations.
I always have expected the unexpected which as you would imagine makes it unexpected. I don't jump at balloons popping or react at doors slamming, I didn't even jump when a truck and a car had a head on collision 10 meters away from my house.
With the thing about how you see yourself as superior but not intentionally I think I do that too but I also see myself as different to everyone else in the world, I'll admit I'm wierd but I understand how to be social well enough to know what is acceptable and not.
I'm not trying to brag or anything but this may be due to how fast you learn (IQ) mine was 1t 148 when I was 3 or 4 or whenever I had the test.
I could probavbly give a lot of examples of stuff I do like this so I hope this thread stays alive.
Also I don't think he is trying to say he feels special, I'm guessing he means different.
I can't explain shit either.
Mughfuggin...bix nood.
[QUOTE=The Janitor;19548237]Wow man you sound a lot like me. I get frustrated when people don't understand anything when i explain it. Also that thing you said about predicting movements also happens to me a fair bit but I also sub-consciously plan and and predict entire conversations with people before they happen. I don't sit there planning it out but I usually have a response for everything someone says and know what they will say after I say something. This said I have a lot of trouble starting conversations.
I always have expected the unexpected which as you would imagine makes it unexpected. I don't jump at balloons popping or react at doors slamming, I didn't even jump when a truck and a car had a head on collision 10 meters away from my house.
With the thing about how you see yourself as superior but not intentionally I think I do that too but I also see myself as different to everyone else in the world, I'll admit I'm wierd but I understand how to be social well enough to know what is acceptable and not.
I'm not trying to brag or anything but this may be due to how fast you learn (IQ) mine was 1t 148 when I was 3 or 4 or whenever I had the test.
I could probavbly give a lot of examples of stuff I do like this so I hope this thread stays alive.
Also I don't think he is trying to say he feels special, I'm guessing he means different.[/QUOTE]
you aren't special
i'd elaborate but i think too deeply to be able to explain it to you properly so im not even gonna try k?
[QUOTE=The Janitor;19548237]Wow man you sound a lot like me. I get frustrated when people don't understand anything when i explain it. Also that thing you said about predicting movements also happens to me a fair bit but I also sub-consciously plan and and predict entire conversations with people before they happen. I don't sit there planning it out but I usually have a response for everything someone says and know what they will say after I say something. This said I have a lot of trouble starting conversations.
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What the fuck get out of my head.
[QUOTE=_Twitch_;19548316]you aren't special
i'd elaborate but i think too deeply to be able to explain it to you properly so im not even gonna try k?[/QUOTE]
Learn to read the end of the post idiot. I didn't say once I was special. Everyone is different and this is how I'm different from a lot of others.
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[QUOTE=Mister B;19548358]What the fuck get out of my head.[/QUOTE]
Not a mind reader I just learnt what responses you get from what you say.
Serenity now...
i think the problem is this [quote]i usually try to [B]meat [/B]people [/quote]
Go emo, problem solved.
[QUOTE=The Janitor;19548237]Also I don't think he is trying to say he feels special, I'm guessing he means different.[/QUOTE]
That's what i meant,
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